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I was in the Church last week when a Certain guy I presumed to be the usher walked up to me and said Smiling heartily "" You Will Walk !!!

I was surprised because I was never crippled nor suffered any disability. I agreed that the message was not meant for me.

it was not until after the service when I could not find my Purse that I realised the true meaning of what he said ...

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ClassCaptain:
ok

you know the story now.. Pls advice

Shiloh things....

MzPecs:
Trash!

pls dear, can you be more specific on the Trash.. I need advice pls

your change in attitude is very good but seems you are adding foolishness to it.

The silly stunts guys who hide behind female monikers pull nowadays!

Topestbilly:
your change in attitude is very good but seems you are adding foolishness to it.

explain ... I simply stopped being jealous. What is the foolish thing I'm doing

First Talk To "Boo" About How You Feel.

The next step is his..

Listen carefully to what he says and how he responds. Often, people give what they need.With this in mind, another approach might be to give a little less to this relationship for a while and see what happens. If you still feel unappreciated, then perhaps you need to move on. You can't make another person do anything or change in any way that you see fit.
You can only let him in on your thoughts
and feelings, and then see what he does with
that insight.

You are an extremist, meaning you can't use your brain, easily sway by emotions from one extreme point to the other

Being responsible means letting things happen within a set boundaries ie moderation

Michellla:
First Talk To "Boo" About How You Feel.

The next step is his..

Listen carefully to what he says and how he
responds. Often, people give what they need.
With this in mind, another approach might be to
give a little less to this relationship for a while
and see what happens. If you still feel unappreciated, then perhaps you need to
move on. You can't make another person do
anything or change in any way that you see fit.
You can only let him in on your thoughts
and feelings, and then see what he does with
that insight.

he does.. He appreciates me alot but won't stop his womanising ways

ITbomb:
You are an extremist, meaning you can't use your brain, easily sway by emotions from one extreme point to the other

Being responsible means letting things happen within a set boundaries ie moderation

it's really difficult you know, I was responsible, there was moderation but my previous relationships didn't work out and then my friend told me I have to stop seeing myself as equal to a man.. I have to be submissive.

thatsincerechic:
explain ... I simply stopped being jealous. What is the foolish thing I'm doing

u said "But I have a small mind telling me I am being a fool"

because u know something is wrong but u have refuse to protest cos u don't want another break in ur relationship.

sit em down and hav a real talk with em. your like and dislike on his behaviour.

Topestbilly:


u said "But I have a small mind telling me I am being a fool"

because u know something is wrong but u have refuse to protest cos u don't want another break in ur relationship.

sit em down and hav a real talk with em. your like and dislike on his behaviour.

I did, before the first breakup.. Now.. I really dunno

Topestbilly:


u said "But I have a small mind telling me I am being a fool"

because u know something is wrong but u have refuse to protest cos u don't want another break in ur relationship.

sit em down and hav a real talk with em. your like and dislike on his behaviour.

I did, before the first breakup.. Now.. I really dunno

Firstly, you are scared of being single, and next relationship wont work out. The relationship is not healthy for u it is so obvious the guy is a cheat. Appreciate urself

Op tell him what you want and what you don't want..... and let him list his rules also if U can both follow it no problem

thatsincerechic:
it's really difficult you know, I was responsible, there was moderation but my previous relationships didn't work out and then my friend told me I have to stop seeing myself as equal to a man.. I have to be submissive.

Moderation doesn't mean stopping it from happening or playing detective, it means you allow it to happen within already set and agreed boundaries

Wats d message in this nw?

Pheals:
Op tell him what you want and what you don't want..... and let him list his rules also if U can both follow it no problem

yes I did that already and he said no problem... That I am just feeling unsecured

thatsincerechic:
yes I did that already and he said no problem... That I am just feeling unsecured

so he don't follow your rules? Tell him U will break his rules also

Thatsincerechik, u are not a fool, but you have allow despiration cloud your judgement. (i see ur heart) he is damn cheating on you!

[quote author=thatsincerechic post=41031424]it's really difficult you know, I was responsible, there was moderation but my previous relationships didn't work out and then my friend told me I have to stop seeing myself as equal to a man.. I have to be submissive. [/


Although it's true that a woman should not see herself as equal to a man and should also be submissive, but that your bf is a womaniser and a cheater..

shalomm:
Thatsincerechik, u are not a fool, but you have allow despiration cloud your judgement. (i see ur heart) he is damn cheating on you!

Do I break up with him