My first time f approaching a lady was days ago. She is so fitting to ma taste n beauty blessed. Atlas! I so mch summoned every tit n bit f ma courage to profess ma feelings for her ....she told me she is engaged wit someone she wanna marry. I immediately turned n took it wit faith.... She told me to not be annoyed n I left....thinking over ma mind *why would/should I b annoyed*... It is over a week now, n m nt feeling beta, seems my mind is uncontrollably more occupied wit d thoughts f her(the young lady)... The bottom line is that, I wasn't even thinking f her dis mch wen I approached her. I don't know wat to do or hw to get rid f her frm my mind.
Pls NL soothe my mind with advice n wisdom.

space booked

Op it was ur first time, maybe you never for once expected a NO from a lady

Don't allow it to bother you, we don't always get wat we wanted, trust me u will get used to it

am booking here

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I'll manage nd park own space here

me sef don erase my advice...
Oya let's continue booking...

Booked

mylifemyrules:
Op it was ur first time, maybe you never for once expected a NO from a lady

Don't allow it to bother you, we don't always get wat we wanted, trust me u will get used to it

Thnks for advice *thumps up#

This land is not for sale..beware of 419

mamman40:

Thnks for advice *thumps up#

U r welcome

It's ur first time. Whadya expekt? In your next time, You'd do betr , maybe.

I am fortunate to have 7 fools upstairs /\ booking space.

My brother, you don't have to bother yourself. That is the inherited trait that all ladies have. To them it is a common sense because they naturally know the secrete of saying NO.


If to say am a lady now sebi i would have just surrender myself to be date. But am a capital man and am not use to the ideas of gay relationship.


Am sorry, SPACE BOOKED.

ehyaah!take heart bro

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HCpaul:
I am fortunate to have 7 fools upstairs /\ booking space.

My brother, you don't have to bother yourself. That is the inherited trait that all ladies have. To them it is a common sense because they naturally know the secrete of saying NO.


If to say am a lady now sebi i would have just surrender myself to be date. But am a capital man and am not use to the ideas of gay relationship.


Am sorry, SPACE BOOKED.

Thnk u jare

mamman40:


It is nt because I didn't make a beautiful presentation she declined... She declined because she was engaged wit wit sm1 else... May be if she is single, she would ve considered my offer... Wat I dnt understnd naw is dat; my mind wasn't dis occupied abt her thoughts wen I approached her ....this feeling is axphyxiating/suffocating

Not that I couldn't relate in the first instance gee, I really dig okay.

My point is ; its ur first time facing this kinda rejection and its not 'unnormal' to feel how u feel, that you sure will get betr with more 'trials n error' . Message delivered?

mamman40:


Kai... Raphsody, na ur own vex me pass slf

Haa!.. o:
No vex o, To stop that feeling,u gat to follow this quote "OUT OF SIGHT,OUT OF MIND"..that means deleting stuffs that still make you to think about the girl and the approach and then focusing on things that interest you if naa PES or watever and also start eyeing other girls immediately to get her out of your mind because the hardest response I tink one can get is that she has a BF or Fiance already,best thing is to let her go and forget it because if at all she leaves the guy for you,she is likely to also leave you for another guy so let her go...I av experienced this same thing too exactly ,I let the girl go but she told me not long ago that she don break up and now alone with God,I just laughed and shaked my head join...

Summary: Be bold to get her out of your mind.

mamman40:


naw u re so mch making sense *smilling* thank u so mch...
Bt I don't ve number/contact....I didn't even asked f her name .... "out of sight is out f mind" dat is d bottom line f ur golden advice....I will off for NYSC camping by nxt mnth sha ....

you r welcum
.dats nice bro...wish u good luck in all you do!