Hello nairalanders! I've dated my guy for 2 years plus now, when we started, I noticed he and my friend didnt get along well and till date, I really cant pick the reason for it. We all finished from the same school though.. That aside, recently my friend started insinuating that i shouldnt fully trust my guy, and she has refused to tell me the reason she only tells me to be careful and when i try to make her talk, she'll be asking me annoying questions. Like yesterday we were chatting and the issue came up again, and i told her to go ahead and say what it was she wanted to tell me about him, and she was asking me questions like has he proposed to me? I answered, she went on and was asking me another question, that was when i got upset and told her to go straight to the point if she really has something to tell me rather than keeping me in suspense and asking questions. Please what do you guys think?

There's sth both of them know that u're oblivious of. Probe both of them. Don't take it lightly ;demand to know what's going on. I don't want to believe they might have had a history together.. Ur S.O nd friend... But it's a possibility.

Just try to find out by any means u can. It's a real cause for worry.

It's really simple.
Ask your guy what's up with him and your friend.

Stay away from her

i think that ur gf na amebo and that u no sabi ur man wela. My thought tho

Pls and pls I use God name to beg you. LEAVE THAT YOUR GIRLFRIEND !!!

If I should tell you my story eh, you will even beg me to stop. If I tell you what my so called best friend did to me, God!!!, till now I'm speechless beyond words.. But anyway, I've moved on cos I gat no time to waste. RUN FROM THAT YOUR FRIEND O, SHE MIGHT HAVE SOMETHING DARK INSIDE.

Hmmmm.

I had a friend and her boyfriend was a complete d-bag and I told her to be cautious and this girl didn't listen. Saying that I was Jealous and whatnot. Anyways he cheated on her with her cousin

She isn't a good friend, if she can't tell u her reasons, then stay clear her, also mind wah u discus with her. Friends are supposed to have our back, tell us the truth to our face even if it hurts u buh if she can't, then no point being friends with her.










She might also be jealous, some girls hate it when their friend's relationship is budding, especially those that felt they better off the other, they feels good things should always come there way first.

Girls tho

simply stop telling her ur love life nd other wise

Get the full details and come back

Ginaz:
Pls and pls I use God name to beg you. LEAVE THAT YOUR GIRLFRIEND !!!

If I should tell you my story eh, you will even beg me to stop. If I tell you what my so called best friend did to me, God!!!, till now I'm speechless beyond words.. But anyway, I've moved on cos I gat no time to waste. RUN FROM THAT YOUR FRIEND O, SHE MIGHT HAVE SOMETHING DARK INSIDE.

abeg tell us your story jare....

Thank you all for your kind advices. Actually, this 'friend' of mine is currently not in a relationship, and she was a part of the reason i broke up with my guy the first time. But i guess fate brought us back together and she has started again, I dont even know what to think again. I've tried to ask my guy stylishly but he told me nothing has ever been between them. But i know he doesnt like her for what reason i dont know. But he's just trying to tolerate her because of me. He has stylishly told me once that she isnt good for me as a friend!

Pls, tell me am more interested i

Ginaz:
Pls and pls I use God name to beg you. LEAVE THAT YOUR GIRLFRIEND !!!

If I should tell you my story eh, you will even beg me to stop. If I tell you what my so called best friend did to me, God!!!, till now I'm speechless beyond words.. But anyway, I've moved on cos I gat no time to waste. RUN FROM THAT YOUR FRIEND O, SHE MIGHT HAVE SOMETHING DARK INSIDE.

Oma307:
Pls, tell me am more interested i

You mean am?

Dont only b worried panick

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Ginaz:


You mean am?

Ginaz:


You mean am?

Thanks everyone for your timely advice. Just thought i should give you guys a feedback. I was able to get to the bottom of the matter and reached a conclusion! My friend is the jealous one, and my guy gave me reasons she might be acting that way and i agree totally with him.
Lessons learnt :seperate friends from your relationships especially those not in a stable relationship and dont discuss your relationships to someone of the same or lower level than you,and if necessary, go for happily married experienced couples!

@Ginaz, would like to hear your story if you dont mind.

Just becareful some frnds can be jealous and make up tin to disrtoy ur relationship on the other hand also be at alert not that you shud start acting funny and mean to ur boyfrnd but try and find out tins on ur own about ur bf. Infact I think next time ur frnd askes u if ur bf has proposed to you say yes let's see what she has to say.

Hmmm...the both of them have a skeleton in their cupboards that you don't knw, trust me weneva u hug ur guy in the front, she kisses your bf behind your back

grad2012:
Just becareful some frnds can be jealous and make up tin to disrtoy ur relationship on the other hand also be at alert not that you shud start acting funny and mean to ur boyfrnd but try and find out tins on ur own about ur bf. Infact I think next time ur frnd askes u if ur bf has proposed to you say yes let's see what she has to say.

ok. Thanks dear

firstking01:
Hmmm...the both of them have a skeleton in their cupboards that you don't knw, trust me weneva u hug ur guy in the front, she kisses your bf behind your back

lols. I trust my bf and he hasnt given me any reason to doubt him was just being careful. You're entitled to your opinion though

virtousB:
lols. I trust my bf and he hasnt given me any reason to doubt him was just being careful. You're entitled to your opinion though

so, u trust ur bf??

firstking01:
so, u trust ur bf??

of course. Surprised?

virtousB:
of course. Surprised?

are there people who are still trusting in this 21st century ??

firstking01:
are there people who are still trusting in this 21st century ??

lols. There are! Ask happily married couples the reason for their successful marriage, trust will be one of the things they'll tell you.

virtousB:
lols. There are! Ask happily married couples the reason for their successful marriage, trust will be one of the things they'll tell you.

trust is very scarce these days my dear.