Marriage was not comsummated. Its null and void inshort I wasnt a marriage. A wedding was done but no marriage happened afterwards. She has every right to divorce and marry another

hotwax:
Op..its hard to convince wereys. Telling ladies to shine their eyes is sensible enough for a sane human.

Ladies beware...are u impotent?

bronzegoddess:


Ladies beware...are u impotent?

Im not sure. Can we do a test together.

delishpot:
Marriage was not comsummated. Its null and void inshort I wasnt a marriage. A wedding was done but no marriage happened afterwards. She has every right to divorce and marry another

There is no divorce in church marriage...however there is room for seperation.

bronzegoddess:




I still don't see why you are addressing the ladies Still not making any sense, tbh.

I expected u to also urge guys who are impotent to open up to their partners. U are simply asking us to "look before we leap". No sense whatsoever. No sense.

if we are dating, so you expect me to open up to you that im impotent ?

See as i just dey look u

hotwax:


There is no divorce in church marriage...however there is room for seperation.

It wasnt consummated it isnt considered a marriage. A wedding was done no marriage happened.

eyinjuege:
I'm yet to see or know of any medical test that can determine a man's sexual prowess. I know of fertility tests. Infertility and impotency are two very different distinct entities and it seems a lot of people on this thread are not even aware of this!

What if i told you that i never knew that there's anything called fertility test ? *covers face*

tosyne2much:
What if i told you that i never knew that there's anything called fertility test ? *covers face*

Hehehehh. Fertility tests are just your normal sperm count stuff for the men. A man can be a stud in bed but can be shooting blanks hence can't impregnate a woman. However, being impotent means he can't even get it up which was the case painted in this scenario;talk more of shooting anything whether blank or loaded sef

eyinjuege:


Hehehehh. Fertility tests are just your normal sperm count stuff for the men. A man can be a stud in bed but can be shooting blanks hence can't impregnate a woman. However, being impotent means he can't even get it up which was the case painted in this scenario;talk more of shooting anything whether blank or loaded sef

Hehehe


May God never let us know impotency

hotwax:


There is no divorce in church marriage...however there is room for seperation.

my church has dissolved a marriage like this before. The woman was allowed to re-marry.

Omotayor123:
The last line got me cracked up.. Lol

Wow.. That's Educative. These days people go to hospital for tests before marriage. They should have done that. Well, the deed has been done And I pity the woman.

She should have at least open up to her family. God knows how she was able to endure up to that point. The husband wicked no be small

I pray she finds Happiness.
Thanks OP for sharing this.
Lesson learnt!

See where NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE landed her

Wetin com-sign me sha

masterchi:
my church has dissolved a marriage like this before. The woman was allowed to re-marry.

Wooow

eyinjuege:


Hehehehh. Fertility tests are just your normal sperm count stuff for the men. A man can be a stud in bed but can be shooting blanks hence can't impregnate a woman. However, being impotent means he can't even get it up which was the case painted in this scenario;talk more of shooting anything whether blank or loaded sef

Undergoing fertility test will reveal if someone is impotent or not.

Atleast u will be d one to shoot the load out. If u cant...then thats where doctors will start asking u questions.

tosyne2much:
if we are dating, so you expect me to open up to you that im impotent ?

See as i just dey look u

U are "misusing ur stupidity"

hotwax:


Im not sure. Can we do a test together.

I'm sure this is the "look befor you leap" the o.p is talking about. Nonsense and ingredients

All these to make ladies open their legs before marriage.
Feel so sorry for all the naive impressionable ladies who will read this.

This sounds like a Nollywood film

bronzegoddess:


U are "misusing ur stupidity"

Ooooooh !!!

I never knew one cannot joke with you.. Well, it's all my fault

@OP! am sure wen d woman was giving testimony, u were busy on NL. Kindly go back to sum1 dat was attentive and hear the story well. Habaaaa! make una atleast dey fear God............. 20years in marriage and devil was so restless he didnt push the man to make a move.

Nollywood sef don advance small.

proxillin:
This happened live and direct in my church.

There is this woman in her 40s who usually sits at the pastor's office. I noticed she behaves like someone undergoing mental deliverance. I remember few times when church prayer warriors organize special prayers for her.

She was healed yesterday and our pastor was happy. I am very close to the pastor. When we were together, in his happy mood he told me what happened to the woman.

The woman was a Deeper Life member (this is not intended to paint any set of people bad. This is a real life story. I have to state out all the facts. Apologies to Deeper Life Christians).

She met her man in the same church. They were both Virgin. Based on Christian doctrine - No sex before wedding.

