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first,good morning aunty!
second, no be by force you must marry.
DazAll.

Ermmmm.

I read your post, all I saw what was you did with your own strength. Did you try prayers?

I can't relate to your situation, I don't know what to say, but I'll put in prayers. Not a promise tho.

am coming

Genevieve Nnaji and Linda Ikeji ain't complaining.

Relax.

Prayer is the key to everything my sister, Gods time is the best don't wory God has preper a special husband for you

will comment when it lands safely on front page..

lemme read forst

My sister first in the real sense who told you something is wrong with you being single. You can live life have kids being single but all this comes with a sacrifice. You have to change your lifestyle to fit your current status ok!. And if you wan't to lead a life of submition you have to rearange your present social modus.

What on earth is the OP talking about? I can't make a tail of what she is saying

Op, did any man propose in ur 20's?, ansa dis ? First.

I can imagine, you just have to loosen up , cut some slacks. take yourself out, give yourself a nice treat ,go to the cinemas, try and make friends (with positivity) in them. just so you know, your Mr Right is prolly waiting for you somewhere out there. and remember if you pray, keep the faith glowing.
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#wishyouluck.

jmoore:
Genevieve Nnaji and Linda Ikeji ain't complaining.

Relax.

The are complaining just not to you. Loneliness is a bastard

Highcuerayte:
What on earth is the OP talking about? I can't make a tail of what she is saying

guy, her write up is straight foreward, if u can advice her, pls do, if u cnt, just lie low pls.

PrimeMinisterr:
I can imagine, you just have to loosen up , cut some slacks. take yourself out, give yourself a nice treat ,go to the cinemas, try and make friends (with positivity) in them. just so you know, your Mr Right could be waiting for you somewhere out there. and remember if you pray, keep the faith glowing.
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#wishyouluck.

Mr Nice Guy

obiorathesubtle:
Mr Nice Guy

. . . . haha, c'mon man ! seriously ?

firstking01:
Op, did any man propose in ur 20's?, ansa dis ? First.

hmmm... so she should accept marriage proposal from just any tom, dick and harry that comes because she wants to get married

Go out and mingle. Go to seminars, conferences, church and make friends. I know how it feels to be single. Loneliness kills sis. That does not mean u should accept proposal from 'just' any guy. Marriage should be an enjoyment not 'endurement' May that guy locate u. 2016 is ur year

op I get what you are going through, been through a lot of rough patch myself in the past.

don't give up on your job. necessity is the mother of invention. look at your work from another angle and try to see what new innovations you can add. surf the internet for more ideas.

as for your being single at 31, its not a crime.

the crime is in forgetting to live your life while you are waiting for your husband to show up

the crime is in forcing yourself to get married to whom you know is not right for u

love is not something you go out looking for, it is something that happens to you when you are not expecting.

so go out have fun, enjoy your age, love your life and you will attract love to yourself.

all the best.

Abbykem:
Go out and mingle. Go to seminars, conferences, church and make friends. I know how it feels to be single. Loneliness kills sis. That does not mean u should accept proposal from 'just' any guy. Marriage should be an enjoyment not 'endurement' May that guy locate u. 2016 is ur year

very well written.

PrimeMinisterr:
. . . . haha, c'mon man ! seriously ?

ehena. You helped out nicely.

Just allow them to say nonsense, continue to pray knowing fully well that God time is the best

obiorathesubtle:
ehena. You helped out nicely.

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just hope the lady can handle the pressure.

@Olamiiii
no offense but you sound pathetic.... you dont even believe in yourself so why do you think anyone should believe in you (or take a chance with you)? you must be your #1 fan, at ALL TIMES! if you read again your post, you didnt mention ONE positive thing about yourself, instead you numerate all the shiit that is "supposedly" happening in your life. if you expect a miracle then guess what?! they dont exist and the only person who can make a difference is YOU. so i suggest you go look at yourself in the mirror and start LOVING who you see, because thats the only way anything can possibly change.
if you dont see the value of what you got, then go hang out in a few hospitals and orphanages so that you can finally COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS

you are single and miserable today, and if you dont change, you will be dating and still miserable. after the bf, then you will want this and that because you dont give value to what is really important here. its called LIFE!!!! see with life, some get it cruising right away, while others after a few tries, and unfortunately, a few will have it tougher than others, but you can never put a final goal as your happiness. your happiness should be the whole process between "you" today (however you may be) and "you" in the future. thinking that you will be miserable all your life, and suddenly change because a man/money/children entered your life is WRONG.... because that man/money/children would be in control of your happiness, and thats wrong! the person you see in the mirror everyday should be the driving force for your life/happiness.

btw stop comparing your life to that of others around you, they are NOT you and will never be you.

PrimeMinisterr:

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just hope the lady can handle the pressure.

yea. I hope.. Prolly was a hopeless romantic..or the one who always wanted to be 'different'

marriage na must?abeg make I hear something

There is nothing bad in being single at 31yrs of age for a woman, but I know you will be depressed about it but don't be sad...

Just try to mingle out more and make ursef approachable without necessarily being too flirty. It is all well, don't be depressed, am sure ur Mr right is just by the corner.

Ioannes:



hmmm... so she should accept marriage proposal from just any tom, dick and harry that comes because she wants to get married

i dint say so, she was fucking playing hard to get, i knw she skipt dat part...Dats y m askin her....let her ansa dis kweshun sincerely first.

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firstking01:
i dint say so, she was fucking playing hard to get, i knw she skipt dat part...Dats y m askin her....let her ansa dis kweshun sincerely first.

I was in a relationship while getting marriage offer from other men. I had to play hard to get.

Ioannes:
op I get what you are going through, been through a lot of rough patch myself in the past.

don't give up on your job. necessity is the mother of invention. look at your work from another angle and try to see what new innovations you can add. surf the internet for more ideas.

as for your being single at 31, its not a crime.

the crime is in forgetting to live your life while you are waiting for your husband to show up

the crime is in forcing yourself to get married to whom you know is not right for u

love is not something you go out looking for, it is something that happens to you when you are not expecting.

so go out have fun, enjoy your age, love your life and you will attract love to yourself.

all the best.

Thanks alot. People here tot am sad because am single. But am not happy because am single n broke at d same time, am very hard working, i know what its like to earn money , buy what ever i want n even travel for vacation. Just asking if anyone knows what n what i can do just to feel better till i can stand on my feet again.