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My advice.. Break up with him.

Tell us the truth babe, this guy don kpansh u tire or maybe he found something not nice about u

Have you guys become intimate or not?


Answer me sincerely before I can advise you.

Erukumakanaki:
Tell us the truth babe, this guy don kpansh u tire or maybe he found something not nice about ou

Hmmm....if he found out something not nice about me, why can't he tell me?? His attitude is really surprising me.

amtaken:
Have you guys become intimate or not?


Answer me sincerely before I can advise you.

yes

And after u stopped the calls and texts,what did he say /react to that.
If there is indifference from his end,bae,abeg carry waka_

Ur condition isn't new...

It happens in 99.9% of relationships..
It even happens in our private life's " when you something newly ,you cherish it like kilode ,but with time it tends to lose value in ur eyes"..


ur relationship has lost the initial spark,its very normal .. but if u still cherish the relationship or if ur bf still does,u guys have to add spice to the relationship...

Go to new places,in short spend more time together alone ...

I recommend u ask ur bf if he still cherishes the relationship, and if he says yes, tell him to revive it..


its too early to talk about breakup...but u seem to me that u ain't into this guy that Much,like ur just passing time with him...

He does not truly fancy you

uniquelycool:
Hmmm....if he found out something not nice about me, why can't he tell me?? His attitude is really surprising me.

Maybe he has Alotta options, so he isnt really bothered if you're acting up

ivyT:
And after u stopped the calls and texts,what did he say /react to that.

If there is indifference from his end,bae,abeg carry waka_

I called this evening... but I wanna completely stop the calls and pings as from now(today)

If it's before, when he closes from work or he's about leaving the office, he'll tell me...and even recently I notice dat he replies my pings late and misses my call,but he'll call back apologizing saying he was busy with work stuffs..
I have to stop calling and pinging.. if that's gonna be the end of the relationship, then it's fine..
Wat do u think?

You probably gave him a really hard time when he was toasting you, ...and now he's just recuperating from all the hard work he did during the toasting period.
As that joke goes......have you ever seen a president campaigning after winning elections??

Kayoski:
Ur condition isn't new...

It happens in 99.9% of relationships..
It even happens in our private life's " when you something newly ,you cherish it like kilode ,but with time it tends to lose value in ur eyes"..


ur relationship has lost the initial spark,its very normal .. but if u still cherish the relationship or if ur bf still does,u guys have to add spice to the relationship...

Go to new places,in short spend more time together alone ...

I recommend u ask ur bf if he still cherishes the relationship, and if he says yes, tell him to revive it..


its too early to talk about breakup...but u seem to me that u ain't into this guy that Much,like ur just passing time with him...

I can't ask him if he cherishes the relationship... he's the man...I don't wanna start sounding like I'm desperate.. I'm just surprised at his attitude... I wasn't even interested initially but I decided to give it a try and I'm getting along well..then he begins to act weird...I'm not passing time with him,that's why I brought the issue here for advices..


How do u mean it's too early to talk about breakup?.he's not acting right..wat could be the problem?

Op just let him go
I experienced such too
It's best to just cut all ties nd move on

DonX001:
You probably gave him a really hard time when he was toasting you, ...and now he's just recuperating from all the hard work he did during the toasting period.
As that joke goes......have you ever seen a president campaigning after winning elections??

Loll..yes, I know I gave him a hard time..but the attitude isn't nice..

uniquelycool:
yes

He's obviously a player who derives joy in 'conquering' females and 'devouring' them.



Trust me he's not worth your time.



Block him out of your mind COMPLETELY and severe all contacts with him.



Next time study a man carefully before giving your heart/body to him.




Many male hoes around now.

amtaken:



He's obviously a player who derives joy in 'conquering' females and 'devouring' them.



Trust me he's not worth your time.



Block him out of your mind COMPLETELY and severe all contacts with him.



Next time study a man carefully before giving your heart/body to him.




Many male hoes around now.

thank u very much...God bless!

Greekgoddess:
Op just let him go

I experienced such too

It's best to just cut all ties nd move on

thanks..

uniquelycool:
I can't ask him if he cherishes the relationship... he's the man...I don't wanna start sounding like I'm desperate.. I'm just surprised at his attitude... I wasn't even interested initially but I decided to give it a try and I'm getting along well..then he begins to act weird...I'm not passing time with him,that's why I brought the issue here for advices..


How do u mean it's too early to talk about breakup?.he's not acting right..wat could be the problem?

something isn't right here..maybe he's just with u for the sex..
This happens when the purpose for a relationship isn't clearly outlined...

maybe u should cut communications for a while,and let's see what happens from der...

when he responds, weigh it and if u feel u can't continue, take a bow.. so u don't waste time with a man,when there are many out there who only wish they can be with u...

uniquelycool:
thanks..

U r welcome dear

You too dear.

uniquelycool:
thank u very much...God bless!

Kayoski:

something isn't right here..maybe he's just with u for the sex..
This happens when the purpose for a relationship isn't clearly outlined...

maybe u should cut communications for a while,and let's see what happens from der...

when he responds, weigh it and if u feel u can't continue, take a bow.. so u don't waste time with a man,when there are many out there who only wish they can be with u...

okay..thanks

uniquelycool:
Loll..yes, I know I gave him a hard time..but the attitude isn't nice..

Well, you've got your answer right there.
The guy's just like me.....if you give me loads of bullshit while toasting you and I choose to persevere (which I hardly ever do), when I eventually hit the jackpot, I'm sure gonna treat you like shitt.

For such guys, it's either you say no and continue saying no forever, or you don't give him bullshyte when he's toasting.

uniquelycool:
Loll..yes, I know I gave him a hard time..but the attitude isn't nice..

its your fault now, is just how it happens. Thats the after effect of playing hard to get dear, next time dont do that ok. Its in our psych to kick back after being stressed during the hunt or even bounce. If u really did him hard then forget the relationship if not then it might be another thing. 2015 hard to get aint shitt.

DonX001:


Well, you've got your answer right there.
The guy's just like me.....if you give me loads of bullshit while toasting you and I choose to persevere (which I hardly ever do), when I eventually hit the jackpot, I'm sure gonna treat you like shitt.

For such guys, it's either you say no and continue saying no forever, or you don't give him bullshyte when he's toasting.

guess we got the same ish for hard to get lil babies.

He is a player babe. You have to be smart to play him too but u made a mistake. It's just a month for Christ's sake! Why did u have sex with him in such a short period? The way guys are wired, he will tink dats how u give in easily to oda guys.
Be bold to give him some break, don't call or ping him and when he does don't make him feel wanted/needed until he realises his mistake(that is if he's really interested in u). Time is too short 2 spend wit d rong person.

All dis bitter gals advising u sha. Well, dey may b ryt. He's conquered u nd moved on. I'm sorry.
A honest guy talking here!
But don't worry, he'll b baq wen he needs sex, dats wen u gotta turn d tables around nd tell him ure nt interested. Try d cat-string theory.
Cats love to play with strings, or a ball of yarn. If u just give dem d string, dey lose interest.
But if u push nd pull, that is, giv dem a little part of d string nd take it away, their interest will remain
He's d cat, ur pvssy z d string. Wen he's baq 4 d string, don't giv him, tell him ure nt interested. But tease him like u r, nd den end d pre-intimacy.
Galz hv more emotional control, so this will b easy 4 u.
It shd reset his brain in no time, dats if u still want dat cat.