After wedding, she expected the man to start making moves, nothing was happening. The husband is like a serving junior pastor in the church.

She started making the moves. And whenever she does, the man was always giving excuses.

"I will minister today, I have to prepare my sermon notes"
"Its a prayer night...I want to be clean before God"
"Blah blah"

The woman could not longer take it. One day, she closed the door, forced herself on him, brought out his pinis, tried to arouse it, nothing happened.

That was when the woman started asking questions. After a lengthy argument, he confessed that he is impotent. And he has been keeping it a secret from his wife (A pastor for that matter).

This lady is core believer (You know deeper Life people na). She decided to stay. No divorce in Christianity. Once you swore an oath on the alter, you are in it for life. Based on her own believe ooooooo. Not mine. Because some churches may not divorce, but separation is allowed especially when they are endangering their own lives through fights and others.

She stayed in the marriage for 20 years. Her younger sister who got married after her now has 3 kids. She is still single and a virgin.

Her ability to bear all this tribulation started running down. She started having mental issues.

The first one happened, when her sister was celebrating her daughter's birthday. They had a little disagreement and she scattered the whole party. When they called family meeting to settle the issue was when she busted out and told her people "Can you Imagine, I am still a virgin". It was like film trick to the family.

Ever since then, she will be walking on the street, talking alone. If you ask her a question, she will be saying something else.

To cut the story short, someone brought her to our church. Where she has been undergoing reform. My pastor summoned her husband. As pastor to pastor. He told him "You are a wicked human being". "You have sinned against man, and God". Its true you have a problem. You are a pastor, spill your problem out, let the world help you. You kept it secret and even subjected your woman to a marital bondage for years. You have wasted her life. Where do you want her to start from?

The genesis of this no sex before marriage. I am not supporting anyone to engage in premarital sex, however, you need to find a way to know your partner during courtship.

Its either you marry an impotent or a sexomaniac. I remember a man that have sex with his wife 8 times a day. Whenever he is coming back from work, his wife will be crying.

Ladies Learn!

Wonderful! But you forgot to advertise tell us the name of your church.

Again, has the woman been disvirgined already?

What kind of healing did she get?

Is she still married to the impotent pastor?

Abeggi....wetin be d name of your church

A similar thing happened and the marriage was dissolve!



The Pastor argued that the marraige was based on deceit (The man for keeping His impotency secret) and that one the major purpose of marriage (Procreation) has been defeated. So He dissolved it!

*The story sounds fake though*

Howcome the lady didnt cry out on time?

Excuse op, you're missing one "fact" out... I'm still looking for your church's name.... please if anybody find it before me signify by raising ur head....

I remember a man that have sex with his wife 8 times a day. Whenever he is coming back from work, his wife will be crying.

[/quote] lolsss.....Na Dog d man be?

Eeeya very sad, where is this woman so I can deliver her properly in my private delivery room no charge

eyinjuege:
What exactly are ladies to learn from this story? Are you saying virginity is overrated, and no point keeping oneself before marriage? Pls come out plain and let the ladies know exactly what you think they ought to learn.

what the op is saying is to know the status of your partner all encompassing. Virginity is good of course, if they had gone for medical tests they probably would have discovered this particular issue, but no they didn't.

LADIES,BEWARE OF ANY MAN THAT TUCKS IN,WEAR CANOE SHOE,WEARS COAT UNDER SUN N LOVES PREACHING EXCESSIVELY N TREKS ALOT.THESE ARE THE SIGNS OF A MAN WHO CAN TURN AN OLOSHO IN2 A VIRGIN.

proxillin:
This happened live and direct in my church.

There is this woman in her 40s who usually sits at the pastor's office. I noticed she behaves like someone undergoing mental deliverance. I remember few times when church prayer warriors organize special prayers for her.

She was healed yesterday and our pastor was happy. I am very close to the pastor. When we were together, in his happy mood he told me what happened to the woman.

The woman was a Deeper Life member (this is not intended to paint any set of people bad. This is a real life story. I have to state out all the facts. Apologies to Deeper Life Christians).

She met her man in the same church. They were both Virgin. Based on Christian doctrine - No sex before wedding.

After wedding, she expected the man to start making moves, nothing was happening. The husband is like a serving junior pastor in the church.

She started making the moves. And whenever she does, the man was always giving excuses.

"I will minister today, I have to prepare my sermon notes"
"Its a prayer night...I want to be clean before God"
"Blah blah"

The woman could not longer take it. One day, she closed the door, forced herself on him, brought out his pinis, tried to arouse it, nothing happened.

