AfricanApple:
na wetin religion don turn some people to be that, if you no wise you go suffer, they say its survival of the fittest

Ginaz:
if I were in her position, I won't have known what to do. God please give me a husband that is good in bed o, that can satisfy his wife in everything. amen!

missmary:
I still dont support premarital sex... Her husband wasnt honest with her... I say she divorces him... Even God will understand...

proxillin:


Impotency is when you stick cant stand. If you are going for fertility test, your dik must stand to release spem. If you dck cant stand you are impotent.

Its different from erectile dysfunction. Erectile dysfunction is when you can erect, but cant last for a normal period or ejaculate too soon.

Impotency is when u cant even erect at all.

Hope u gerrit

wristbangle:
Kachisbarbie, what do u have to say ma?

I done talk my own. I only came here to correct people mistaking impotency for infertility.
I feel she was dull for staying that long in a marriage founded on DECEIT. There was never a marriage...

chymystique:
Ladies should learn what from this story? Its the ladies fault though... why didnt they go for fertility tests before the marriage plans?

I still insist that "No Sex Before Marriage" is one of the best things ever for any intending couple

proxillin:
This happened live and direct in my church.

There is this woman in her 40s who usually sits at the pastor's office. I noticed she behaves like someone undergoing mental deliverance. I remember few times when church prayer warriors organize special prayers for her.

She was healed yesterday and our pastor was happy. I am very close to the pastor. When we were together, in his happy mood he told me what happened to the woman.

The woman was a Deeper Life member (this is not intended to paint any set of people bad. This is a real life story. I have to state out all the facts. Apologies to Deeper Life Christians).

She met her man in the same church. They were both Virgin. Based on Christian doctrine - No sex before wedding.

After wedding, she expected the man to start making moves, nothing was happening. The husband is like a serving junior pastor in the church.

She started making the moves. And whenever she does, the man was always giving excuses.

"I will minister today, I have to prepare my sermon notes"
"Its a prayer night...I want to be clean before God"
"Blah blah"

The woman could not longer take it. One day, she closed the door, forced herself on him, brought out his pinis, tried to arouse it, nothing happened.

That was when the woman started asking questions. After a lengthy argument, he confessed that he is impotent. And he has been keeping it a secret from his wife (A pastor for that matter).

This lady is core believer (You know deeper Life people na). She decided to stay. No divorce in Christianity. Once you swore an oath on the alter, you are in it for life. Based on her own believe ooooooo. Not mine. Because some churches may not divorce, but separation is allowed especially when they are endangering their own lives through fights and others.

She stayed in the marriage for 20 years. Her younger sister who got married after her now has 3 kids. She is still single and a virgin.

Her ability to bear all this tribulation started running down. She started having mental issues.

The first one happened, when her sister was celebrating her daughter's birthday. They had a little disagreement and she scattered the whole party. When they called family meeting to settle the issue was when she busted out and told her people "Can you Imagine, I am still a virgin". It was like film trick to the family.

Ever since then, she will be walking on the street, talking alone. If you ask her a question, she will be saying something else.

To cut the story short, someone brought her to our church. Where she has been undergoing reform. My pastor summoned her husband. As pastor to pastor. He told him "You are a wicked human being". "You have sinned against man, and God". Its true you have a problem. You are a pastor, spill your problem out, let the world help you. You kept it secret and even subjected your woman to a marital bondage for years. You have wasted her life. Where do you want her to start from?

The genesis of this no sex before marriage. I am not supporting anyone to engage in premarital sex, however, you need to find a way to know your partner during courtship.

Its either you marry an impotent or a sexomaniac. I remember a man that have sex with his wife 8 times a day. Whenever he is coming back from work, his wife will be crying.

Ladies Learn!

chymystique:
Ladies should learn what from this story? Its the ladies fault though... why didnt they go for fertility tests before the marriage plans?

I still insist that "No Sex Before Marriage" is one of the best things ever for any intending couple

dharay99:

lemme †ry read.
#0k modified#


Uhm der ain† non lesson here,
dem no dey romance b⁴ marriage ni.?
Tho I'm in support of no sex b⁴ marriage
buh i & my wife-†o-be mus† underqo thorough
screening in & ou† b⁴ we even†ually qe† locked up.!

dharay99:

lemme †ry read.
#0k modified#


Uhm der ain† non lesson here,
dem no dey romance b⁴ marriage ni.?
Tho I'm in support of no sex b⁴ marriage
buh i & my wife-†o-be mus† underqo thorough
screening in & ou† b⁴ we even†ually qe† locked up.!

