Lemme be straight, cos I hav been burnt. There hav been these gal I fell in love with nd I still lov her sef. She says she loves me too, buh her body language is not like one dat is in love. She's just stiff towards me. She got history, bad one about her ex. I hav given her tym, dis is d 4th month. But I'm getting impatient. Pls advices albeit reasonable ones. Thanks

More patience... Love is even patient in the first place... I think u dnt even truely love her as u claim

op u hold hot akara for hand
A little more time will give u a clearer picture of ur next step..

She's scared u myt becme another history too

Let me give u Xmas period advice.. call to seek clarification if shes still not coming out straight. LEAVE her to avoid spending at Christmas and getting the boot in New year.

Thank me later

Op try nd be patient with her, u know someone dat once had a bad experience with his/her ex has a lot of healing to do

If you know u love her as u claim, den try nd prove it to her by being patient, loving and kind

she doesn't want to be a victim of heartbreak again.if u really love her be PATIENT

3months ke? I waited 3years to get my gf tho ex now and we dated for 3years... guess what? No sex.

we never regretted anything till date.

elixir992:
Lemme be straight, cos I hav been burnt. There hav been these gal I fell in love with nd I still lov her sef. She says she loves me too, buh her body language is not like one dat is in love. She's just stiff towards me. She got history, bad one about her ex. I hav given her tym, dis is d 4th month. But I'm getting impatient. Pls advices albeit reasonable ones. Thanks

Does body language here mean sex? If not tell her that her body language makes you feel unwanted like you are wasting your time maybe she is still hurting but can open up if you will be kind and gentle when talking to her.

Guy be patient, if it does work, be patien, if she's still hanging be patie, still not work, be pati, still giving you hard time, be pat, arghh, this girl is stubborn ooo, be pa, which is she up to, be p, she still have not gotten over the past, try Patience!

Thing is she's no longer free with me than she is with others, even tho she says she loves me too. I don't want to be taken for a ride. She might be using me as a trampoline. I am at my wit end. It's difficult to hang on. Pple hav adviced me to let her be, that if she loves me, she will com on, buh letting her be is difficult. Is this how it feels to be in love? This is painful like hell. She's keeping me hanging

donbenedict:
More patience... Love is even patient in the first place... I think u dnt even truely love her as u claim

I sincerely do, thing is she's not free in public with me, unlike she is with other guys. It's frustrating my brother, that moment when u buy suya for both of urself nd her, yet she insists on sharing it. She can't eat with me. Like she's ashamed with me.

Greekgoddess:
Op try nd be patient with her, u know someone dat once had a bad experience with his/her ex has a lot of healing to do

If you know u love her as u claim, den try nd prove it to her by being patient, loving and kind

How do I prove it na, I hav been patient, loving and kind. At times people insults me cos of dese gal. Yet she's not bending.

andromida:


Does body language here mean sex? If not tell her that her body language makes you feel unwanted like you are wasting your time maybe she is still hurting but can open up if you will be kind and gentle when talking to her.

This is the first gal I hav been interested in that I hav not reasoned sex, it's not even in my agenda for now. I just want her to be on same wavelength with me. I want to have fun with her. Seriously, I really want her in my future, no I need her in my future. I see her as my woman and not my girl. I really love her, but it's frustrating. I pray I am not being taken for a ride.

cruzita:
she doesn't want to be a victim of heartbreak again.if u really love her be PATIENT

I told her that we all have stories, I caught my ex hav sex with on idiot dat came around for IT back then in school, I decided I was never goin to love again, but I met dis gal now and she's not helping kill my fear. I told her let's hold hands and walk into the future together.

sneak3:
Let me give u Xmas period advice.. call to seek clarification if shes still not coming out straight. LEAVE her to avoid spending at Christmas and getting the boot in New year.

Thank me later

Guy this one different, she hates it when I spend much on her. She is like, y re u spending on me alot wen u re not that rich, but I want to spend. I am stingy with gals o buh dis one is different.

elixir992:
This is the first gal I hav been interested in that I hav not reasoned sex, it's not even in my agenda for now. I just want her to be on same wavelength with me. I want to have fun with her. Seriously, I really want her in my future, no I need her in my future. I see her as my woman and not my girl. I really love her, but it's frustrating. I pray I am not being taken for a ride.

You've been talking to her, dating her, what do you think is happening? because what you are sensing is important you don't want to just quit because you fear she is not into you yet you don't want to waste your time.