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7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by kateangel(f): 8:26pm On May 08, 2009 |
Whether you’re a man looking for a good wife or a wife wanting to improve yourself, your marriage or your relationship – take a look at these 7 qualities of a good wife. Good fruit will come from these basic qualities anyone can develop. 7) Nag free. Ladies, a good wife is going to be nag free. Nagging is an ineffective method of trying to get your husband to perform a task you desire. Trust me ladies – it doesn’t work and often will have the opposite of its intended affect. 6) Supportive. Are you supportive? What does it mean to be supportive? Do you belittle your man or do you help him to feel good about himself, his job, activities? Your husband will be much more respectful of you if you support him. Even when you don’t agree with him – respectfully let him know you don’t agree – then support him anyway. Otherwise, if he has difficulties – he’ll feel as though you’re adding to his troubles. 5) Build up your man. Ladies, there’s no quicker way to build resentment in your man than to criticize him – especially in front of others. On the flip side – try genuinely complementing your husband in front of other people. Your husband will glow with admiration toward you and you’ll feel his appreciation as love. 4) Keep him happy in the bedroom. Unfortunately, many women underestimate the importance of keeping her man’s needs met. Often this comes from the basic differences in women and men. For men, sexual desire is much like physical hunger and if it’s not fed properly – the relationship will struggle. Women must look to understand the needs of the man from his perspective not hers. 3) Respect. A good wife will try to treat her man with respect. How? Much of learning how to be respectful toward your husband has to do with the way you talk to him. The old phrase “It’s not so much what you say but how you say it” should become a wife’s motto. This doesn’t mean you need to be careful what you say to your husband – just be respectful in the way you say it. 2) Communicate. Ironically, good communication between men and women can be quite frustrating. However, a good wife will seek to discover what’s on her mind and find a way to express herself to her husband. Often, men and women will make a joint decision – while the man thinks she’s in agreement with him – but only to discover later that she thought the decision was a bad idea. 1) Be pleasant. Work to be pleasant toward your husband. Don’t be one of those people who makes everyone around you feel bad just because you’ve had a hard day. Good things will come from being pleasant. It’s a decision – just decide to be pleasant. But if you can’t be pleasant – make a decision not to bring him down with you. |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by Pittbaby(f): 8:27pm On May 08, 2009 |
which ones do you have ? |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by Igwe9(m): 9:03pm On May 08, 2009 |
Pittbaby:We don't give what we do not have, . @ Pittbaby what have you got to give as a woman . . . baby ? |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by nethacker(m): 9:16pm On May 08, 2009 |
i am impressed a lady could post this , u r sensible jare, omo dada , 9ice one i love it |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by Pataki: 9:18pm On May 08, 2009 |
@ topic, Nicely written. Very true as well. But, I rather go with Proverbs 31 in the bible though. Been my all time favorite package of a woman. |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by Secretz(f): 9:22pm On May 08, 2009 |
Going by those rules, since I already possess them all, I think am gonna make a man very very happy one day! :p |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by tope5000: 9:23pm On May 08, 2009 |
Secretz: She doesnt possess most of them darling . . . . she just copied from one website n paste it hia |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by Lax75(m): 9:35pm On May 08, 2009 |
Haba, does such a woman exist? I go put thse qualities in my prayer request and send am to my "wo-lee" (pastor) |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by chikeobi(m): 9:46pm On May 08, 2009 |
tope5000:Which of those qualities do u have cuz am coming after you. Secretz:We know already so be ready for him. |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by tpiah: 9:48pm On May 08, 2009 |
so these are the qualities of a good wife! short list, I must say. |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by tope5000: 9:49pm On May 08, 2009 |
chikeobi: I have always known that u werent a newbie . . . . .oya reveal urself I possess all the qualities expect the nagging one . . . . its in our DNA to nag |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by follypimpi(m): 9:50pm On May 08, 2009 |
tope5000: I know Mrs Nag-atter. |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by tope5000: 9:51pm On May 08, 2009 |
