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Some Reasons Men Dont Want To Marry (pic) by Donald7610: 3:20pm On Oct 08, 2015
1. You'll lose respect.
A couple of generations ago, a man wasn't considered fully adult until he was married with kids. But today, fathers are figures of fun more than figures of respect: "

2. You'll lose out on sex.
Married couples report greater sexual satisfaction
Married men have more sex than single men, on average - but much less than men who are cohabiting with their partners outside of marriage, especially as time goes on. Research even suggests that married women are more likely to gain weight than women who are cohabiting without marriage.

3. You'll lose friends.
"Those wedding bells are breaking up that old gang of mine." That's an old song, but it's true. When married, men's ties with friends from school and work tend to fade. Although both men and women lose friends after marriage, it tends to affect men's self-esteem more, perhaps because men tend to be less social in general.

4. You'll lose space.
We hear a lot about men retreating to their "man caves," but why do they retreat? Because they've lost the battle for the rest of the house.

5. You could lose your kids, and your money.
And they may not even be your kids. Lots of men I spoke with were keenly aware of the dangers of divorce, and worried that if they were married and it went sour, the woman might take everything, including the kids. Other men were concerned that they might wind up paying child support for kids who aren't even theirs

6. You'll lose in court.
Men often complain that the family court legal system is stacked against them, and in fact it seems to be. Women gain custody and child support the majority of the time, "Despite the increases in men seeking and receiving alimony, advocates warn against linking the trend to equality in the courtroom. Family court judges still tend to favor women

7. You'll lose your freedom.
At least, if you're charged with child support that you can't pay, you can be put in jail -

8. Single life is better than ever.
While the value of marriage to men has declined, the quality of single life has improved. Single men were once looked on with suspicion, passed over for promotion for important jobs, which usually valued "stable family men," and often subjected to social opprobrium. It was hard to have a love life that wasn't aimed at marriage, and premarital sex was risky and frowned upon. Now, no one looks askance at the single lifestyle, dating is easy, and employers probably prefer employees with no conflicting family responsibilities. Plus, video games, cable TV, and the Internet provide entertainment that didn't used to be available. Is this good for society? Probably not, as falling birth rates and increasing single-motherhood demonstrate. But people respond to incentives. If you want more men to marry, it needs to be a more attractive proposition.

9. Married women report higher levels of physical and psychological health.
Formerly married women reported the worst health while never married women fell between these two groups. Compared with unmarried women, married women had less job stress, environment stress, child stress, financial stress, and relationship stress. Health measures included self-rated health, distress level, chronic illness, and a number of stress types, ranging from social life stress to job strain

MARRIAGE IS COMPULSORY
Remember Gods Commandment on Marriage
Genesis 2:24
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh
Matthew 19:5 and said, 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh'
Mark 10:7 For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife
Mark 10:8 and the two will become one flesh.' So they are no longer two, but one flesh
Ephesians 5:31 "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh."
Proverbs 2:17 Never Divorce

Re: Some Reasons Men Dont Want To Marry (pic) by knightsTempler: 3:29pm On Oct 08, 2015
undecided

Re: Some Reasons Men Dont Want To Marry (pic) by Hazardd(m): 3:30pm On Oct 08, 2015
so you get time to write this trash
Re: Some Reasons Men Dont Want To Marry (pic) by Nobody: 3:31pm On Oct 08, 2015
Soo what's ur point exactly?...that men should marry?...go choke on a diick!!!
Re: Some Reasons Men Dont Want To Marry (pic) by Tallesty1(m): 3:33pm On Oct 08, 2015
You're on your own.
Re: Some Reasons Men Dont Want To Marry (pic) by seoxpert(m): 3:41pm On Oct 08, 2015
Heavenly Father Save Us All.

Re: Some Reasons Men Dont Want To Marry (pic) by b3llo(m): 10:42pm On Oct 08, 2015
Marriage is a good thing, if you bring out the good in the girl you are married to...
Re: Some Reasons Men Dont Want To Marry (pic) by Yksoul(m): 12:17am On Oct 09, 2015
CIVILIZATION HAS DISADVANTAGES,MAJORITY OF MEN SERIOUSLY ARE NOT INTERESTD IN MARRIA...

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