Good mrng peepz ,saw this in my sis journal n wanna share
Have you had a crush before? You know, that feeling you have
when you see someone you really like and your heart literally
misses a beat?
Or you even sense his cologne and all of a sudden, you can't
think of anything else but him? You gape at him so much that
you run into a wall and bump your head? I bet you have had
your share of this utterly confusing yet miserably beautiful
feeling or whatever it is that we refer to as a crush.
Let me tell you about one of my crushes when I was an
innocent little Ondo girl. For privacy purposes let's call him
Teddy, shall we? Oh he was tall and lanky. Friends who were
close to me then knew these two descriptions totally drove
me crazy but if he played any musical instrument at all, well
then of course I would simply be 'drunk in crush'.
Hmmm, Teddy was actually a good friend, or more like a
'spiritus' brother. We used to hang out a lot and talk for hours
unend as we had a lot in common. I remember making some
pancakes one time, wrapping them ever-so sweetly and
packing them into a take away pack for my Teddy. I walked all
the way from my hall to his wondering, if he'd like my
pancakes.
Well, I wasn't about to back out now, I told myself, until I got close to his room and peeped through his
window only to find my crush Teddy chatting in his musical
voice with some other babe.This boy kill me
oh!
Upon seeing them, I backed away slowly like Jerry who had
seen sleeping Tom and did not want any wahala. To be
honest, my heart was broken. That night I cried myself to
sleep. The next time I saw Teddy, I smiled sweetly at him as if
nothing had ever happened and everything went back to
normal except for my heart.
I never ever had the courage to let Teddy know I had a crush
on him. I was chicken! But actually come to think of it, is this
not so because as young ladies we are somehow oriented to
believe that a girl must never make the first move?
Recently, I had yet another opportunity to be a panelist in a Singles forum to discuss the subject
of women proposing to men first. My opinion was simple; in
your twenties, the idea of being chased is actually exciting!
You know, saying no to the poor boy a countless times when
you're actually nuts over him, until another girl starts getting
his attention?
That's fun and all but when you're in your thirties, you most
likely know what you want in life and do not have the time or
energy to do 'no no no yes no yes no yes ok yes please don't
go'. At this point when you have a crush and the person has
the potential to be Mr. Right Now, I don't believe you should
lose guard kroaaa.
Of course if he is not your friend already, then you MUST do
your background check to ensure he is a correct dude...you
know, his family, workplace, friends, etc before you make any
moves.
Here is what I propose, stage 1: give him hints-you know-
compliment him, be extra attentive, call to check up on him
every now and then, invite him over for dinner, go watch a
movie, etc. But ladies, we all know sometimes men are either
simply clueless or are wearing POP and can simply not make
the first move even if their lives depends on it! If this is your
wahala then Fabulous sister, move to stage 2: please be bold
and tell him how you feel about him. Look, some men actually
find it sexy when the woman makes the first move and I know
some of such men.
In fact, when I asked a male friend how he would feel if a
woman proposed to him first, this was his response: 'I will like her deeply. It's a turn on and I will respect
her because it is a sign of confidence'. Interestingly, the
response from the female callers on the show was 50-50,
while ALL THE MALE CALLERS said they would not mind at all
if a woman proposes first and they would not respect that
woman any less. Well there you go! It's really in our heads, this
fear of being rejected.
A fabulous woman must learn to be bold. Please, don't be a
chicken like Honey the little Ondo girl!
Life is not that long for you to be dying inside anytime you see
him but can't hold his hand or hear him say 'I love you'. Love
really is beautiful but you need courage to start and sustain it.
I say go for it! Seriously, what have you got to lose? You're
already fabulous and nothing can change that.

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in ur twenties dnt propose, in ur thirties start proposing

nice

You see? Okay ladies make your move now. I'm waiting.

[size=1pt]Teespice[/size]

I believe in dropping subtle hints if I like someone.

it is up to him to see those hints and do the needful or ignore.

I have only ever told one person how I felt and till this day he hasn't judged me neither has he disrespected me.

what works for A may not work for B.

Teespice:
I believe in dropping subtle hints if I like someone.

it is up to him to see those hints and do the needful or ignore.

I have only ever told one person how I felt and till this day he hasn't judged me neither has he disrespected me.

what works for A may not work for B.

..been going through your diary..You seem to me a good,vibrant and intelligent person...what advise can u give an upcoming professional course aspirant 200level

Ayjos10:
..been going through your diary..You seem to me a good,vibrant and intelligent person...what advise can u give an upcoming professional course aspirant 200level

go for the course you would derive satisfaction from studying. that way you won't have regrets.