Hi guys,

I recently decided to ask out my friend who I have had a crush since university days, that is about 6 years now. We have been in touch, and just a few days back I decided to ask her out. We do not stay close to each other, and we normally communicate over the phone.

For the past two months we have been communicating on a daily basis, we talk for about 4-5 times a day, each spanning at least 30 minutes, and it was always beautiful talking to her, I could tell she also enjoys talking to me from the way she responds. So last week I asked her out, on phone. I am one of those people who hate distance relationship as I perceive that they never work out, but in this case I could not let her slip away again.

On the day I asked her out, she was quiet almost throughout my sermon and professing of my love to her, I tried to get her to tell me how she feels about everything I had said to her, she only said she was not angry with me, I tried to push harder to get more specific and possibly positive response, but nothing came, she said I just told her about it, and she cannot make any decision at the time, so I should give her more time to think about it. Its about 4 days since that day, and we still talk on phone, only that this time, we talk like 1-2 times per day for just about 4-5 minutes, its almost like we now have nothing to talk about.

I really love this lady, my love for her is genuine, I love so much that if she eventually says "No" to me, I probably would not be able to be her friend again, not because I will hate her (that can never happen), but because my eyes will tear up and heart bleed every time I realise I might never be able to be with her, certainly being her friend will never make me heal.

I wish to know what y'all think of this situation, was it a bad move from me in the first place to tell her how I felt about her? and what is all the weirdness going on between us now?

PS: I am still waiting for her reply

My broda... Dont beat yourself up.. You did what every reasonable person would have done...
Believe you me, that babe love you die just like you do but she wants to dance around a little..
I have been there ma broda...

Again, dont beat yourself up, stand your ground and don't take back your words and dont regret it..

Sometimes it happens that being your friend, you already know too much about her she is in drawig board to come up with a different swag game..

Also she might be thinking why did you wait all these while Did she let her sef lose or sth... So as she they on her drawing board... Get to your drawing board as well and draw plans... Keep pushing ma broda..

But Shìt like this don't happen in France

Guy contact CharlesNneji1 for your copy of "advanced Bang Rule" no girl will reject you again... You will become girls Magnet trust me

E dey be like that sometimes.. She likes you though

so u think you will just open ur mouth and yarn one long story and she go just succumb?

mah bro,u don enter that zone already.

if there is already awkwardness, then you're already doomed.

IamLEGEND1:
so u think you will just open ur mouth and yarn one long story and she go just succumb?

mah bro,u don enter that zone already.

if there is already awkwardness, then you're already doomed.

I hope I am not the mayor of the zone, that will be a horrible thing for me

Wait for her reply first

Once u are in the friend zone, dont use words to evoke relationship thing again, use body language and signs... u waited too long sha... 6 years. Wat were u waiting for?

Ramos16:
Hi guys,

I recently decided to ask out my friend who I have had a crush since university days, that is about 6 years now. We have been in touch, and just a few days back I decided to ask her out. We do not stay close to each other, and we normally communicate over the phone.

For the past two months we have been communicating on a daily basis, we talk for about 4-5 times a day, each spanning at least 30 minutes, and it was always beautiful talking to her, I could tell she also enjoys talking to me from the way she responds. So last week I asked her out, on phone. I am one of those people who hate distance relationship as I perceive that they never work out, but in this case I could not let her slip away again.

On the day I asked her out, she was quiet almost throughout my sermon and professing of my love to her, I tried to get her to tell me how she feels about everything I had said to her, she only said she was not angry with me, I tried to push harder to get more specific and possibly positive response, but nothing came, she said I just told her about it, and she cannot make any decision at the time, so I should give her more time to think about it. Its about 4 days since that day, and we still talk on phone, only that this time, we talk like 1-2 times per day for just about 4-5 minutes, its almost like we now have nothing to talk about.

I really love this lady, my love for her is genuine, I love so much that if she eventually says "No" to me, I probably would not be able to be her friend again, not because I will hate her (that can never happen), but because my eyes will tear up and heart bleed every time I realise I might never be able to be with her, certainly being her friend will never make me heal.

I wish to know what y'all think of this situation, was it a bad move from me in the first place to tell her how I felt about her? and what is all the weirdness going on between us now?

PS: I am still waiting for her reply

[size=15pt]Bro , you dont need to give up on her because I have the blv she will accept you from your story.

I personally cant date a lady I don't know much about, I prefer a long time friendship with her before asking her out and it has been working for me. Some call it friend zone but the case isn't the same for all guys.

she will fall in
Don't lose hope and just be patient with her. [/size]

She likes u buh if she has a bf then its a different ballgame...
Op does she have a bf?

misspicy:
She likes u buh if she has a bf then its a different ballgame...

Op does she have a bf?

shebi u no see dat one

agarawu23:
[size=15pt]Bro , you dont need to give up on her because I have the blv she will accept you from your story.

I personally cant date a lady I don't know much about, I prefer a long time friendship with her before asking her out and it has been working for me. Some call it friend zone but the case isn't the same for all guys.

she will fall in
Don't lose hope and just be patient with her. [/size]

like we have been doing

Ramos16:


I hope I am not the mayor of the zone, that will be a horrible thing for me

Make I no kill ur morale but honestly...

mi ati awọn mi buruku might as well have a minute of silence for you right now.

agarawu23:
[size=15pt]Bro , you dont need to give up on her because I have the blv she will accept you from your story.

