A friend of mine hav been disturbing me on this matter. her guy of 7yrs caught her.
on thisdday she was wt her guy and her phone rang and her boyfriend picked the call which happend to be from another guy and the guy dropped the line. Her BF ask her the person, but she doesnt know her to cover up. she explained to her guy she dated the guy wen she doesnt know wat her boy friend hav for her cos is distance relationship but now that she is not dating the guy again. her BF take up this and quit the relationship. since then they have been a good friend, her BF still send her money but he tries to break the communication link between them. my friend said she loved the guy more than anybody but the guy refused to accept her back. she begged the guy but everytin proove abortive. she told me that the guy called her recently and told her that is not easy for him to leave her but he just hav to do it, he also told her that she is a blessing to him and that he can never forget her. my friend has been dreaming the day that this guy will come back. she is wt anoda guy now but she is still in love wt the ex guy. what can she do?

What she can do is get a life and stop crying over spilled milk.

She's with another dude now and so she should be concentrating on her present relationship!

ur friend shud pack all tings n move to her ex's place of she deems dat necessary n fink by so doing he cud love her n take her back.

she and her ex should talk openly about how they both feel, what they both want and IF they can make it work.

if they still love each other, but can see a future past their current trust issues - then they should both move on with their lives. if they cant move on - they should give it a second chance - no point being miserable and making their current partneers miserable too in the process - because they dont deserve it