That was when the woman started asking questions. After a lengthy argument, he confessed that he is impotent. And he has been keeping it a secret from his wife (A pastor for that matter).

This lady is core believer (You know deeper Life people na). She decided to stay. No divorce in Christianity. Once you swore an oath on the alter, you are in it for life. Based on her own believe ooooooo. Not mine. Because some churches may not divorce, but separation is allowed especially when they are endangering their own lives through fights and others.

She stayed in the marriage for 20 years. Her younger sister who got married after her now has 3 kids. She is still single and a virgin.

Her ability to bear all this tribulation started running down. She started having mental issues.

The first one happened, when her sister was celebrating her daughter's birthday. They had a little disagreement and she scattered the whole party. When they called family meeting to settle the issue was when she busted out and told her people "Can you Imagine, I am still a virgin". It was like film trick to the family.

Ever since then, she will be walking on the street, talking alone. If you ask her a question, she will be saying something else.

To cut the story short, someone brought her to our church. Where she has been undergoing reform. My pastor summoned her husband. As pastor to pastor. He told him "You are a wicked human being". "You have sinned against man, and God". Its true you have a problem. You are a pastor, spill your problem out, let the world help you. You kept it secret and even subjected your woman to a marital bondage for years. You have wasted her life. Where do you want her to start from?

The genesis of this no sex before marriage. I am not supporting anyone to engage in premarital sex, however, you need to find a way to know your partner during courtship.

Its either you marry an impotent or a sexomaniac. I remember a man that have sex with his wife 8 times a day. Whenever he is coming back from work, his wife will be crying.

Ladies Learn!

are you sure this is a true life story

Op u hav nt Completed d Story oo.. Wads d name of Ur church?. i guess it shd be "The Church for delivering Impotent"..

GogobiriLalas:
Eeeya very sad, where is this woman so I can deliver her properly in my private delivery room no charge

WHY I MINUTE MEN SABI BRAG?

proxillin:
This happened live and direct in my church.

There is this woman in her 40s who usually sits at the pastor's office. I noticed she behaves like someone undergoing mental deliverance. I remember few times when church prayer warriors organize special prayers for her.

She was healed yesterday and our pastor was happy. I am very close to the pastor. When we were together, in his happy mood he told me what happened to the woman.

The woman was a Deeper Life member (this is not intended to paint any set of people bad. This is a real life story. I have to state out all the facts. Apologies to Deeper Life Christians).

She met her man in the same church. They were both Virgin. Based on Christian doctrine - No sex before wedding.

After wedding, she expected the man to start making moves, nothing was happening. The husband is like a serving junior pastor in the church.

She started making the moves. And whenever she does, the man was always giving excuses.

"I will minister today, I have to prepare my sermon notes"
"Its a prayer night...I want to be clean before God"
"Blah blah"

The woman could not longer take it. One day, she closed the door, forced herself on him, brought out his pinis, tried to arouse it, nothing happened.

That was when the woman started asking questions. After a lengthy argument, he confessed that he is impotent. And he has been keeping it a secret from his wife (A pastor for that matter).

This lady is core believer (You know deeper Life people na). She decided to stay. No divorce in Christianity. Once you swore an oath on the alter, you are in it for life. Based on her own believe ooooooo. Not mine. Because some churches may not divorce, but separation is allowed especially when they are endangering their own lives through fights and others.

She stayed in the marriage for 20 years. Her younger sister who got married after her now has 3 kids. She is still single and a virgin.

Her ability to bear all this tribulation started running down. She started having mental issues.

The first one happened, when her sister was celebrating her daughter's birthday. They had a little disagreement and she scattered the whole party. When they called family meeting to settle the issue was when she busted out and told her people "Can you Imagine, I am still a virgin". It was like film trick to the family.

Ever since then, she will be walking on the street, talking alone. If you ask her a question, she will be saying something else.

To cut the story short, someone brought her to our church. Where she has been undergoing reform. My pastor summoned her husband. As pastor to pastor. He told him "You are a wicked human being". "You have sinned against man, and God". Its true you have a problem. You are a pastor, spill your problem out, let the world help you. You kept it secret and even subjected your woman to a marital bondage for years. You have wasted her life. Where do you want her to start from?

The genesis of this no sex before marriage. I am not supporting anyone to engage in premarital sex, however, you need to find a way to know your partner during courtship.

Its either you marry an impotent or a sexomaniac. I remember a man that have sex with his wife 8 times a day. Whenever he is coming back from work, his wife will be crying.

Ladies Learn!

U and ur pastor's na story tellers. Mental problems are not healed in churches or with miracles.