You think you just met a nice girl and you want a serious relationship with her.
How do you establish the right foundation for the budding romance?

_{kind of curious}

Well, it's always good to be friends from the start.

learn not to be frds with her for too long

just be you, while not losing sight of what you want for 'end-result' (& i dont mean sex).

ibkaye:

Well, it's always good to be friends from the start.

And what happens if you get stuck in the frenzone

y me:

learn not to be frds with her for too long

how long is too long? i am trying to carry out this strategy on you.

C2H5OH:

how long is too long? i am trying to carry out this strategy on you.

you don fail be that nah, cause nothing for you

see your mouth. i no want you sef
yeye

C2H5OH:

see your mouth. i no want you sef
yeye

oh to think i was even going to say yes to you
thank gwad i didnt

emmmmmmmmmm. . . yes for wetin?

nich:

emmmmmmmmmm. . . yes for wetin?

for anything worth it

y me:

oh to think i was even going to say yes to you
thank gwad i didnt

it's your loss babe. even God knows that I'm a whole lotta man. Ask tope

C2H5OH:

it's your loss babe. even God knows that I'm a whole lotta man. Ask tope

He sure is

C2H5OH:

it's your loss babe. even God knows that I'm a whole lotta man. Ask tope

Rofl
i dont want you  

tope5000:

He sure is

Rofl

lol

see pooooooint! 

@ topic,

to get off to a good start, you start. but wetin you dey find?
i think that'd would determine what is defined as 'good start'.

dnt lose the connection and communication. learn how to compromise. learn how to be  independent and dependent at the same time.

and Learn how to be a good LISTENER.

nich:

see pooooooint!

@ topic,

to get off to a good start, you start. but wetin you dey find?
i think that'd would determine what is defined as 'good start'.

It has to be something serious.

Take for example, I was recently introduced to a young girl (not a minor). But I don't know if she is mentally prepared to handle something serious. And I definitely would not want to rush her if she wants to live out her youth.

~Sissy~:

dnt lose the connection and communication. learn how to compromise. how to be independence and dependence at the same time.

and Learn how to be a good LISTENER.

Good point. It's important to retain your personal identity.

You should stop worrying about the so called good start in a relationship! Whenever I meet a chick, the things that run through my mind include the following:

Whether she has had an abortion before or 2

How many men has she broken up with

The level of greed she harbours deep in her

How dubious and jealous she really is

When she would wipe that smirk from her face and reveal her true ice queen lifestyle

How many men have slept with her

How many dependants she has that she is ready to dump on me

How her eyes wanders whenever I remove my wallet

How many phone calls she recieves per hour

How many people she has cheated with

Her nagging barometre scale

How obsessive and a control freak she is

How dense she really is intellectually hiding under the jeans, false hair, bland make up and shades

How often she bleaches and pancakes her face

The lies that are oozing from her mouth there and then, all in the name of forming

How dirty she really is and whether the pant she is wearing has been washed in the last 3 days

Whether she is just coming from a hotel and has just being brutally gang banged

Whether her clothes or accessories belong to her friend or family member

How terrible a cook she really is and believes so much in fast food and of course the man paying

Whether she can even clean her room properly

Whether she is a nagging queen and the neighbourhood champion gossip and trouble maker

Whether any of her exes has beaten her before

Whether she has been raped

How soon I am going to start beating and slapping her in the relationship

What sort of venereal disease she is harbouring as you speak!

When you consider all these, you now realise that the problem isn't getting off to a good start with her but the inherent problems you will encounter when the so called honey moon period is over! So bottomline, its not worth it freting over these feline creatures! Always remind yourself about any 3 or more of the above posers and you will realise that you won't have problems with the foundation! They are all the same!

seems like someone didnt get enough breast milk at birth

Chuck Ba$$:

You should stop worrying about the so called good start in a relationship! Whenever I meet a chick, the things that run through my mind include the following:

Whether she has had an abortion before or 2

How many men has she broken up with

The level of greed she harbours deep in her

How dubious and jealous she really is

When she would wipe that smirk from her face and reveal her true ice queen lifestyle

How many men have slept with her

How many dependants she has that she is ready to dump on me

How her eyes wanders whenever I remove my wallet

How many phone calls she recieves per hour

How many people she has cheated with

Her nagging barometre scale

How obsessive and a control freak she is

How dense she really is intellectually hiding under the jeans, false hair, bland make up and shades

How often she bleaches and pancakes her face

The lies that are oozing from her mouth there and then, all in the name of forming

How dirty she really is and whether the pant she is wearing has been washed in the last 3 days

Whether she is just coming from a hotel and has just being brutally gang banged

Whether her clothes or accessories belong to her friend or family member

How terrible a cook she really is and believes so much in fast food and of course the man paying

Whether she can even clean her room properly

Whether she is a nagging queen and the neighbourhood champion gossip and trouble maker

Whether any of her exes has beaten her before

Whether she has been raped

How soon I am going to start beating and slapping her in the relationship

What sort of venereal disease she is harbouring as you speak!

When you consider all these, you now realise that the problem isn't getting off to a good start with her but the inherent problems you will encounter when the so called honey moon period is over! So bottomline, its not worth it freting over these feline creatures! Always remind yourself about any 3 or more of the above posers and you will realise that you won't have problems with the foundation! They are all the same!

That many things run through your mind? You must have been jilted pretty badly by some bad ass girl in your past.

C2H5OH:

You think you just met a nice girl and you want a serious relationship with her.
How do you establish the right foundation for the budding romance?

_{kind of curious}

Aawww, you didn't have to go through all these for me na

Baby, you know I love you and you are the only man for me Anyway don't let me stop you, feel free to ask more probbing questions to help our love life pumpkin, whilst i go make plans for our wedding

You already know baby. I will do whatever it takes to make sure I have you in my life.

C2H5OH:

You already know baby. I will do whatever it takes to make sure I have you in my life.

Kai Romeo, you must not be like this in real life oh, ashewo

Right foundation for a budding romance ~ This is the lucky girl whom you have chosen to move with along with, in your next stage in life, so you have to be sensitive to each other and your needs without being told, be respectful to each other, appreciate one another, seek and value each other's opinion, romance each other, surprise each other, be considerate and kind and affectionate towards one another, have a forgiving spirit, be ready to lend a ear, support one another, learn to trust one another, . . .

big_bumper:


Kai Romeo, you must not be like this in real life oh, ashewo

That's for me to know and for you to find out.

Right foundation for a budding romance ~ This is the lucky girl whom you have chosen to move with along with, in your next stage in life, so you have to be sensitive to each other and your needs without being told, be respectful to each other, appreciate one another, seek and value each other's opinion, romance each other, surprise each other, be considerate and kind and affectionate towards one another, have a forgiving spirit, be ready to lend a ear, support one another, learn to trust one another, . . .

Solid advise.