Why do ladies date a married man and what are the risk of a young lady dating a married man,particularly when the man was his boyfriend prior to marrying another girl.

I need candid opinion please.

In defence of some, some of them may not actually have  known that the man was married in the first place, possibly in love with him, although shocked, upset, angry etc when she finds out it may not be easy for her to just pull loose from him even when she now knows, love cannot just fade just like that, even with the lies and selfishness on the man's part.

Those who know but continue dating are the Ojukokoro's, thunder fire their arses.
But then again, both the married man and the 'girlfriend' are in the wrong, then again, every wrong doing has it's consequence, package with their names on it, ready to be let loose, there's will surely arrive one day.

most of them dates married men b/cos of the money they get from them,they feel those irresponsible men that left their wife and children at home don't have anything to do with money so they get from them than the young guys.
Nemesis at the end, to get a single guy that will marry them is always difficult so they become so desperate and accept anything that comes their way.

For the money of course. Forget all these chics that say that they actually like the men. its definitely just the money

ibkaye:

In defence of some, some of them may not actually have known that the man was married in the first place, possibly in love with him, although shocked, upset, angry etc when she finds out it may not be easy for her to just pull loose from him even when she now knows, love cannot just fade just like that, even with the lies and selfishness on the man's part.

Those who know but continue dating are the Ojukokoro's, thunder fire their arses.
But then again, both the married man and the 'girlfriend' are in the wrong, then again, every wrong doing has it's consequence, package with their names on it, ready to be let loose, there's will surely arrive one day.

final word, again 4 d owo, kwudi ego CASH, greedy idiots

Girls of nowerdays dont like dating their mate, or guys that is more younger to them. they also want som1 that will be pampereing them.

Girls of nowerdays dont like dating their mate, or guys that is more younger to them. they also want som1 that will be pampereing them.

ibkaye:

In defence of some, some of them may not actually have  known that the man was married in the first place, possibly in love with him, although shocked, upset, angry etc when she finds out it may not be easy for her to just pull loose from him even when she now knows, love cannot just fade just like that, even with the lies and selfishness on the man's part.

Those who know but continue dating are the Ojukokoro's, thunder fire their arses.
But then again, both the married man and the 'girlfriend' are in the wrong, then again, every wrong doing has it's consequence, package with their names on it, ready to be let loose, there's will surely arrive one day.

I think I'm interested in what you pointed out that some do not know at the begining, but if they get to know what is the reasonable time allowed for them to quit, or will they remain because they have fallen in love in the first instance out of ignorance of the marital status of the man? Please help once again.

I think majority of the posters are anchoring on the fact about money, How true is this? please let me know if money plays a vital role here.
Thanks to all for your contribution so far. More detailed ones are needed. This thread is meant to solve a real life situation.

Please do not forget the issue of  a man continueing to date his girlfriend even after marriage(that is, he got to know the lady when he was single but married another girl).

Pure stupidity best describe d reason!

Olorun a pese oko (husband) mi fun mi, mii ni gbe ok'oloko.

Some women just want what another has.