Please big aunties and uncles of nairaland i need help.
I promised myself that i wasnt going to have a bf till am through with secondary school. Am in ss2 now but it seems like temptations are becoming much. I vowed that i wont succumb but its getting harder. Then i told a very good friend of mine that i would date when i enter the university but she said i should not try it, that i should wait till am a graduate and start working.
Note: when i say bf i dnt mean anything sexual would be involved cause am teamvirgin till i get married.
So my question is what age is it appropriate to have a bf?
Please dnt tell me to face my studies cos i already am but this question has been in my heart since as i dont have any elder one.
Cc lalasticlala please help me take this to front page i need answers

^^^^ seconded, the poster above me

Eyah....me too, I was #teamVirgin when I was in SS2 time will tell.


U can date without sex, just to gain experience but be careful, I'ld advice you to date secondary school boys as well...just to play safe.

Follow your instinct sis

21? Ahhh my friends go laugh me to scorn and am d only daughter so that means i have to marry early so if i start dating at the age of 21 when will i get married?

falconey:
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Do you mean i should start dating now?

bronzegoddess:
Eyah....me too, I was #teamVirgin when I was in SS2 time will tell.


U can date without sex, just to gain experience but be careful, I'ld advice you to date secondary school boys as well...just to play safe.

My instincts are confused sef

Piloeternity:
Follow your instinct sis

What's up with threads of this nature springing up with reckless abandon

Wait till you're mature and more knowledgeable about the things of the heart and also you're with the right person and not some random boy.

Please don't make the mistake of giving in to peer pressure.

Daughterzion:
21? Ahhh my friends go laugh me to scorn and am d only daughter so that means i have to marry early so if i start dating at the age of 21 when will i get married?

Daughterzion:
Do you mean i should start dating now?

U can, if u wanna. But be careful o!

Don't date a corper, don't date an undergraduate, don't date a jambite.

At what age do you think that would be?

Luckygurl:


What's up with threads of this nature springing up with reckless abandon

Wait till you're mature and more knowledgeable about the things of the heart and also you're with the right person and not some random boy.

Please don't make the mistake of giving in to peer pressure.

That means i should date my class or age mate?

bronzegoddess:


U can, if u wanna. But be careful o!

Don't date a corper, don't date an undergraduate, don't date a jambite.

Daughterzion:
That means i should date my class or age mate?

Yes, exactly that. Guys that are more advanced in age go don tear eye finish and there won't be room for intimidation.

Thanks for your advice. Its just that i promised myself and i hate compromising

bronzegoddess:


Yes, exactly that. Guys that are more advanced in age go don tear eye finish and there won't be room for intimidation.

Daughterzion:
Thanks for your advice. Its just that i promised myself and i hate compromising

Then don't date.
Its not a necessity.

Its not bf that is doing you, the problem is that you sha want to feel a big dick inside your small and shakolo phussy because you have been hearing series of stories abt sex. Omo ale jati jati. Face ya studies.

Relationship is all about maturity, you can start one when you feel you're matured enough for the task.
Never go into a relationship because your friends are into it. They may start dating from 18 and never get married in their late 30's while you may start yours av 22 and get hooked by 24. Follow your instincts.

bronzegoddess:

Then don't date. Its not a necessity.

:-) ok then thanks

Bros reread my post then comment again

fatheritunu:
Its not bf that is doing you, the problem is that you sha want to feel a big dick inside your small and shakolo phussy because you have been hearing series of stories abt sex. Omo ale jati jati. Face ya studies.

Thanks a lot bro. Now thats something!

Funminicrown:
Relationship is all about maturity, you can start one when you feel you're matured enough for the task.
Never go into a relationship because your friends are into it. They may start dating from 18 and never get married in their late 30's while you may start yours av 22 and get hooked by 24. Follow your instincts.

seconded....

Funminicrown:
Relationship is all about maturity, you can start one when you feel you're matured enough for the task.
Never go into a relationship because your friends are into it. They may start dating from 18 and never get married in their late 30's while you may start yours av 22 and get hooked by 24. Follow your instincts.

Daughterzion:
At what age do you think that would be?

My dear!!
I can't categorically state any age really.

What works for others might not work for you..

Please get your mind off all these for now and focus on more productive things.
That's my advice for you.

Que sera sera

Luckygurl:


What's up with threads of this nature springing up with reckless abandon

Wait till you're mature and more knowledgeable about the things of the heart and also you're with the right person and not some random boy.

Please don't make the mistake of giving in to peer pressure.

I hav a feeling the op won't even last bein a virgin until 21.... She will eventually hav a boyfrnd and hav sex.

Cutehector:
I hav a feeling the op won't even last bein a virgin until 21.... She will eventually hav a boyfrnd and hav sex.

why do you say that?

Thanks for the advice. I do appreciate

Luckygurl:
My dear!! I can't categorically state any age really.
What works for others might not work for you..
Please get your mind off all these for now and focus on more productive things. That's my advice for you.
Que sera sera

Cutehector:
I hav a feeling the op won't even last bein a virgin until 21.... She will eventually hav a boyfrnd and hav sex.

Is not fair na
Why'll you say such

Daughterzion:
why do you say that?

becaus its d fact gurl.. And u gotta accept it....

bronzegoddess:


U can, if u wanna. But be careful o!

Don't date a corper, don't date an undergraduate, don't date a jambite.

i can understand where you coming from but not all of the above mentions will be bad for her just dat the chances of getting a good one are low.

Luckygurl:




Is not fair na
Why'll you say such

as hard as the truth seems, I gota say it... Are u a virgin too?

How wish u can get a guy like me out there, u can date and still keep your Virginity but to be safe just be careful. I know you want to start dating that is why a thought like this came to your mind in the first place. Dont be with the guy in a place were you know you not safe. And watch his moves, better still date a Virgin guy

Cutehector:
as hard as the truth seems, I gota say it... Are u a virgin too?

Ain't no way I'm answering this question

Hiannnn! Why'll I disclose my sexual status just like that kwanu?
Mbanu!!
#confidential