follypimpi: Sharap dia . . . .if we dont nag then something must be wrong and u know it or wud u rather have the quiet lady? |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by Secretz(f): 9:52pm On May 08, 2009 |
@ tope Lmao! Yes ohh its in our dna!!! Lol She pasted and copied those rules from my personality! Haha! @ chike, so you know the man coming for me? Abeg enlighten me oh! Lol |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by follypimpi(m): 9:54pm On May 08, 2009 |
tope5000: Instantly Un-Sharap me.Quiet people are very deadly |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by tope5000: 9:57pm On May 08, 2009 |
follypimpi: Excatly . , this is why we naggy types are better Secretz: Rofl |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by Sauron1: 10:02pm On May 08, 2009 |
kate_angel: I wish today's women can live by these simple rules. |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by nethacker(m): 10:04pm On May 08, 2009 |
Lax75:hmmm.eyin omo cele e tun ti de ooo, egba waooooo tope5000:@tope, whether she copied from only-God-knows-where,thats not the point.She had spoken the truth. Did u say Naggy types r better?Incredibly incredible i don die Pataki: pataki i ran to this passage in the bible and i shed tears y because such a woman is very hard to find, |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by tope5000: 10:05pm On May 08, 2009 |
~Sauron~: The only place u'd see that kind of women . , is a in feel good romance novel or movie nethacker: Well we are better than the silent n deadly but then again its ur choice |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by chikeobi(m): 10:07pm On May 08, 2009 |
tope5000:Naah when i enta nagging will be deleted from the DNA date base. Secretz:How i won't know, have you forgotten? Make i spill the bean U berra be supportive ooh and be a giver in everything he asked for cuz we men loves a cheerful giver. |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by kaypumpin2(m): 10:08pm On May 08, 2009 |
~Sauron~: It is easier for an elephant to lay egg than, tope5000: There are no such novels/movie anymore |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by tope5000: 10:09pm On May 08, 2009 |
kay_pumpin: Lol . . . .well then sauron can always draw her in piece of paper and marry her |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by Nobody: 10:09pm On May 08, 2009 |
@topic Bore me more. |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by nethacker(m): 10:10pm On May 08, 2009 |
tope5000:this is lalacious, Wait a minute, @tope,na u be this for pix? chei i don fk up, i don chop all i say infact the best ladies in the world r the nagging types i agree cos of u, i loff u |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by tope5000: 10:13pm On May 08, 2009 |
nethacker: Heheheehhehehehehhehehehe . . . . . good bouy |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by Sauron1: 10:13pm On May 08, 2009 |
tope5000: See your mouth. . . . . . U are in trouble tonight. |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by Pataki: 10:14pm On May 08, 2009 |
nethacker:Actually, there are still such women out there. That's why it is: '' he who finds a wife, has found a good thing. . . . '' I know of some on this forum, who are still single though. But quite a lot, are just the garrulous beings, both on the forum and in reality. |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by vinvinonyi: 10:38pm On May 08, 2009 |
dear, dis is a nice pissssssss,it important to continue to educate our women. you see, who says that there is no husband?man are looking for these qualities. let me pin piont here,wheither na noval or textbk,the informatn is the most important thing. Igwe, ,am happy to meet you here,i thout u specialised in only AUTOS,you re every where brossss. more of this informatn and teaching,did i says teaching, ?ya,, teachinggggggggg ohhhhhhhh. |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by Nobody: 11:41pm On May 08, 2009 |
i am surprise that you forgot some of the most important qualities in marriage: BEING HONEST is not in your list. what about HARD WORKING? what about being TRUSTWORTHY? i guess we all look for different qualities in a soulmate. |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by Sissy3(f): 12:28am On May 09, 2009 |
MRbrownJAY: LOL . . kool down, she says this is just the "part 1" maybe part 2 will include those list |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by Treetop20(m): 12:31am On May 09, 2009 |
this is nice but it shouldn't be one sided a lot of men lack respect for women hence the reason some of them nag. A happy stress free man makes a stress free woman like my father would say |
Re: 7 Qualities Of A Good Wife Part I by Nobody: 1:15am On May 09, 2009 |
~Sissy~: well she should have these as the primary qualities, |
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