rexkexmilan:
OP, Be frank with Yourself... If a Girl approaches you "First" and Start teliing you Funny Stuffs, How will you feel? How will you assess the Girl?

rexkexmilan:
OP, Be frank with Yourself... If a Girl approaches you "First" and Starts telling you Funny Stuffs, How will you feel? How will you assess the Girl?

JudgementHammer:
Op asking someone out means

-ure ready to spend for [b][b]that[/b][/b] person cus d person was on his/her own jeje b4 u asked him/her out

-ure ready to take d blame and bear the pain if the person misbehaves and walks out of the relationship. Afterall he/she didn't ask for it, u did

And these are the least things a woman's nature can bear so its better she stays on her own and show appreciation when the man comes for her

amokeme:
it is a financialopportunity?

rexkexmilan:
OP, Be frank with Yourself... If a Girl approaches you "First" and Starts telling you Funny Stuffs, How will you feel? How will you assess the Girl?

amokeme:
Well not all guys are mentally mature to handle it done the other way.. so, don't blame the ladies.

And I don't think it's a "fear of rejection case" (at least not generally )

JudgementHammer:
Op asking someone out means

-ure ready to spend for that person cus d person was on his/her own jeje b4 u asked him/her out

-ure ready to take d blame and bear the pain if the person misbehaves and walks out of the relationship. Afterall he/she didn't ask for it, u did

And these are the least things a woman's nature can do or bear so its better she stays on her own and show appreciation when the man comes for her. Yet u'll still find some unappreciative ones

usermane:


Again, my post misunderstood by another poster. It seem many people just can't read and digest simple English of under five hundred words. No where in my post did I question women for not making the first move. I consistently stuck with the objective:

To analyze the excuses that ladies present for not making the first move, explain why these are flimsy excuses and state the true reason why women do not make the first move or ask out men.

rexkexmilan:
OP, Be frank with Yourself... If a Girl approaches you "First" and Starts telling you Funny Stuffs, How will you feel? How will you assess the Girl?

Laveda:
Nice question.
I, Personally can't ask a guy out...with the way these Naija dudes see things? Hell No.
I'll rather make it obvious I like him than going ahead to ask him out....

Kinda funny though.

MzNelly:
It's not like we're scared of rejection.

Let's be frank. We are women, and with the right use of words and adequate body language, it would be near impossible for a guy to just turn us down.

The only reason why we steer clear of that is because the guy or most guys, are certain to take advantage of it

usermane:


Where in my post did I blame ladies for never making the first move? What my post dealt with all along is women's refusal to admit their fear of rejection and giving other excuse I consider lame for not making the first move.



The whole article tried to explain why fear of rejection is the major if not the single cause. If you don't think it is, you owe the readers an explanation

usermane:


Read and digest the original post again. There is nothing good about rexkexmilan 's questions at all. His question is not relevant to the topic, I am,analysing and proferring reasons why women don't make the first move and he comes here asking me how i will access a girl that ask me out?

JudgementHammer:

You're simply confused. That you're good in analyzing english isn't any reason for you not to realize that reality and experiences inspire answers. Don't even know if you're a man or a woman. I just gave you 2-3 reasons why women don't don't make d 1st move and ask men out which u asked for(typed in simple english), and you can't recognize them

missyadorable:
Naija guy chases a woman for days to weeks to months and asks her out

When she accepts, especially after he has entered her "promised land".things change!

He starts seeing her as who.re,cheap sl.ut n her value reduces.just because she gave in to his advances

I "sorry" for the woman who goes all out to ask a man out

Am very sorry cos by the time he is done "chopping" and bashing her,her life will not remain the same.

usermane:


You sure can bet your allowance on this?



But guys that ask you out can certainly still take advantage of it. Which lead me to conclude that fear of rejection is the prime reason

MzNelly:

We are women, and with the right use of words and adequate body language, it would be near impossible for a guy to just turn us down.

JimiCoker:

Whoa! Hold your horses Nelly!
*said in my best southern drawl*
Are you suggesting that by uttering some words and wriggling your shoulders, you can bring any man down??
This is a testament to how far we've fallen guys. To think there was a time when women were forced to bow their heads in the presence of men

[size=1pt]Or was that in China? I forget [/size]

MzNelly:

I'm not suggesting.
I speak the truth and you know this.