Kachisbarbie:

Erectile dysfunction (ED) otherwise known as impotence is the inability to HAVE OR SUSTAIN an ere.ction.
Impotency is never ever when you can't erect at all.
Your deek mustn't stand for a fertility test, sperm could be extracted(TESA, TESE...etc).

Are you a medical practitioner? because I would be very surprised hearing this from one _ That's me opposing your statement @ "your deek must stand...", no it mustn't stand.



I done talk my own. I only came here to correct people mistaking impotency for infertility.
I feel she was dull for staying that long in marriage founded on DECEIT. There was never a marriage...

proxillin:



CHesosi...You know Nigerian medical lab will tell to sleep with your woman or masturbate to extract your sperm. It happened to me.

Nigeria

You can claim to be religious_ so masturbation is against your belief.
There are cases of men on days on IVF egg retrieval who couldn't masturbate due to tension, they had to get that sperm out somehow if it wasn't frozen previously.

The wife to be won't be inside the lab with you, shey na to carry test result come show her?

Lols @ emboldened. There are big fertility clinics that can extract here in Nigeria

MzMay:

"Screening in & out"

Kachisbarbie:

Erectile dysfunction (ED) otherwise known as impotence is the inability to HAVE OR SUSTAIN an ere.ction.
Impotency is never ever when you can't erect at all.
Your deek mustn't stand for a fertility test, sperm could be extracted(TESA, TESE...etc).

Are you a medical practitioner? because I would be very surprised hearing this from one _ That's me opposing your statement @ "your deek must stand...", no it mustn't stand.



I done talk my own. I only came here to correct people mistaking impotency for infertility.
I feel she was dull for staying that long in a marriage founded on DECEIT. There was never a marriage...

proxillin:


Impotency is when you stick cant stand. If you are going for fertility test, your dik must stand to release spem. If you dck cant stand you are impotent.

Its different from erectile disfunction. Erectile dysfunction is when you can erect, but cant last for a normal period or ejeculate too soon.

Impotency is when u cant even erect at all.

Hope u gerrit

wristbangle:


U dey mind them. Anyway we are here to learn and thank God u have cited the discrepancies between infertility and impotent.

My own definition

Infertility: Dick fit big or small or stand kakaraka like zuma rock but the akamu no fit fertile babe egg.

Impotent: Dick gear no go gree pick race. E go dey sleep like lazy cat but the akamu go dey fertile.

To me na infertility worst pass. Dem fit hijack person akamu whey e dey impotent, knack am for inside one babe belle make e become jonny bravo.

proxillin post=386 :
Whenever he is coming back from work, his wife will be crying.

Ladies Learn!

proxillin:


This thread is getting informative. I am learning. Thank God I posted this story

wristbangle:


U dey mind them. Anyway we are here to learn and thank God u have cited the discrepancies between infertility and impotent.

My own definition

Infertility: Dick fit big or small or stand kakaraka like zuma rock but the akamu no fit fertile babe egg.

Impotent: Dick gear no go gree pick race. E go dey sleep like lazy cat but the akamu go dey fertile.

To me na infertility worst pass. Dem fit hijack person akamu whey e dey impotent, knack am for inside one babe belle make e become jonny bravo.

Kachisbarbie:


hahahaha.
We were having this discussion one weekend o. Which one worse pass between Impotency and Infertility...
I was almost alone for Infertility, some even said they are the same thing, others said impotency is worse.

The thing is, we should never pray for a partner that would look you in the eye and lie to you on issues like this. It's heartbreaking...

GraceInUSA:
wicked human beings all over the place. This is why I insist on fertility test for couples before marriage because nowadays, nobody is a saint. I believe marriage should be built on trust not deciet. Although, I hate divorce but if I were in her shoes, na to divorce the man o. God will understand.

proxillin:


My Church is CAC...When we are talking about pre-marital sex, CAC is close to deeper Life



Why exactly do you want to have her address?



Really? So you be FBI or CIA ?



Wait a minute...evidence to prove what? Remind me again? Who will pay me salary for convincing you?



Where in my text/post did I blame the woman for not engaging pre-marital sex? I said if you can't engage in sex, then look for a way to know your partner. You and people like you should please read my post again.



Finally, you gave out something reasonable



Yes...I support



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