Hello nairalanders, please I need your advice.
There is this girl that do walk pass my street. Always well dress, well compose and "prettyful". I love her, so on this fateful day I walked up to her asked for her name, number and where she stays, she responded very well. To my surprise she lives at the end of my street, we never get to know or see each other because when ever I'm on holiday she's in school and whenever she's on holiday I'm in school. This is their second year they move to their house on my street. She's an igbo girl though I'm yoruba. I decided to ring her up the following day that I will like us to talk and get to know each other more. I told her to meet me at ostrich eatery and she said no that she doesn't feel like going out, she insisted I come to her place that is her house. On getting to the tail end of me street I called her to come out she said ok, she later called back to ask me "where am I?" I explained where I was to her just for her to tell me that's not her house that her house is at the far end of the next street. When I got there, I called her again and she said she was coming I was facing a different house thinking that was where she's going to come out from. I just felt a hand on my shoulder from behind. We both greeted each other. I watched her as she takes the lead on getting to the gate she knocks then I ask her "is this where you live and she says yes" I never believed my both eyes. it was a very big house. The gate man opens the gate and we both entered. She ask if I will like the pavilion or the visitors room. I told her the pavilion. She went in to fetch some drinks, we sat down and talked. so "I broke the ice" and tell her I love her and I will like both of us to be together. She looked at me and smiled saying I'm engage. I felt bad. To cut the long story shot. I love this girl. I'm in my final year at the university and she's in 300L at the state university of delta. I love this girl what will I do to make her mine or better still if it doesn't workout what will I do to forget her. She calls me more than I call her till today. I don't want her to friend zone me. Thanks looking forward to your advices.

See novel. Na omo ibo u follow, n u wan kill urself on top... She sey she don engage nah. Women plenty. Leave her alone I no get advice

sitting inside my bathing bucket and quietly staring at my fone.

Hahaaa ur woeing methodeee
Go to that baba alawo and arrange for her sharp sharp, u must not loose her becos she's a rich girl

Behira:
sitting inside my bathing bucket and quietly staring at my fone.

Make I come join u make we rockey.. .

Nuisance:
See novel. Na omo ibo u follow, n u wan kill urself on top... She sey she don engage nah. Women plenty. Leave her alone I no get advice

padi, that kind feelings nau. She dey burst my brain. I love her die.

Nuisance:
See novel. Na omo ibo u follow, n u wan kill urself on top... She sey she don engage nah. Women plenty. Leave her alone I no get advice

Pls just advice and dnt bring tribal prejudice into dis.

Me I personally dnt entertain such scenarios. I'v stoppd loving too easily like I used to. Like seeing a girl who is too pretty and immediately telln her dat I love her wen she has practically not done anythn to make me love her. Dats bullsheit.. Its only wen u knw 100 percent that someone shares d same feelings as u do abt them, den should u be confident enough to tell dem you love them. So u dnt get funny replies

Since she's engage, let her be, there is nothing u can do, jst let things play out itself.

Behira:
Pls just advice and dnt bring tribal prejudice into dis.

You be anoda omo ibo . I'm entitled to my opinion

Behira:
sitting inside my bathing bucket and quietly staring at my fone.

are u nake.d?

goodmorning40:
Hahaaa ur woeing methodeee
Go to that baba alawo and arrange for her sharp sharp, u must not loose her becos she's a rich girl

lol, you are funny. I'm not even looking at her for being rich. I just like her she's damn! Cool. I have tried all I could to get her but couldn't cos she always tells me she's engage. Bro I no mind that babalawo paro oooo abeg you get any phone number?

Cutehector:
Me I personally dnt entertain such scenarios. I'v stoppd loving too easily like I used to. Like seeing a girl who is too pretty and immediately telln her dat I love her wen she has practically not done anythn to make me love her. Dats bullsheit.. Its only wen u knw 100 percent that someone shares d same feelings as u do abt them, den should u be confident enough to tell dem you love them. So u dnt get funny replies

I understand, but in a situation whereby you are trying to forget about her and she still calls. Sometimes she tells me she's bored that can we walkout together.

XVIER:
I understand, but in a situation whereby you are trying to forget about her and she still calls. Sometimes she tells me she's bored that can we walkout together.

if she is bored she should call her fiance and stroll out wit him.. I just can't tolerate such frndzoned life. Dats a no no for me, I hav other serious things to do as well. Why is is she callin me so much in d first place den? I dis like dat shiiit. I'm so fed up pretendin to be a frnd wen its obvious I really like her, I can't do dat.. I"d drop such frndship, and move on wit my life. I"m so good at that.
Infact, there used to be a girl i liked sometime in d past. She outrightly frndzoned me. Buh she says she z fond of me bla bla bla. Dis gurl as am talkn to u chats wit me on whatsap evryday. If I dnt reply, she gets angry. Am like wtf! Am not ur boyfrnd so why get angry.. It got to a point whr I told her. Look. I can't continue this anymore, we act like we are dating but truely, u hav another guy who is fvckn u all d time whearas am d one playn mugu keepn u company. Dats bullshiiet. I calld off d frnship we had.. Told her she shouldn't call me anymore. Till now, we aint even talkn. And I"v enjoyed d peace. I rather be single dan to be someone's second choice.

