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A Good Apology Can Prevent Relationship Problems by Nabfresh(m): 10:20am On Dec 18, 2015 |
Do you find it difficult to apologize sincerely
after you have hurt or offended your
partner in some way? You are not alone.
Making a sincere apology to someone we
have hurt is never easy. In fact, apologizing
is so difficult for some people that they
never make any apologies for their hurtful
words or behaviour. Learning how to
apologize when we have hurt our partners is
a crucial requirement for creating a healthy
relationship.
Every close relationship between two people
is bound to have instances where one
person becomes hurt or offended by
something the other person said or did,
whether or not the hurt was intentional.
This does not mean the relationship is in
trouble. However, it does mean that the
problem caused by the hurtful action needs
to be resolved. Making a sincere apology is
an essential first step in repairing trust and
openness.
You should always apologize as quickly as
you can after you have said or done
something that made your partner feel hurt.
When you make your apology, you should
mention the specific act for which you are
apologizing. This shows your partner that
you truly care about any hurt you caused. If
you simply say, “Sorry about what I said the
other day,” that is a very vague statement
that does not really address the problem.
Instead, you should tell the other person
exactly what you are apologizing for.
When you avoid making an apology because
it makes you feel uncomfortable, you are
putting your own ego needs ahead of your
partner, and ahead of the needs of your
relationship. On the other hand, when you
apologize sincerely for you bad behavior,
you show your partner that you care about
them and their happiness. A sincere apology
shows your partner that you value the
relationship and that you want to avoid
hurting that person in the future. It is an
important step in repairing the relationship
so it can move forward.
Many of us find it very difficult to apologize
to our partners when we have hurt or
offended them with our words or deeds.
Making a sincere apology when you have
hurt your partner is essential if you want to
keep your relationship healthy. With a
sincere apology, you win back the trust of
your partner so the two of you can continue
to move forward in your relationship.
A good apology can prevent relationship
problems |
Re: A Good Apology Can Prevent Relationship Problems by LOVEGINO(m): 10:21am On Dec 18, 2015 |
On point |
Re: A Good Apology Can Prevent Relationship Problems by obiorathesubtle: 10:26am On Dec 18, 2015 |
Smh.. Apologize wetin? Woman wrapper! |
Re: A Good Apology Can Prevent Relationship Problems by Nobody: 10:31am On Dec 18, 2015 |
If I listen to the voices in my head, I would be
walking around without a head |
Re: A Good Apology Can Prevent Relationship Problems by Tallesty1(m): 10:45am On Dec 18, 2015 |
Side chicks and side guys are the reason we hardly apologize. 2 Likes |
Re: A Good Apology Can Prevent Relationship Problems by flawlesRebirth(f): 10:48am On Dec 18, 2015 |
hmm |
Re: A Good Apology Can Prevent Relationship Problems by Nobody: 11:11am On Dec 18, 2015 |
Space booked |
Re: A Good Apology Can Prevent Relationship Problems by Nobody: 11:59am On Dec 18, 2015 |
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