Well my Naira Landers, there's this average bloke that I'm talking to, in the beginning, he would hit me up frequently and do almost anything I wanted him to. He asked me to be in his future and as soon as I started liking him, he CHANGED! This guy does not even seem to be interested anymore, we can go weeks w/o even talking or seeing each other (mind you we go to the same school). My question to all NL guys is that is it usually just a game to get a fine babe to like you or are you just scared of commitment? And to my NL ladies, how do you feel and what do you do when a guuy you like ends up acting like this? To EVRYONE in GENERAL:::::::> What do you think I should do? Leave him or Stick w/him hoping that he'll change, afterall he claims to still like me.

the attention span of a man is not that big and anything can make him change. if you made him wait to long, then he probably "collected" on some seeds he planted elsewhere. have you been "freaky" (having sex)? how long had this been going on before he dropped you?   have you thought about the fact that this man might have found out something about you that turned him off completely? or do you think that as soon as someone is interested in you, he should be for the rest of his young life?
you dont seem to have been very close so its not a big deal, nothing lost. move on with your life and remember that what comes out of a mans mouth, might not be what he really thinks but rather the right thing to say at the time to get to the "promise land"
BTW: what about asking him directly the next time you see him?! i am sure he knows better than us why he doesnt want you in his future anymore.

~ The previous poster said it all! I can change if:
1. I find sum chikpichikpi 'bout d gal.
2. She makes me wait 4 too long.
3. Another harvest is ready.
4. She doesn't reciprocate my effort. ~

Nostalgic:

Well my Naira Landers, there's this average bloke that I'm talking to, in the beginning, he would hit me up frequently and do almost anything I wanted him to. He asked me to be in his future and as soon as I started liking him, he CHANGED! This guy does not even seem to be interested anymore, we can go weeks w/o even talking or seeing each other (mind you we go to the same school). My question to all NL guys is that is it usually just a game to get a fine babe to like you or are you just scared of commitment? And to my NL ladies, how do you feel and what do you do when a guuy you like ends up acting like this? To EVRYONE in GENERAL:::::::> What do you think I should do? Leave him or Stick w/him hoping that he'll change, afterall he claims to still like me.

From your post i can see that u got attitude problem, 'Average bloke'? u got chips on your shoulder, stuck up girls like deserve little or no attention at all, i guess he realised what u are like and keep his distance, u don't call urself fine babe yet, until u sort out ur stuck up attitude, just can't stand girls like u, sorry u asked for 'our' opinion and i have given u one.

Nostalgic:

Well my Naira Landers, there's this average bloke that I'm talking to, in the beginning, he would hit me up frequently and do almost anything I wanted him to. He asked me to be in his future and as soon as I started liking him, he CHANGED! This guy does not even seem to be interested anymore, we can go weeks w/o even talking or seeing each other (mind you we go to the same school). My question to all NL guys is that is it usually just a game to get a fine babe to like you or are you just scared of commitment? And to my NL ladies, how do you feel and what do you do when a guuy you like ends up acting like this? To EVRYONE in GENERAL:::::::> What do you think I should do? Leave him or Stick w/him hoping that he'll change, afterall he claims to still like me.

most men are hunters by instinct. they hunt for meat they dont need. i am not saying it is right but that is the natural habit of most men without even trying. the added drama of your delayed response brings out the killer instinct to go for the kill and thereafter walk away.

NOTE i said most not ALL.

MRbrownJAY:

the attention span of a man is not that big and anything can make him change. if you made him wait to long, then he probably "collected" on some seeds he planted elsewhere. have you been "freaky" (having sex)? how long had this been going on before he dropped you?   have you thought about the fact that this man might have found out something about you that turned him off completely? or do you think that as soon as someone is interested in you, he should be for the rest of his young life?
you dont seem to have been very close so its not a big deal, nothing lost. move on with your life and remember that what comes out of a mans mouth, might not be what he really thinks but rather the right thing to say at the time to get to the "promise land"
BTW: what about asking him directly the next time you see him?! i am sure he knows better than us why he doesnt want you in his future anymore.

you know your bros is going to tell nothing but the truth