Harbosede02:
Lolllllll



Bae,pple of romance ke??,romance section na country??

raayah:


What should I call them?

falconey:
[color=#990000][/color]

honeygirl17:
You dey vex


You said men always cheat, even when they don't you have made up your mind. My man don't have the power to cheat on me, even if he does I don't really care. I will definitely forgive him so why do I have to stress my head over it?

Na in those days I dey mumu dey bother my head for man, I just don't have time.

honeygirl17:
You dey vex


You said men always cheat, even when they don't you have made up your mind. My man don't have the power to cheat on me, even if he does I don't really care. I will definitely forgive him so why do I have to stress my head over it?

Na in those days I dey mumu dey bother my head for man, I just don't have time.

UncleJudax:

raayah:


I still don't think a man who loves you will intentionally put you through emotional pain.

honeygirl17:

He has never cheated on me and can't cheat on me

raayah:
Hi Romancelanders,

Can we talk about this cheating thing on the front-page?
Various men and women of adult age have come together to agree that Men will always cheat in a relationship. They said men cannot control their urges (wtf).
What is the benefit of marriage for the average nigerian woman, who is a stay-at-home mom, with a cheating and abusive husband?

Please someone should comment and tell me that these people were trolling.

Women of nairaland, are your partners currently cheating?
If yes, do you just accept it as normal?

Some reasons why men cheat

1.He has unreasonable expectations. He believes that his spouse should meet his every sexual and emotional need, 24/7, without fail. In his narcissistic and self-focused way, he doesn’t understand that his spouse may be juggling multiple priorities (kids, work, home, finances) in addition to him and the relationship. When this spouse inevitably fails him (in his view), he feels entitled to seek intimate attention elsewhere.

2.He’s a liar. He never intended to be monogamous, despite his commitment. He doesn’t understand that his vow of fidelity is a sacrifice made to and for his relationship and the person he professes to love. This man views monogamy as something to be worked around rather than embraced.

3.He is insecure. Deep down, he feels that he is too young, too old, too fat, too thin, too poor, too stupid, or too whatever to be desirable. He uses flirtation, porn, and extramarital sex as a way to feel better about himself, to reassure himself that he is still desirable, worthwhile, and “good enough.”

4.He wants out. He is looking to end his current relationship and is using external sexual and romantic activities to give his wife or girlfriend “the message” without having to be direct. Or, if he is a man who doesn’t like being alone, period, then finding a new and “better” person before leaving a current relationship provides a safer and softer landing.

ednut1:
learner alert

DeeTus:
Not only men, women do chat as well and can hide their dirty secrets more than the men.

The question should be focused more on men and women, not only men.

Xwayhandsom264:
a moderator banned gab264 for don't THREATEN, advocate, or encourage violent acts against any person, tribe, race, animals, or group.. Ban expires at October 28, 2015 at 09:58:08 AM.

raayah:


I still don't think a man who loves you will intentionally put you through emotional pain.

He didn't ask you to be Emotionally Pained

Slimzjoe:


He didn't ask you to be Emotionally Pained

Ubyj:
Personally, I feel dis cheating stuff is over-rated. And if u ain't married sha, nobody owes u an allegiance of faithfulness. So, deal with it.

Well, dat being said, I bliv sex, to men, is a need! D earlier we ladies understand dis, d berra. Don't get too carried away by other activities n fail to provide ur man's need; at least, most times. U myt not feel like it, but u knw.. . Responsible men won't go 'doing' outside if u give it to dem like it's hot. N another thing, be in good shape.

pinceprinz:



Is it that you ladies know the truth but intentionally shy away from it out of hypocrisy? ... Asin, haven't met too many women with yo kinda understanding congratulations! Your submission here to me is the whole truth. So, this thread is good as CLOSED

Ubyj:
cover ur big teeth

pinceprinz:


I have the milk teeth not big teeth. Btw, how's ur big ti.ts?

Ubyj:
was about thinking u had a brain... happy sunday!

raayah:


This is good, break rules and get banned.

honeygirl17:

He has never cheated on me and can't cheat on me

Estharfabian:
LoL...You're not Aphrodite(goddess of Love) Guys would Always Cheat.......*well, Except my dad *
..Uhm... not necessarily sexually* ...Buh Guys Are prone to Lustfulness.. another form of cheating...
Even Beyonce Got cheated on... "" the main thing is Just be prepared.. Be cynical sometimes... So, when the stone comes rolling...You won't get crushed in the Act..Always be prepared! ""

raayah:
Hi Romancelanders,

Can we talk about this cheating thing on the front-page?
Various men and women of adult age have come together to agree that Men will always cheat in a relationship. They said men cannot control their urges (wtf).
What is the benefit of marriage for the average nigerian woman, who is a stay-at-home mom, with a cheating and abusive husband?

Please someone should comment and tell me that these people were trolling.

Women of nairaland, are your partners currently cheating?
If yes, do you just accept it as normal?

Some reasons why men cheat

1.He has unreasonable expectations. He believes that his spouse should meet his every sexual and emotional need, 24/7, without fail. In his narcissistic and self-focused way, he doesn’t understand that his spouse may be juggling multiple priorities (kids, work, home, finances) in addition to him and the relationship. When this spouse inevitably fails him (in his view), he feels entitled to seek intimate attention elsewhere.

2.He’s a liar. He never intended to be monogamous, despite his commitment. He doesn’t understand that his vow of fidelity is a sacrifice made to and for his relationship and the person he professes to love. This man views monogamy as something to be worked around rather than embraced.

3.He is insecure. Deep down, he feels that he is too young, too old, too fat, too thin, too poor, too stupid, or too whatever to be desirable. He uses flirtation, porn, and extramarital sex as a way to feel better about himself, to reassure himself that he is still desirable, worthwhile, and “good enough.”

4.He wants out. He is looking to end his current relationship and is using external sexual and romantic activities to give his wife or girlfriend “the message” without having to be direct. Or, if he is a man who doesn’t like being alone, period, then finding a new and “better” person before leaving a current relationship provides a safer and softer landing.

honeygirl17:
You dey vex


You said men always cheat, even when they don't you have made up your mind. My man don't have the power to cheat on me, even if he does I don't really care. I will definitely forgive him so why do I have to stress my head over it?

Na in those days I dey mumu dey bother my head for man, I just don't have time.