XVIER:
I understand, but in a situation whereby you are trying to forget about her and she still calls. Sometimes she tells me she's bored that can we walkout together.

Assistant boyfriend. no offence.

she just wanted you to see that she's a big gurl in a big house.

If you love her that much take her out to somewhere she's never been if you can afford that or you can do well to be just friends and keep both of yourselves company as neighbours should. my opinion thooooo

Cutehector:
Me I personally dnt entertain such scenarios. I'v stoppd loving too easily like I used to. Like seeing a girl who is too pretty and immediately telln her dat I love her wen she has practically not done anythn to make me love her. Dats bullsheit.. Its only wen u knw 100 percent that someone shares d same feelings as u do abt them, den should u be confident enough to tell dem you love them. So u dnt get funny replies

me too bro

Dude, girl can't live with you and can't live without you. You in some messed up shiat here. Be patient, never say never.

C4Ltd:
Assistant boyfriend. no offence.

she just wanted you to see that she's a big gurl in a big house.

If you love her that much take her out to somewhere she's never been if you can afford that or you can do well to be just friends and keep both of yourselves company as neighbours should. my opinion thooooo

taking her out is not a problem. I can't be her friend cos me seeing her alone I will still develop same feelings for her whereby she feels nothing for me. I think I should just end the relationship.

Cutehector:
if she is bored she should call her fiance and stroll out wit him.. I just can't tolerate such frndzoned life. Dats a no no for me, I hav other serious things to do as well. Why is is she callin me so much in d first place den? I dis like dat shiiit. I'm so fed up pretendin to be a frnd wen its obvious I really like her, I can't do dat.. I"d drop such frndship, and move on wit my life. I"m so good at that.
Infact, there used to be a girl i liked sometime in d past. She outrightly frndzoned me. Buh she says she z fond of me bla bla bla. Dis gurl as am talkn to u chats wit me on whatsap evryday. If I dnt reply, she gets angry. Am like wtf! Am not ur boyfrnd so why get angry.. It got to a point whr I told her. Look. I can't continue this anymore, we act like we are dating but truely, u hav another guy who is fvckn u all d time whearas am d one playn mugu keepn u company. Dats bullshiiet. I calld off d frnship we had.. Told her she shouldn't call me anymore. Till now, we aint even talkn. And I"v enjoyed d peace. I rather be single dan to be someone's second choice.

ok, I get you point clearly. Saying her boyfriend should come and keep her company is not possible because they attend same school in delta and he lives in delta. I think I should quit it has you have said.

CertifiedFreak:
Dude, girl can't live with you and can't live without you. You in some messed up shiat here. Be patient, never say never.

seriously, I don't even know what to do. Patient? I said when ever I bring up the issue about how I feel about her, she tells me she's engage but she always respond to me well I mean normal. She's someone that jokes and playful.

IamLEGEND1:

lol, bro na advice I need nau.

dude , I really knows how it feels cos i was in that scenario with my current girlfriend ...I'll even say u narrated my story wen i first meet this girl, but almost a month after we meet ,she later called me herself and told me boldly on phone and in person that she has developed feelings for me and she really loved me , to me i thought probably she was just trying to study my character and all that before she accepted. and i could really see it in her behavior to me that she really loves me ... and we started the relationship and everything was going smoothly... on both sides she's caring, loving, truthful and we both enjoyed each tym together ( we do have sex )


truely she has someone she's dating before she meet me, which she told me wen i first asked her out and really she's is still dating this guy which she never lied about it ...cos she don't lie ( I've noticed her she always tells the truth even if i will be mad at her)

the issue now is that the guy disvirgined her , so she respect the guy they've have been dating for almost four years ...

I know she loves me , but it's hard wen u know someone you love is still having an affair with someone else .I feel bad each time i think of this ...but i really love her... I don't even think of double datin her


my advice to you.... it's possible she has someone else she is currently dating, but if at the long run she falls for you ...
can you really cope , even wen you know she's dating someone else ... cos u migth think its easy like i thought ,but it ain't my bother
but if u can cope ,u can still continue pestering her till she accepts


just advising you based on similar scenario...





GOODLUCK!!!

your story was quite interesting and very touching... sorry eh, pray for miracle.

Next time she call don't pick it till she get pissed and complain about it then tell him what Cutehector told her ex.That's the best I can give you

Nuisance:
See novel. Na omo ibo u follow, n u wan kill urself on top... She sey she don engage nah. Women plenty. Leave her alone I no get advice

ur moniker says it all.

Behira:
sitting inside my bathing bucket and quietly staring at my fone.

who ask u?

Just have to comment though i didnt read the op.

Jollyjoy:
ur moniker says it all.

And what about my moniker. Abeg stay on ur Lane

Nuisance:
And what about my moniker. Abeg stay on ur Lane

nuisance.

Behira:
sitting inside my bathing bucket and quietly staring at my fone.

...plis can I bath for u?

XVIER:
lol, you are funny. I'm not even looking at her for being rich. I just like her she's damn! Cool. I have tried all I could to get her but couldn't cos she always tells me she's engage. Bro I no mind that babalawo paro oooo abeg you get any phone number?

I tell u say I be baba alawo pikin, nawa for youoo. Ask ur elder bros he will direct you to that one he went to