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3 Reasons Why A ‘text Relationship’ Is A Sort Of A Game, Wise Up NOW! by shezzyj(m): 8:10pm On Nov 08, 2015
We all know this seven later action word “Texting” in our generation today has certainly complicated and have caused damage and breakup to dates and relationships out there. and the harsh truth about it will be known to you today.

To go straight to the facts Bobbi Palmer a dating specialist, Who believes that “Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.”(Lao Tsu) Gave a straight talk on what texting really means and doesn’t mean.

In this facts you will also learn how you can take control of the situation like grownup person.

1. Texting is NOT dating

Don’t assume that getting a bunch of texts from a guy means you’re in a relationship with him. While he wouldn’t be spending any time texting you if he wasn’t having fun or attracted, that doesn’t mean he’s showing signs of wanting to get to know you in a meaningful way. Expecting him to move on to something more serious just isn’t realistic.

A ‘text relationship’ is a sort of a game – creating a false sense of connection that sets up unrealistic expectations. I’ve seen countless women create complete fantasies and get drawn in — often before they even meet a man.

2. Some men use texting to string you along

If you are getting texts along with calls and dates – excellent! He’s interested in getting to know you and likely looking for a relationship. But BEWARE: these exchanges are extremely rare.

On the other hand, you probably know the guy who texts once in awhile to check in. He tells you how much he likes you and even acts super interested in your life, but ends it there. I call men that act this way “pingers”.

Hunting for an ego boost, a pinger wants to make sure you’re still a willing option. He’s put you on the back burner – and you deserve better. If you’re involved with a pinger, you need to call it quits.

The 3rd one Will make you upset http://www.entracomic.com/2015/11/3-reasons-why-a-text-relationship-is-a-sort-of-a-game-wise-up-now/.html

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Re: 3 Reasons Why A ‘text Relationship’ Is A Sort Of A Game, Wise Up NOW! by Intrepidone(m): 9:00pm On Nov 08, 2015
Nice one, that's a truth
Re: 3 Reasons Why A ‘text Relationship’ Is A Sort Of A Game, Wise Up NOW! by princessono(f): 11:48pm On Nov 08, 2015
Hello shezzy nice one. But I will like to share my experience of a guy I met on line. We been seeing. But he only text me n if he want to call just few mins.he tells me he loves me,which I dt believe him. Pls shezzy I need to know does it mean the guy is a pinger. Pls advise.
Re: 3 Reasons Why A ‘text Relationship’ Is A Sort Of A Game, Wise Up NOW! by princessono(f): 11:51pm On Nov 08, 2015
Shezzyj I need to tell u more so I cn ger advise. U can mail me. Prettymyluv@yahoo.co.uk. Thanks
Re: 3 Reasons Why A ‘text Relationship’ Is A Sort Of A Game, Wise Up NOW! by dovie002(m): 11:54pm On Nov 08, 2015
Nice

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Re: 3 Reasons Why A ‘text Relationship’ Is A Sort Of A Game, Wise Up NOW! by shezzyj(m): 11:25pm On Nov 12, 2015
Princessono due to my experience you can only call a guy pinger if he does not communicate often and once he does he on do a text and thats all thou he still claim he loves you and so on but its all game and if you watch it he has this particular girl he calls and text regularly.
buttom line: I dont think your guy is a pinger if he text and call once a while maybe is schedule or his environment does not allow such
princessono:
Hello shezzy nice one. But I will like to share my experience of a guy I met on line. We been seeing. But he only text me n if he want to call just few mins.he tells me he loves me,which I dt believe him. Pls shezzy I need to know does it mean the guy is a pinger. Pls advise.

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