I’m in my early 20s and in love with a 28-year-old man. He has a good job and he is quite nice to me. I always feel that any girl who is not avirgin should not
marry him. We have been together for a year and he has promised marrying me but he doesn’t know my past deeds. I have this innocent and youthful look and he would never know that so far, I’ve dated 12 guys and I’ve had seven abortions. He has planned our marriage for December and I feel guilty not telling him what I had done. I feel that if I tell him, he could change his mind and break up with me. I don’t think I can get another man like him. What do I do? Tell him and lose him? Or keep quiet and get married?

U r a murderer

A relationship built on lies is like a house built on quicksand.

This is actually a good opportunity to see whether he likes you for real, enough to accept you with your checkered past. No point hiding who you really are just to keep a guy imo.

LoL! firstly.....So, Are You A girl or A guy? Or A Shim?? An Hermie?? Or A Transgender or An It?? Or just A Dumb thirsty Nigga Tryna create A dumb thread in the name of Getting ATTENTION from Gullible Nairaland advisors?


Answer these Harmless questions and I'd Advice You...""

okare

I will like to say that I am very disappointed for allowing yourself undergo 7 abortions. Even as it is not my business I hope you know that you have killed 7 of your children. Do you know how many children you were meant to have, I am sure you do not know but out of all of them you have wasted 7. Well back to your question, I believe for your own good and for the good of the young man who is planning to marry you, it is better you tell him everything about your past deeds without hiding anything from him. It is now left to him to decide your future with him. If I was in his shoe to be sincere I will not make the mistake of marrying you because I don't know if you can still conceive. If you decide to hide it remember that there is nothing hidden under the sun, as one day he will definitely find out and i wonder how his reaction will be.

Are you sure you are not a robot or an alien if not.............


It's only God that can help you

O my God. am so happy for u. why don't u make it 24. and also kill more babies. Nonsese O my God. am so happy for u. why don't u make it 24. and also kill more babies. Nonsese

Estharfabian:
LoL! firstly.....So, Are You A girl or A guy? Or A Shim?? An Hermie?? Or A Transgender or An It?? Or just A Dumb thirsty Nigga Tryna create A dumb thread in the name of Getting ATTENTION from Gullible Nairaland advisors?


Answer these Harmless questions and I'd Advice You...""

Menh!!! You so in there.

Let him/her play another shot jawe, this one is over the bar.

Aifedayo:


Menh!!! You so in there.

Let him/her play another shot jawe, this one is over the bar.

"" the story is So Crazy and lame....

if i would give my honest opinion dear,go and write your WILL;print your OBITUARY and MURDER yourself.Because if the guy finds out...hmmm. i swear i will buy him a gun.

Go down with ur secret

Estharfabian:
LoL! firstly.....So, Are You A girl or A guy? Or A Shim?? An Hermie?? Or A Transgender or An It?? Or just A Dumb thirsty Nigga Tryna create A dumb thread in the name of Getting ATTENTION from Gullible Nairaland advisors?


Answer these Harmless questions and I'd Advice You...""

kikikikikikikilkikikik na gurl u sef be? wt all ds slogan?

Let the dead bury the dead, as long as u did all those "terrible" things before u met him, just keep ur mouth shut and live your life or whatever is left of it... But if u want u could give him half truths like telling him u have had 1 or 2 abortions but the whole "7"!!! MBA!!!! Or else O.Y.O!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

utenwuson:
kikikikikikikilkikikik na gurl u sef be? wt all ds slogan?

LoL! "" believe what You must Jaweh...werin concern me?

Ayaff spoken my own!

pls don tel him! if hasn't asked u! jst keep calm n get married! dts ur own husband! if u leave him who ll marry u? me? holy ghost FIRE

repeat thread:


https://www.nairaland.com/2280172/ive-dated-12-men-seven

https://www.nairaland.com/2279673/im-dating-12-men-ive

whr r all D's oloriboo kinda wmn from self ....





father lord safe ur innocent son from such ladies

you don tey for here sha.

just saw your posts from 2005.

what's your other id?