I have been with my man for 19 months now and he is what you would term in this generation, a good man and I from preamble made sure he knew I would not indulge in pre marital s*x but I could allow pre-intimacy and he agreed(no, I am not a virgin). My reason being it's a sin.
The truth is, while i know pre marital sex is sinful, i only used it as an excuse. I love s*x and I crave for it but not from him. All I think about is the s*x with my ex and it's all I want. I am not cheating on him but if I ran into my ex, I might.
I want to be able to feel this way about my man, I just can't. Is there a way out of this?

I only pity your mumu boyfriend who is dating a pretentious Ashawo f*ck about.

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
I only pity your mumu boyfriend who is dating a pretentious Ashawo f*ck about.

not nice

and thats how i wasted my mb to read this crap

Jolllyjoy:
not nice

The "Truth" is never nice

Lubbish, so the guy that deflowered you has 6heads and 9preek abi

Lol, bitter truth. Your guy has a side chick!

19 months without sex? I'd rather be jailed like nelson mandela or die from seawater poisoning and have my corpse raped by an 50 elephants with massive dicks! FÚck that!

So, it wasn't a sin when you were riding your ex like ferrari abi? When you used your hand, punny and mouth to change his gears, it wasn't a sin? Now you've found a "good man" who deserves the sex, it's now a sin? And you're proud to say it's your excuse. Echiche chaa chaa. Smh. I don't even know what to say to you!

You still want to run into the arms of your ex and fÚck him? Obviously! Because you pointed out clearly that you might cheat if you run into him. You think cheating is only when you fÙck someone else? You're already cheating on the good guy by fÙcking your ex inside that little head of yours! And you will reap what you sow!

Smh. Later you'll open a thread and say good men are hard to find. Just put yourself in his situation. How will you feel?

The only thing you can do is to leave that guy. You no want make e chop outside, yet you no wan give am make e chop? Hafa you na? Which kind Enemy of progress you be sef?!


[size=15pt]Karishika fall and die![/size]

It's your body and the decision to share it lies solely with you. Whatever your reasons are, he agreed to abstinence...not your problem. However,give it time, you might grow to actually long for him. cheers.

Eleba:
It's your body and the decision to share it lies solely with you. Whatever your reasons are, he agreed to abstinence...not your problem. However,give it time, you might grow to actually long for him. cheers.

Good advice. Others above you are just typing rubbish, trying to sound funny

Azil:
I have been with my man for 19 months now and he is what you would term in this generation, a good man and I from preamble made sure he knew I would not indulge in pre marital s*x but I could allow pre-intimacy and he agreed(no, I am not a virgin). My reason being it's a sin.
The truth is, while i know pre marital sex is sinful, i only used it as an excuse. I love s*x and I crave for it but not from him. All I think about is the s*x with my ex and it's all I want. I am not cheating on him but if I ran into my ex, I might.
I want to be able to feel this way about my man, I just can't. Is there a way out of this?

U are not physically and sexually attracted to ur man, that's why u both can keep ur hands off each other for over 18 months. Trust me, it's best u break up, u need to be sexually attracted and aroused to your mate. Very important... Good luck with it...

Nonsense.

247notire:
U are not physically and sexually attracted to ur man, that's why u both can keep ur hands off each other for over 18 months. Trust me, it's best u break up, u need to be sexually attracted and aroused to your mate. Very important... Good luck with it...

I believe you are right, I do admire how he treats me and how kind he is but sadly, not him. However, I am working on myself to grow to love him like he deserves to be loved for he is a good person. Thanks.

These ediots that agree to no sex relationships in this day and age baffle me, especially the ones dating reformed sluts. Who are these guys? If you can touch and smooch and fingerise, you can definitely have sex. Guys just dey zuzu nowadays. Ah ah.

Rubb_ish

obiorathesubtle:
Lol, bitter truth. Your guy has a side chick!

19 months without sex? I'd rather be jailed like nelson mandela or die from seawater poisoning and have my corpse raped by an 50 elephants with massive dicks! FÚck that!

So, it wasn't a sin when you were riding your ex like ferrari abi? When you used your hand, punny and mouth to change his gears, it wasn't a sin? Now you've found a "good man" who deserves the sex, it's now a sin? And you're proud to say it's your excuse. Echiche chaa chaa. Smh. I don't even know what to say to you!

You still want to run into the arms of your ex and fÚck him? Obviously! Because you pointed out clearly that you might cheat if you run into him. You think cheating is only when you fÙck someone else? You're already cheating on the good guy by fÙcking your ex inside that little head of yours! And you will reap what you sow!

Smh. Later you'll open a thread and say good men are hard to find. Just put yourself in his situation. How will you feel?

The only thing you can do is to leave that guy. You no want make e chop outside, yet you no wan give am make e chop? Hafa you na? Which kind Enemy of progress you be sef?!


[size=15pt]Karishika fall and die![/size]

this is the very first time i'm reading a long coment from you bubu

obiorathesubtle:
Lol, bitter truth. Your guy has a side chick!

19 months without sex? I'd rather be jailed like nelson mandela or die from seawater poisoning and have my corpse raped by an 50 elephants with massive dicks! FÚck that!

So, it wasn't a sin when you were riding your ex like ferrari abi? When you used your hand, punny and mouth to change his gears, it wasn't a sin? Now you've found a "good man" who deserves the sex, it's now a sin? And you're proud to say it's your excuse. Echiche chaa chaa. Smh. I don't even know what to say to you!

You still want to run into the arms of your ex and fÚck him? Obviously! Because you pointed out clearly that you might cheat if you run into him. You think cheating is only when you fÙck someone else? You're already cheating on the good guy by fÙcking your ex inside that little head of yours! And you will reap what you sow!

Smh. Later you'll open a thread and say good men are hard to find. Just put yourself in his situation. How will you feel?

The only thing you can do is to leave that guy. You no want make e chop outside, yet you no wan give am make e chop? Hafa you na? Which kind Enemy of progress you be sef?!


[size=15pt]Karishika fall and die![/size]

This girl is nothing new. She is expressing the dilemma of lot's of girls today!

They prefer to marry a man who loves them blindly, but that man will never be their real husband!!!

GUYS BE WISE!