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The Five Levels Of Seducers by Macgreat(m): 6:00pm On Oct 17, 2006
LEVEL 1: THE “HOPER.”
This man does nothing, and lives in hope that someday he’ll meet a woman who will want him.He’s been so demoralized by his interaction with women that he can do nothing but wait helplessly.Most of the time this man ends up alone.

LEVEL 2: THE “OCCASIONAL TRYER.”
This man tries something to meet women every few weeks or months, but gets easily demoralized and gives up, only to try again a few weeks or a few months later. Given infinite time, this approach would work. Given one lifetime, it’s totally relying on luck, and the odds are against you.

LEVEL 3A: THE “STUDIER.”
This man studies seduction, reads all the books, and perhaps argues about it on-line, or with dating coaches, but he never is actually able to get himself to take action. His need to get it right, and to have his interactions with women work perfectly the first time he tries them, leads him to continuously study to perfect his technique while never taking action or risking rejection or failure with a real-world woman. His need to study until he can do it “perfectly” stops this man in his tracks.


LEVEL 3B: THE “QUICK FIXER.”
This man is looking for a quick fix to his dating problems. He’s taken in by anything that offers him irresistible attraction to women with no real work involved. He empties his wallet on pheromone-scented cologne, subliminal seduction tapes, or techniques which promise to teach him how to bamboozle women and make them into sex slaves in f ive minutes or less. He often lives in some past glory of the time his quick-fix approach to seduction actually worked. He keeps on the lookout for the next quick fix that will at last make him effortlessly irresistible to the women of his dreams. The Level 3 Seducer also sees success and failure in a very black-and-white way: either he got sex, t o n i g h t, or he was a total failure. He’s unable to celebrate the successes he has wh i c h move him on his way to becoming a successful seducer; he’s not willing to feel good about moving a seduction forward in small steps. He’s not able to feel good about his “fa i l you're e s ,” or to r e c e ive the learning that he could get from seductions that don’t end in sex. His need to find a
quick fix leaves him unwilling to do the long-term work it takes to become a successful seducer.


LEVEL 4: THE MAN WHO WORKS THE FUNDAMENTALS.
The Level 4 Seducer understands something that levels 1 through 3 don’t: He understands that the “war” in dating is not with women, with bad luck, or with the world. He understands that the “war” is in his head, with himself. This means that the Level 4 Seducer understands that the world doesn’t need to change. If he wants his world to be different, he needs to change. He understands that, when it comes to dating, there is no “quick fix,” and that studying until you get it “right” before talking to women
will always leave him in the cold, alone. The Level 4 Seducer understands that successfully seducing women is like any other longterm project. He understands that, at first, he will have to put a lot of energy into it, and settle for small results until he gets better at it. He knows that at the beginning of learning any new skill there is a lot of work, and that the returns at first are small. He understands that returns get
larger only as his skill level increases, and understands that will only happen with practice.
The Level 4 Seducer understands the Fundamentals of Seduction, and practices the fundamentals on a daily basis. He knows that only by mastering the fundamentals can he become a more effortless and effective seducer. He’s willing to do the work to get the results. His motto might be, “I understand that if myworld is to change, I must change. Just tell me what the work is to do, and I’ll do it.” He does the work, takes responsibility for all of it, doesn’t expect women to generate anything, and gets the results.


LEVEL 5: THE “MAN’S MAN.”
The Level 5 Seducer has integrated the fundamentals of seduction into his life so thoroughly
that he no longer has to think about them: they are part of who he is as a man, and he has the relationships he wants with women, and the sex life he wants.
The Level 5 Seducer creates the life he wants on every level, either by generalizing the fundamentals of seduction to other areas of his life, or by discovering other fundamentals that he can master to give him the results he’s after. The Level 5 makes his life work for him, and lives life on his own terms. The Level 5 Seducer has a life and an affect that makes women want to be around him. His life generates many opportunities to interact with women, and he’s so good at seducing that women actually pursue him. cheesy cool


WHAT LEVEL ARE YOU? wink
Re: The Five Levels Of Seducers by Macgreat(m): 2:18pm On Oct 18, 2006
Hey! you all dont want to answer the question or are you all "Hoper"
Re: The Five Levels Of Seducers by whitelexi(m): 9:52am On Oct 19, 2006
Probably been on all the levels grin

I was born into the level 1, grew to be a bad boy and graduated into the level 5 at the Uni, Then i accepted Christ and got demoted to level 3a, and remained like that until last yr, when my outlook on life changed drastically and i knew i had to face reality if i was going to ever get married, so i progressed to level 4 this yr, had a wonderful invincible friend who broke my heart and it hurt real bad, and now i dont mid remaining on level 1, why?
Cos when u find that real one, you dont need to search anymore grin
Re: The Five Levels Of Seducers by Dvampire(m): 1:31pm On Oct 20, 2006
@whitelexi: word bro!
Re: The Five Levels Of Seducers by ThoniaSlim(f): 6:24pm On Oct 20, 2006
@whitelexi
intresting
Re: The Five Levels Of Seducers by whitelexi(m): 11:46am On Oct 21, 2006
@thoniaslim whats interesting again
That was the story of my (player) life - in brief grin
Re: The Five Levels Of Seducers by LanreDaMan(m): 2:42pm On Oct 21, 2006
All of my Life I have been on Level
1 but I from Last year I moved up to Level 3A,
But now I am on Level 4
Re: The Five Levels Of Seducers by chinedumo(m): 6:53pm On Jul 29, 2010
nice worth meditating on
Re: The Five Levels Of Seducers by Magz(m): 12:48am On Jul 30, 2010
GREAT, I mean absolutely GREAT thread!!!

I myself would be a Level 4 guy. But, I am working to reach Level 5, and will be there soon enough.
Re: The Five Levels Of Seducers by 1105(f): 1:00am On Jul 30, 2010
I am not among any category~

I am a man of peace and have Christ in me~

Infact I am born again, since i was banned obviously`
Re: The Five Levels Of Seducers by iice(f): 4:34am On Jul 30, 2010
I like level 4. They are more grounded. 5 tends to spin off to narcissism.
Re: The Five Levels Of Seducers by 5stars(m): 6:40pm On Jul 31, 2010
M just in ma own level tha king of ma empire

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