Dyt:
Later now they will shout feminism
Where's the man now
Is that not his duties to take care of the kids, why dies she have to work so hard doing the mans role
Bunch of lazy men every where
Figure heads

luba9876:

you are not serious. just because she said her son graduated from yale does not mean she trained him alone. must the father also come here and tell us his own side of the story?

Dyt:
Later now they will shout feminism
Where's the man now
Is that not his duties to take care of the kids, why does she have to work so hard doing the mans role
Bunch of lazy men every where
Figure heads

lilmax:
two cases

1.if she's a feminist then there's nothing wrong in what the man is doing afterall feminists see men as equals so no HEAD of the house

2.if she's not a feminist then there's something wrong with the man for not taking up his responsibilities

Dyt:
Later now they will shout feminism
Where's the man now
Is that not his duties to take care of the kids, why does she have to work so hard doing the mans role
Bunch of lazy men every where
Figure heads

edwife:


So a woman posts about how she has three jobs and struggling to send her kids to school without saying anything about the husband or a man in the picture,but you just concluded that the man is somewhere doing nothing?

Did you consider that she could be a single mum or a widow? And when does working became a man's role?

@ topic, that is what a mother should do,when you don't have support from anyone,get those hands dirty to support your kids rather than blaming the world for your situation.

bukatyne:


So non-feminists see themselves as inferior to men? Well, you have a point

Depends on how they see themselves

Also, the headship of a husband has nothing to do with equality/provision

headship of a husband has to do with taking care of the family

AND let us assume she is a feminist, believe a man and woman is equal and there is no 'head', shouldn't equality here mean she and her husband work to finance the home?

yes

Going by your logic, the woman is the head of her home.

of course she has taken the responsibility of the man

@OP:

Good one, may God bless and reward her.

Dyt:
Later now they will shout feminism
Where's the man now
Is that not his duties to take care of the kids, why does she have to work so hard doing the mans role
Bunch of lazy men every where
Figure heads

edwife:


So a woman posts about how she has three jobs and struggling to send her kids to school without saying anything about the husband or a man in the picture,but you just concluded that the man is somewhere doing nothing?

Did you consider that she could be a single mum or a widow? And when does working became a man's role?

@ topic, that is what a mother should do,when you don't have support from anyone,get those hands dirty to support your kids rather than blaming the world for your situation.

edwife:


So a woman posts about how she has three jobs and struggling to send her kids to school without saying anything about the husband or a man in the picture,but you just concluded that the man is somewhere doing nothing?

Did you consider that she could be a single mum or a widow? And when does working became a man's role?

@ topic, that is what a mother should do,when you don't have support from anyone,get those hands dirty to support your kids rather than blaming the world for your situation.

Dyt:


What do I know

Emabinu ma

bukatyne:


@Bold:

What is a man's role?

TooNoisy:


She meant when does working become exclusive to the man! I thought that was very obvious

bukatyne:


Ma'am,

I would prefer if you let her answer for herself.

Her question is 'when does working becomes a man's role?'

So pardon me if your answer doesn't address my question.

TooNoisy:


She's not gonna answer you, becos you asked a not so intelligent question. It is obvious what she meant so if you don't get it - too bad!

bukatyne:


Now she asks 'when does working becomes a man's role' and I believe the logical question to ask is 'What is a man's role'.

TooNoisy:


You are wrong, that is not a logical question to ask. It is sooo obviously she did not mean men should sit at home and not do anything. The rest of her comment clearly shows such. She even suggested may be her husband may be dead - meaning there may be no man! So if you still cannot figure out what she meant - too bad, she doesn't need to respond!

bukatyne:

I can see you suddenly have become her spokesperson and ready for noise making this fine morning
I am not a mind reader So What she meant is not 'obvious'. She is a firm believer of a wife being in charge of the home domestically So it is only natural I assume the husband is in charge of finances.
Now she asks 'when does working becomes a man's role' and I believe the logical question to ask is 'What is a man's role'.
Except you live in her mind or you are her alternate moniker, shut up and let her answer What she means herself if she is inclined to do So.

TooNoisy:


Very well said. Who knows her real story? Who knows if her husband is dead?

Who knows if she had those three children for three different men? She looks young to have kids in college. May be she was wayward as a teenager and now has to go through life the hard way. She looks Latino, who even knows how she crossed into America.

All I can say is kudos to her for achieving what she has. She has done well. No need to blame anyone for stuff we don't know

bukatyne:


Well .this blows your first point out of the water.

lilmax:
we are speaking from two different angles remember?

lilmax:
You dey vex? I mean at the other posts above

edwife:


[s]You know what let me just answer her because she is assuming a lot. [/s].

edwife:
You can see that my question was directly directed to dyt post, even if i didn't use the word exclusive-anyone can see what i meant by that.

What you meant was not clear.

This was dyt's post:
[quote author=Dyt post=38770675]Later now they will shout feminism
Where's the man now
Is that not his duties to take care of the kids, why does she have to work so hard doing the mans role
Bunch of lazy men every where
Figure heads

edwife:

[size=14pt]So a woman posts about how she has three jobs and struggling to send her kids to school without saying anything about the husband or a man in the picture,but you just concluded that the man is somewhere doing nothing?
Did you consider that she could be a single mum or a widow?[/size] And when does working became a man's role?
@ topic, that is what a mother should do,when you don't have support from anyone,get those hands dirty to support your kids rather than blaming the world for your situation.

bukatyne:

@Bold:
What is a man's role?

edwife:
[s]And don't assume things because you chose to read my posts the way they suit you[/s].

edwife:


You don't know that anything that goes wrong with the world or in a woman's life,it's the man's fault.Even when a woman decides to sleep around and have kids with irresponsible men,it still the man's fault.

How can someone who grew up with a responsible father or married to one will spend the majority of their lives blaming men?
I am blessed to have a responsible father and surrounded by amazing men in my life.Just like there are irresponsible men everywhere,there are very irresponsible women,yet we don't get to blame them every time.

We are in the 21 century where everything now is about equality,so why complain that she has three jobs?