Jolllyjoy:
You neednt post how your conversation with her was,not necessary.



Maybe she heard something bad about you or someone painted you black to her.



There is nothing like hard to get,if she is not bulging then freestyle her,nothing will make her accept when her heart is not with you

Cholls:
My brother women hate slackers. It is that very first day you should have asked for have digit. Better luck next time cuz she's obviously has someone calling her now. Except you want me to give you advice of how to steal her from the new guy. Then change the topic.

lovely17:
No op she's vexed at you for taking too long ,was in your shoes Last year I even asked her out she gave me a resounding NO!!!!!!!!!

princemi:
Hi people,
really I feel the need to get this out of my mind n possibly get 'reasonable' answers. I'll make dis as short n precise as possible.

So I started noticing her staring eyes abt a year ago. At first I just thought maybe am standing in her line of sight or she's probably trying to get a proper look @ something behind me n am obstructing her, but then 4 d next couple of days I'll catch her stealing a stare n just when we make eye contact she looks away 4 some time n then she's bk at again d moment I look away. I began to feel so shy n insecure. Many thoughts ran through my mind. Thoughts like am I improperly dressed? do I remind her of someone or something? damn! I was confused, shy and uncomfortable. Most times I'll avoid going anywhere around her and I thought over time it'll stop, but your guess is as good as mine. Days became weeks n weeks became months but d stares only became intense, however this time, they were accompanied with a short leery smile. Over time she became bolder in her act, in that she'll keep staring and when we make eye contact she'll look straight into my eyes and then smile ( rather than look away instantly, as was d case before).

So after some time, I figured she was crushing on me. I was kind of delighted yet uncomfortable with d constant stare. Initially I wasn't so into her so i ignored. Not until lately I find myself missing her presence even tho we've never spoken a word. Then I realised I was falling 4 her.

Being the shy type, it took me several consultations n ego boosts to eventually talk to her.
"hi I said" n she replied "hello" with her face covered in smiles.
"I have been looking forward to speaking to you" ,and she was like "Really? me too". Her attitude and reply, particularly the last confirmed my assumptions. And when she said "alright tnx for stopping by" I was ecstatic. I didn't want to be all rushy n stuff so I said "see u around" even though I so much wanted to say "can I have your number?".
within dat week, we met a couple of times and greeted casually (even on occasions wen i didn't see her, she'll reach out). In trying nt to be rushy, I still didn't ask for her number by the end of that week.

Now here comes trouble; by the next week i met her rushing to somewhere and we greeted. When she was leaving, I said " I would have loved to ask 4 your number but u r in a hurry" and to my greatest surprise she replied "THERE'S NO NEED". I was like " Ehn?"

Ever since her attitude towards me has gone south and I so much hate d resultant feeling am getting. I feel hurt and am desperate for healing answers.

Am directing dis question to the ladies especially : is she playing hard to get or what??

irynterri:
i thimk she is not interested "now"the best u can do is take her number,call her once on a while till she comes around and N.B it is not every girl that stares at u dat wants to have a relationship with u ,perhaps she jst thinks u are cute bt she got a serious boo

princemi:


the most demoralizing syllable ever: "No"...it hurts!

princemi:


but I never told her I wanted a relationship with her, all I did was ask for 11digits... tnx anyways

princemi:
Lucialovely,CaroLyner,irynterri,pretydiva,PunkyVeer,eroticangelina,Estharfabian,wristbangle,

ibroauthen:
[center]MY ADVICE[/center]


Send boiz to goal nd kidnap ha nd yu can colet d numba easily like dah

[center]OR[/center]


Send som1 to steal ha fone for yu nd yu pipo can later return d fone after yu half coleted d nomba

Cutehector:
Hav money brother..

princemi:


dude seriously??

Estharfabian:
Aweeeee!


You poor, poor thing!

LoL...The thing's U gotta understand girls...we're complicated beings...She probably expected that You'd Ask for her "Number" the instant You got the courage to talk to her...and When U didn't after Numerous encounters....She got hurt... well,who wouldn't?

She's just angry and annoyed...she probably thinks You've got no interest in her...


I guess what I'm Tryna say is "You should keep trying" ..find a way to "Steal" her Number...we Love that it shows you're serious!

Anyways....keep trying, Kay?

Estharfabian:
Aweeeee!


You poor, poor thing!

LoL...The thing's U gotta understand girls...we're complicated beings...She probably expected that You'd Ask for her "Number" the instant You got the courage to talk to her...and When U didn't after Numerous encounters....She got hurt... well,who wouldn't?

She's just angry and annoyed...she probably thinks You've got no interest in her...


I guess what I'm Tryna say is "You should keep trying" ..find a way to "Steal" her Number...we Love that it shows you're serious!

Anyways....keep trying, Kay?

Lucialovely:
I think her feelings withered with ur shyness

Cutehector:
yh seriously

princemi:


in d nearest future.

irynterri:
ask again perhaps she was in a hurry

princemi:


aww tnx dats what i so much wanted to hear...By the way, your signature cracks me up n its good to know am not on the other side

.

Well, You're welcome!


LoL...I'm glad I Like You!

Macgreat:
#endtime staring


Seriously, Don't force it.
if she says "no need" then don't bother! . .

is she the only girl around, move on bro. . . you became interested because you were enjoying the attention. now focus on something, you just lost a distraction.

Estharfabian:
Well, You're welcome!


LoL...I'm glad I Like You!

Estharfabian:
Well, You're welcome!


LoL...I'm glad I Like You!