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Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by doveda: 1:35pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
nasha1: Yet you quoted me Of course I would, you would not have told me your busy schedule without it Busy woman 3 Likes |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by oloyede252(m): 1:38pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
doveda:i understand your point of view.also the op is making much sense..let agree to disagree. |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by doveda: 1:41pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
oloyede252: I am going to disagree with you He is not!!! If have to ask your girl-child that question, then you need to question your parenting skills |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by oloyede252(m): 1:44pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
doveda:you still dont get it.lemma ask you.what the best way to justify you going to school/formal education.. 1 Like |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by HaneefahRN(f): 1:45pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
doveda: He is NL's minister for women affairs ni. Bloody hypocrite 1 Like |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by doveda: 1:49pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
oloyede252: My viewpoint -knowledge sake ...I am a sucker for knowledge -back-up plan -empowerment Dad's viewpoint -pride -a form of inheritance/empowerment -back-up plan |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Deejavuu(f): 1:50pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
Gerrard59: Wished i could like this comment a million times. Too much sense! 1 Like |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by oloyede252(m): 1:51pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
doveda:what do you know about parenting skills.asking that question is quite germane becos why will i sponsor my girl child up to phd level only for her to become a full house wife of a rich man.does that makes sense to you.. |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by doveda: 1:51pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
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Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by oloyede252(m): 2:01pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
doveda:you mentiond empowerment.which is what i have being making emphasis on.this thread is abt empowering women.the feminist movement didnt canvass for women to be full house wives but to empower them politically,socially and economically SO AS TO BE SELF DEPENDENT .so what is your point |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by doveda: 2:03pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
oloyede252: Yes, it does. For example, my dad does not care he wants me to graduate with good grades. he considers it his responsibility and once he is done with me. It is up to me to continue my life. He is also 100% confident of his parenting skills so he knows that either way I am not going to end up hopeless. |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by doveda: 2:10pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
oloyede252: I have never referred to myself as a feminist Empowerment is but one of the reasons for going to school. And staying home all day, should not make you less empowered. Some women feel empowered when they do things for the family not for the money. I do not believe that empowerment means earning your own especially in a setting where both partners do not mind sharing an income while the other partner provides the full family support. You should also know that I do not mind house-husband But then how many married female Nigerian graduates do you know? I mean graduates that are not willing to work or have a career 1 Like |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Youngzedd(m): 2:12pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
ENIMONEY: Are you guilty? I never said She should marry a poor man and if you were able to comprehend my post, I said middle class. Moreover, when you see a man with vision you will know. Both men and women should work hard. Heaven knows that I won't even date a girl with empty head (liability). Many guys who are well to do today are afraid of getting married because of gold diggers like ya. True love is now scarce. |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by oloyede252(m): 2:15pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
doveda:lols.seems you're a daddys girl.remember you mentioned back up as a justification for schooling from dad view.what back up will an unproductive housewife render to her father?.for me i believe if my girl child desire to be a ful house wife.there is no need sponsoring her advance studies.the basic and post are ok for a housewife because advance studies will be useles to her.dnt you think |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by STENON(f): 2:18pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
Sunnypar:Really? 1 Like |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by doveda: 2:24pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
oloyede252: Back up as in if I got tired of housework or some other job. I am a daddy's girl. No, they are not. What about her kids? A housewife is productive!!! She is productive to her family and to the society a large 1 Like |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by oloyede252(m): 2:28pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
doveda:you should start identifying your self with them.(feminist) lol@house husband.you sure. As per you last statement.most of the female graduates i knw are working.not just staying at home doing nothing.. |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by virginboy1(m): 2:29pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
doveda:Lolzzz, for real See subjective idea . "Marriage for you is pleasing God" yet all you seek for is to marry a very rich man? issorite. Well I am not against marriage ooo. But the way most of these women carry relationship and marriage is as if its a job opportunity. Make una no dey frustrate men Biko.tanks |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by oloyede252(m): 2:38pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
doveda:a housewife is not productive to the sociey ecomically or politically. Doveda be a good girl and make daddy proud.be the best you can be.dont limit yourself..be the next hilary clinton of nigeria. |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by doveda: 2:42pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
oloyede252:I don't want to be Hilary Clinton! Daddy does not mind. A full time housewife is productive to her family and a productive family makes a productive society. 1 Like |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by doveda: 2:43pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
virginboy1: Yes now Blame the society and our culture |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by doveda: 2:46pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
oloyede252: I am very sure. That was why I am faulting this article. It makes no sense. Married Nigerian women are trying so hard just like their husbands. The desire to marry a rich man is not the absence of my aspirations. |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by oloyede252(m): 2:47pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
doveda:okay. |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by doveda: 2:49pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by virginboy1(m): 2:50pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
doveda:Lol. Babe now you are being realistic. But I don't think society and culture should be blame. Instead blame poverty and greed. |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by oloyede252(m): 2:50pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
doveda:oh God.not again. |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by oloyede252(m): 2:53pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
doveda:better |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by doveda: 2:54pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
virginboy1: Nah I disagree. |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by doveda: 3:06pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Seventeen(f): 3:09pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
ChikezieU:i dint miss anything. I know exactly what op is saying. His argument is that it becoming more of a waste of money to educate a girl since 'most girls' (whatever u guyz mean by dat cos i dont agree) will still look for rich guys to marry instead of being self reliant and make their own money. My argument is that there is more to education dan ending up being rich and all that. If we hv to ask dat ridiculous question op is suggesting we ask our female children b4 we decide and make up our mind whether to give our daughters education (so that it doesnt end up being a waste of money) then the same should be asked a male child too, cos as much girls who are out there looking for money with their 'bodies' after their parents hv supposedly wasted money to train them (as op put it), are also many guys who are also graduates looking for money who have resorted to 419, yahoo-yahoo, armed robbery, pimping, rituals and lots more. So i can safely say dat educating both males and females have the same risks and problems. Ur Male child who u spent money to educate culd still end up useless. The quest and obssecion for wealth is another issue on its own and it affects both sexes. The last thing that should be on the mind of a father or mother before carrying out any duty as a parent is ur childs gender. Just do ur duty as a parent, pray for ur kids whether male or female to make u proud, leave everything to God and hope for the best. 1 Like |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by smileysmiley(f): 3:13pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
Toks2008:one answer to your question... ladies are expected to get married in their early twenties, once she clocks 25, the 'go and marry' crew will attack but a guy in his early twenties has little or no responsibility so what is stopping him from going out there to hustle and make a living for his future family... mind you, once the lady gets married, she is expected to start bearing children which might affect her future dreams... To all the ladies out there looking for a guy that can give you a comfortable life, you are not gold diggers at all, these guys are just getting too lazy these days. 2 Likes |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by ChikezieU(m): 3:45pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
Well...you r right Seventeen: |
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