Busy_body:

Well if he slept with her, she could be pregnant, but what you friend needs to let this girl know is that, being pregnant will not make him stay with her, that her being pregnant will not trap him. The girl is just hurt that another girl is in the picture, she might not love your friend that much for all you know.

morpheus24:

He admitted to me that he did not "come" inside of her for fear of her getting pregnant. I asked my girl about this whole pregnancy cycle thing and she said it could be very possible she is but the time frame is a little suspicious.

What he is most afraid of is loosing his girl over this and not the actually pregnancy. I have told him he might have to confront her with the situation but he is again too scared to do so. It really hurts me to see him like this.

Busy_body:


Sorry i modified my post, like i said he needs to sit down with her and lay his terms on the table, that he does not want her. The girl is just hurt and has a right to be emotional . . . Did bthe guy told her he already had a girlfriend before hooking up with her?

Forget that "I did not come inside her" business, any liquid oozing out of a man's penis is capable of carrying sperm so it is not until you come that one can get pregnant.

morpheus24:

According to him she knew he was with someone else from the the get go and after the rendevous she continously called him and pressed him on a relationship and he refused the advances.

That's how it starts. . .

People sef

luxoire:

tell your friend to tell this girl - he will never be with her and if she is preganant fine, they can do a DNA test when the child is bown and ascertain his paternity then - you will help her financilally and bethere for the child if it is yours but he WILL NOT be with her, so unless she is ready for single motherhood she should reconsider what she is doing

in the meantime, he should tell his gf and prays that she loves him enough and has enough of the forgiving spirit to get past this - cos it seems like this new girl will seek out the gf andtell her if only to break them up just because she cant have him (some women can be like that)

atleats now he will think twice before sticking his willy in any odd place - without even know who the owner of the vagina is and whether or not is psycho!!

Ben20001:

hmm. . . this' a serious case o

depending on her IQ, a pregnant gurl won't sound it like a threat.

If only your friend aint weak to confirm the pregnancy.

morpheus24:

I have told him the exact same thing above and told him I will support him all the way and will even recruit my girl and other friends to come beg his girl if it comes to that.

I am also with you on her trying to break them up.

luxoire:

why did you cut out the first paragraph of my reply?   - i hope as a good friend you have also insulted him and told him what a disloyal and rubbish bf he has been by
a. cheating and
b. getting caught with a mini-me

that is what good friends do so the next time he thinks of whipping his thing out he will think of the consequences on his friendships and r/ship too

luxoire:

why did you cut out the first paragraph of my reply?   - i hope as a good friend you have also insulted him and told him what a disloyal and rubbish bf he has been by
a. cheating and
b. getting caught with a mini-me

that is what good friends do so the next time he thinks of whipping his thing out he will think of the consequences on his friendships and r/ship too

Ben20001:

Guys, let's begin to understand that these things are normal. His girl left him. . . u don't expect his body to wait for eternity
what's the probability dat his gurl didn't do quickees . . .and we only knw of the guy's part of the holiday experience _{just kidding though}

morpheus24:

Trust me, me and a couple of other guys don shout for him head tire. The guy no fit respond.

LadyT:

Nothing you can do about the pregnancy now. Let her keep it just let it be made clear to her that you do not want any kind of relationship with her and you will never marry her. Shes going to be a single parent etc

Maybe she might change her mind if she doesnt please remember once DNA tests have been carried out and the child is yours you MUST take for him or her as the baby did not ask to be born and does not deserve to suffer.

Both you and the girl are idiots and its time to face up to the truth. Please tell your Girlfriend ASAP if she leaves you too bad next time you will zip that shit up and have self control.

Mind you it could be worse you could have contracted HIV.

luxoire:

she didn't LEAVE him - she travelled briefly out of town - so yes he should have waited until she got back and if he were stupid enough to play away - he could have used condom (none of this ' i didn't cum inside her blubber) so he is foolish!!

good one - i like to see friends that will tell you when you are rigth AND wrong (but come oh - where you guys shouting because he cheated, abi because he didnt cheat proerly? )

morpheus24:

It seems you already know the answer to that question.

luxoire:

she didn't LEAVE him - she travelled briefly out of town - so yes he should have waited until she got back and if he were stupid enough to play away - he could have used condom (none of this ' i didn't cum inside her blubber) so he is foolish!!

good one - i like to see friends that will tell you when you are rigth AND wrong (but come oh - were you guys shouting because he cheated, abi because he didnt cheat properly? )

LadyT:

Beg for what?  Im sorry begging wont do it.   If it is his baby it WILL affect their relationship whether he likes it or not.  The only thing that can save mister Iliketoshaghussieswhilemygirlfriendisoutoftown is for him to tell her ASAP the longer he leaves it the more unlikely she will believe him that this wasnt kinda planned.

Ben20001:

Let's make something straight here. . . the pregnant girl is not pregnant!

Let's all go for a chweck up Haba!

Ben20001:

Let's get something straight here. . . the pregnant girl is not pregnant!
Let's all go for a chweck up Haba!

biola44:

d guy is a weakling!

Ben20001:

Lol. . . love that question