I personally cant date a lady I don't know much about, I prefer a long time friendship with her before asking her out and it has been working for me. Some call it friend zone but the case isn't the same for all guys.

she will fall in
Don't lose hope and just be patient with her. [/size]

Thanks man, that means a lot to me

Jollyjoy:
like we have been doing

yes love

My broda, kpomkpi & jux give her time, e b like Say d girl dz one wey ur heart dey tench. anyway, jux give her a week, believe me she's giving it a gud thought.

Ramos16, ignore the nay sayers

Be matured about it, she might not be feeling the same way however you have got to hope that with time. She charges her mind. Also it is best if you ask her to give a tangible reason, it .might take time but if you are destined to be together. She will be yours

Since advice don finish...wetin i wan advice again

Guys dey wicked..you wil hate her if she says No.she might have had a bf..soo why are u tampering her.very soon you will say girls cheat the most..when their is too much of attention

daretodiffer:
Ramos16, ignore the nay sayers

Be matured about it, she might not be feeling the same way however you have got to hope that with time. She charges her mind. Also it is best if you ask her to give a tangible reason, it .might take time but if you are destined to be together. She will be yours

Thanks a lot, I probably asked her out thinking that she feel the same way as I do... I guess that is why I feel this way, thanks for pointing that out to me

Jollyjoy:
shebi u no see dat one

I see am o,buh no be every tom dick and harry be my perks

Hazardd:
Since advice don finish...wetin i wan advice again

lol

Cant say I blame her....unless she has had feelings for you those same 6 years, it will be awkward for her......just chill out. Que sera sera

Somborri why are you over pursuing the lady....give her space to be herself and come out of herself.... or else you might end up just choking her...let her give you some chase too...

Ramos16:
Hi guys,

I recently decided to ask out my friend who I have had a crush since university days, that is about 6 years now. We have been in touch, and just a few days back I decided to ask her out. We do not stay close to each other, and we normally communicate over the phone.

For the past two months we have been communicating on a daily basis, we talk for about 4-5 times a day, each spanning at least 30 minutes, and it was always beautiful talking to her, I could tell she also enjoys talking to me from the way she responds. So last week I asked her out, on phone. I am one of those people who hate distance relationship as I perceive that they never work out, but in this case I could not let her slip away again.

On the day I asked her out, she was quiet almost throughout my sermon and professing of my love to her, I tried to get her to tell me how she feels about everything I had said to her, she only said she was not angry with me, I tried to push harder to get more specific and possibly positive response, but nothing came, she said I just told her about it, and she cannot make any decision at the time, so I should give her more time to think about it. Its about 4 days since that day, and we still talk on phone, only that this time, we talk like 1-2 times per day for just about 4-5 minutes, its almost like we now have nothing to talk about.

I really love this lady, my love for her is genuine, I love so much that if she eventually says "No" to me, I probably would not be able to be her friend again, not because I will hate her (that can never happen), but because my eyes will tear up and heart bleed every time I realise I might never be able to be with her, certainly being her friend will never make me heal.

I wish to know what y'all think of this situation, was it a bad move from me in the first place to tell her how I felt about her? and what is all the weirdness going on between us now?

PS: I am still waiting for her reply

Just chillout bruh, each time u call her again don't bring up the topic again, just start acting like her boifrnd nd she will play along stop waiting for the YES/NO answer

Use this two...absence and jealousy to win am back...i hate friends zone

Now you more work to do...be consistent ehn...she will surely be urs

OP
I hate to be the bearer of bad news but you most likely will not get her.

If you've been friends for this long and she hasnt given you any hint she wants you to press through for a relationship, she most likely isnt into you.

You may say "but she enjoys talking to me"..She may, but usually girls av been known to be more chatty and expressive with members of the opposite sex who are just 'friends'.

Just keep your game tight and draw back from her now (start by limiting how often and how long you call her).

That should give you a hint of your stand in her life. If she barely notices or acts aloof too during dis period..Baba just ignore all dat feeling you think you have and look for a babe that likes you for you.

Dont waste your time!!!!

Ramos16:
Hi guys,

I recently decided to ask out my friend who I have had a crush since university days, that is about 6 years now. We have been in touch, and just a few days back I decided to ask her out. We do not stay close to each other, and we normally communicate over the phone.

For the past two months we have been communicating on a daily basis, we talk for about 4-5 times a day, each spanning at least 30 minutes, and it was always beautiful talking to her, I could tell she also enjoys talking to me from the way she responds. So last week I asked her out, on phone. I am one of those people who hate distance relationship as I perceive that they never work out, but in this case I could not let her slip away again.

On the day I asked her out, she was quiet almost throughout my sermon and professing of my love to her, I tried to get her to tell me how she feels about everything I had said to her, she only said she was not angry with me, I tried to push harder to get more specific and possibly positive response, but nothing came, she said I just told her about it, and she cannot make any decision at the time, so I should give her more time to think about it. Its about 4 days since that day, and we still talk on phone, only that this time, we talk like 1-2 times per day for just about 4-5 minutes, its almost like we now have nothing to talk about.

I really love this lady, my love for her is genuine, I love so much that if she eventually says "No" to me, I probably would not be able to be her friend again, not because I will hate her (that can never happen), but because my eyes will tear up and heart bleed every time I realise I might never be able to be with her, certainly being her friend will never make me heal.

I wish to know what y'all think of this situation, was it a bad move from me in the first place to tell her how I felt about her? and what is all the weirdness going on between us now?

PS: I am still waiting for her reply

Wetin happen?

And a very good friend of mine complain i dont call her for like 2-3 days. I had better make that move.