Hello Nairalanders

I have a girl friend who were madly in Love and till one day after we had a little misunderstanding and i sent her a text and told her that lets remain as friends and no longer as girl friend and boy friend.Later after two weeks I went back to her and begged her to come back that it was not my intension that we end it like this but she refused and since then i have been calling her and begging but she has refused after giving me a little hope that things can work out for us but lately she told me that we could only be friend s and that she can't change her decision.SO i am confused and will like to know what method to apply so as to get her back.I appreciate your contribution as i look forward to get them, Thanks

My advise is that you remain friends with her. Do things for her and really show her u want her, as in send her flowers, surprise her etc,

but after u do these things she she refuses, her mind is made up. move on

@ poster its either of 2 things
1. She probably didnt love you at first and when you suggested you became just friends, she strucked on to the idea!
2. She deeply likes/ love you and you shattered her heart by suggesting you became friends.

Let her be for a while, if she likes you, she 'll come back for you , if not get it stepping

My $0.02

OP,
face it, you blew it. Only thing u can do now is 4get her. Even if she ever takes u back, she will so do u eh, you'll regret ever dumping her. The only reason she'll ever get with u again is for revenge's sake. Trust me.