Am a kind of guy that believes that girls should be treated like queens,princess,with honour & respect,show affection & attention,given whatever they ask for no matter how stupid it may sound as long as its affordable,satisfied no matter how instatiable their desires are,put-up with whether you like it or not,forgiven even if they hurt you so much.But my ideaology is totally wrong,girls wud rather fall for guys who treat them shabbily,they love the rough guys who abuse them at will,guys who are aggresive,arrogant,sendless & who give them all sorts of inhuman treatments.Howelse can you explain this: my cousin prefers her ex-boyfriend (who beats her at will,collects & squanders her monthly earnings on ostentious but worthless items,cheats on her even slept with her best friend in her very presence) to this other guy who is so loving,so caring,willing to spend on her,ready to give this girl the world & sincerely in love with this girl.Love isnt the issue here & both guys are okay in looks.Isnt this insanity?

There are a few traits that you have that any woman would love and run to. But the following will cause a woman to run away:

given whatever they ask for no matter how stupid it may sound as long as its affordable,satisfied no matter how instatiable their desires are,put-up with whether you like it or not,forgiven even if they hurt you so much.

These above items point to a spineless man one that a woman can control. Women like to try to control thier men but the problem is once the man submits and allows her to control him she no longer wants him.

We want men not children that allow us to walk all over them.

I dont mean to be harsh, just honest.