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3 Hard To Believe Truths About Men by t00cUTE(f): 9:59pm On Apr 29, 2009 |
TRUTH #1: Men Don't Need To Chase It's been said many times by many people that men need to be made to chase a woman in order to want her and commit wholeheartedly. Not true. In fact, this is plain wrong. Rather than wanting to "chase" a woman, men are humans first. Which means, They want and need to feel a deep, emotional level of attraction for a woman if they are going to be moved to want bigger and better things with you in their life. That everyday "Physical Attraction" a man can feel for any cute woman who walks by is not enough, and will never be enough to make him want something more than a casual fling. Men can and will want to get close to you even if they just feel this Physical Attraction for you - and you will likely have a hard time figuring out if they are or aren't feeling that deeper and more intense and lasting Emotional Attraction. Not to mention, a man will get easily "bored" with you and be lazy about a relationship or any kind of commitment if he's not feeling this Emotional Attraction for you. TRUTH #2: Men Feel Emotions Just Like Women Believe it not, men are pretty sensitive. It's just how they handle what they feel that makes them hard to connect with about it, and hard to understand - Unless you know what's going on with how men handle these things in the first place. Men have a hard time dealing with strong emotions from women. So you know, in a recent groundbreaking study of how couples interact when in conflict, it was discovered that men often LOOK detached or withdrawn because they feel intensely STRESSED by the argument. It's not that they're more "in control." On the contrary - they feel LESS in control. So they withdraw in order to try and cope. Fascinating. One of the things men often say to women when there's a conflict or tension in the relationship is, "why are you being so dramatic?" Annoying, right? That's his way of saying, "This is getting too intense and I don't know how to handle it." TRUTH #3: Men Want Relationships Men want to be in a relationship, and they have a strong desire to feel recognized as a great partner by their women. Have you ever accused a man of being "not ready" for a relationship? Here's a mind-blowing statistic: WOMEN (not men) break off relationships or file for divorce 70% of the time. That means that women are the ones initiating the end of a relationship much more often than men. If that surprises you, you may also be surprised to know that a man enjoys being in committed, loving relationships as much as a woman does. AS LONG AS IT DOESN'T FEEL HARD TO HIM. If you give a man the impression that he can't please you no matter WHAT he does, or that everything he does is pointless because he can't do ANYTHING right, then guess what? He's going to wonder if he's the right partner for you, and he's going to begin to doubt whether or not he should even continue the relationship. Instead, when you show a man that you trust him to be a good partner to you, you will actually inspire him and trigger his devotion and attraction for you. |
Re: 3 Hard To Believe Truths About Men by Moyola(f): 10:03pm On Apr 29, 2009 |
Hmmn! |
Re: 3 Hard To Believe Truths About Men by Igwe9(m): 10:04pm On Apr 29, 2009 |
Where una dey get all these from sef ? |
Re: 3 Hard To Believe Truths About Men by Nobody: 10:11pm On Apr 29, 2009 |
i hate long stories. especially when am sleepy. cant you break it down in few sentences? haba |
Re: 3 Hard To Believe Truths About Men by yme1(f): 10:13pm On Apr 29, 2009 |
i will do the reading tomorrow |
Re: 3 Hard To Believe Truths About Men by puskin: 10:21pm On Apr 29, 2009 |
~The bible just got its 67th book. "The epistle of too cute 2 NL"~ |
Re: 3 Hard To Believe Truths About Men by bluespice(f): 10:28pm On Apr 29, 2009 |
woman pls! u make em sound like different species entirely from another galaxy |
Re: 3 Hard To Believe Truths About Men by Mashkov: 8:04am On Apr 30, 2009 |
story story!!! yawning!! |
Re: 3 Hard To Believe Truths About Men by ladybam(f): 8:29am On Apr 30, 2009 |
, once upon a time, |
Re: 3 Hard To Believe Truths About Men by tomaagy(m): 9:17am On Apr 30, 2009 |
True |
Re: 3 Hard To Believe Truths About Men by surface(f): 9:40am On Apr 30, 2009 |
Too cute u don start ur wahala again,hope those guys dont have erection on ur pix again |
Re: 3 Hard To Believe Truths About Men by IFELEKE(m): 9:58am On Apr 30, 2009 |
Re: 3 Hard To Believe Truths About Men by MaiSuya(m): 11:08am On Apr 30, 2009 |
t00 cUTE: which statistic? LIE!!! |
Re: 3 Hard To Believe Truths About Men by richo2: 12:02pm On Apr 30, 2009 |
one hard to believe truth about you your tory de too long!! |
Re: 3 Hard To Believe Truths About Men by Feelitx(m): 1:26pm On Apr 30, 2009 |
Very True. |
Re: 3 Hard To Believe Truths About Men by unfaded(m): 2:36pm On Apr 30, 2009 |
suprise suprise, this's coming from a lady, and i thought all the chic on NL are male-bashers |
Re: 3 Hard To Believe Truths About Men by 190: 2:50pm On Apr 30, 2009 |
too cute u have started again, are u trying 2 say since ure too cute and males arent gunning 4 u ure gonna start gunning 4 dem |
Re: 3 Hard To Believe Truths About Men by Czarskit(m): 9:11pm On Apr 30, 2009 |
~ Y'all shld giv TooCute a break! At least she spoke well, this once. ~ Thumbs Up! ~ Funny enuf, I'm presently a victim of #2 ~ |
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