pinceprinz:
Dude, everybody that's in for the commitment will have your mind.


Problems arise in relationships when one party's taking it real and the other is just up for some games.


Wish u meet your kinda person

chigo93:
So wats your kind of person like?

PunkyVeer:
OMG, this sounds just like me to the alphabet. Emotional connection over anything else & it requires I be in the presence of someone so I can "absorb" them, no distraction.

PunkyVeer:
OMG, this sounds just like me to the alphabet. Emotional connection over anything else & it requires I be in the presence of someone so I can "absorb" them, no distraction.

chigo93:
@ donholy28 the writeup read I prefer the emotional kinda lady.

donholy28:
Yes and u no mention dix ur kind way only some certain girls fit like.

SlimCupid:
Well mr Op,I'm exactly ur kinda guy.I don't party to go to clubs.When I'm not at work,I must be at home,thinking,writing or just doing something.I'm the highest grade introvert you'll ever meet.Only our kind can understand us,and you simply don't see them around cos they're always outta the public eye too.

chigo93:
I made this write up so we could have fun discussing what we think is the best route a relationship should take.

I know guys that will never feel happiness sitting with a lady at home ,they instead prefer partying and clubbing with their bettterhalf than sitting down fantacising on funny issues like how many kids they would like to have in future. In other words, u lyk boredom, sitting n fantasizing about funny issues n kids can be covered in 10 mins. But over some bottles, dia is no limit to the issues dat will be discussed I tell u.


It's cool commenting

KlaireKlement:
I think I'd stop ma keke here...I'm seeing people who share thesame ideas with me.I used to think I'm weird cos I'm not the very loud type.Discovered recently its just who I am

chigo93:
Forgive my inquisitiveness, so do you share the same trait with the love of your life, is he your kind of person,or a different individual from you?

KlaireKlement:

Aint in any relationship right now.....Buh when I eventually get ready to go into another,I'd want sum1 who is like me.At least I'd be sure of the fact that he'd understand my person.

chigo93:
A little voice tells me the former wasn't your kinda and he also wasn't cool.

Maybe this little voice is wrong,just maybe.

MrsPhyno:
I'm the kinda gal who is anything you want me to be

So if you like quiet walks in the park I can do that and if you like turning up at the club I can do that too

chigo93:
for how long a time?

KlaireKlement:

I wont confirm or deny what that little voice is whispering...So lets just leave it at"maybe";just as u said*winks*

chigo93:
Lest I forget you've got a very nice nose

chigo93:
What helps foster a relationship is connection. The emphasis is on connection,how this connection takes place is very important in deciphering the kind of lady you call your own.

Some relationships fare better when both parties are the type that love social events like partying,discussing over a bottle of drink,outings basically. This way, the lady sees the guy as a fun person to be with,basically no dull moments and both parties are happy,their connection is based on a social scale.

On the other hand, a guy like me will not date a lady with the traits as stated above. I really admire ladies that can just sit at home with their half and talk about issues and even keep the discussion going for hours,this kind of connection is more on an emotional scale. When you love such a lady you just feel this sense of emotional attachment. When ladies like this love a guy,they love him with every atom in their entire being,he doesn't even have to worry about spending one naira taking her out and she will still see no issues in it. Such relationships fare better when two humans (a male and a female) stay in the comfort of their abode and sort themselves out.

My question is, which category does your betterhalf fall into?

IamAtribalist:


Don't be a fool. Never connect with any woman emotionally. Women are incapable of emotional connection. The ONLY thing a woman wants to connect with is your resources (aka money) when that is gone, you will no that all those 'tears' were fake as shyte. A woman is NOT a emotional being. She pretends to be but in reality she has a heart of stone - olumo rock to be precise.