I just met this not very pretty lady, she's lovely and very fun to be with age 22 and am 27. Last week her former boyfriend was calling and threatening me to call it quit with her that he's still in love with her. He even later went ahead telling me that the lady in question has had an abortion for him. Thought he was lieing, so I had to keep it to myself and pretend nothing happened waiting for her to tell me herself but surprisingly like 3days ago this lady told me the same thing. Left to me I intended to call it quit because am not really into the girl but the fact that her ex keeps threatening me on phone and kept on sending series of life threatening messages to me has stopped me from backing down. But sincerely speaking this girl loves me and won't stop saying and showing it and now am afraid if I should leave her I might regret it.
Nairalanders pls what should I do. Never you all mind my poor summary

Do you love her?

Hmmmmm
You ve lost interest already. Why ask us?

Seems you don't love her enough..

Quit whatever you have with her.. There are better girls out there.

Y not If not.

How did her ex get ur number? Omo,leave her b4 God leave U.

In a game like this, delay is not just dangerous, it is deadly. In any relationship consider your future as well

It is ur decision!
Hope u be Mopol or Soja?
In case the threat is not a bluff

obiorathesubtle:
Seems you don't love her enough..


Quit whatever you have with her.. There are better girls out there.

Better girls for better men. How sure are you that the OP deserves a better woman?

If you want to leave her do not let abortion be your reason for it. Nearly all Nairaland girls done do abortion self.

Abortion is a sin against humanity. People who terminate the life of unborn children are no different from the terrorists effecting menance in the world.
If it happens that I mistakenly impregnates a lady, I will make her keep the pregnancy and nurse it till when due.
You should ask yourself this question: would you be alive today if your parents were this heartless?
The things you consider little and unimportant may come back to haunt you in future. You cannot escape justice from taking its hold.

eleko1:
How did her ex get ur number? Omo,leave her b4 God leave U.

My thought though..I think she still meet with with the other guy....cause I see no way he can get this guy's number.

There is no girl above 20 that hasn't done an abortion before so don't leave her base on the fact that she has done that.

U r now not really into her cuz she told u she's aborted before??

Well if u really meant dat then u av 2 call it quit wit her, my only problem wit u is dat u should av told her since dat u weren't dat into her or were u waiting 2 get down on her panties??

Jst tell d gal it's ova trust me u dnt wanna get involve in those messy relationship

Laveda:
My thought though..I think she still meet with with the other guy....cause I see no way he can this guy's number.

They stayed in the same area and they saw each other and she told me he forcefully collected her phone and check through her messages and that's how he got my number. I can't really blame her because she's too soft and a little emotional.

Laveda:
Exactly my thought ..I think she still meet with the other guy....cause I see no way he can this guy's number.

true talk.The drama continue.Hope it is not Nijawood story sha.

eleko1:
true talk.The drama continue.Hope it is not Nijawood story sha.

it doesn't sound like one..so I guess its real.

Kingsasian:
There is no girl above 20 that hasn't done an abortion before so don't leave her base on the fact that she has done that.

What sort of generalization is that? That's how ppl keep on being misled. Pls, keep that myopic view to urself!

Laveda:
it doesn't sound like one..so I guess it's real.

Anybody can cook up tales just to make FP.How the Ex guy get the new bobo fone number remained mystery. In Naijawood,persin fit disappear and land on top of mango tree.

eleko1:
Anybody can cook up tales just to make FP.How the Ex guy get the new bobo fone number remained mystery. In Naijawood,persin fit disappear and land on top of mango tree.

Laveda:
it doesn't sound like one..so I guess its real.

Am not a kid neither a front page fanatic, i've been on this platform since 2008 and never for once struggled to be on frontage, so pls be realistic for once. I only shared this story just to see if anyone has found themselves in this kind of situation b4 since this is a platform followed by millions of people. You just don't term every issue nollywood as if the most of the nollywood movies itself are not true life stories
And let me tell you the truth about life for any fake story shared believe it would have happened for real in anywhere around the world.

If really u're not into her as u say, then u should let her go. Besides, I don't see the point in risking one's life for no good cause. Her ex might be a really irrational and dangerous person. Don't find out in the grave.

Damalex4luv:

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Oliviaarims:



What sort of generalization is that? That's how ppl keep on being misled. Pls, keep that myopic view to urself!

I am so sorry for hurting you, please forgive me. Hahahahahahaha

eleko1:
Anybody can cook up tales just to make FP.How the Ex guy get the new bobo fone number remained mystery. In Naijawood,persin fit disappear and land on top of mango tree.

This FP ish is getting serious...I just feel if you took time to write out something intelligent or controversial... It can make Fp

Your not into her, so what's the issue here, let her go in peace

Nah so we see am.

Laveda:

This FP ish is getting serious...I just feel if you took time to write out something intelligent or controversial... It can make Fp

Anoda persin go write a tales,how he make love with a lady and discovered she have incision mark thereafter.I tire

leave her since ur not rili into her

@Damalex4luv, for any decision you may decide to take, still remember that she is a human being and even if you decide to quit, don't hurt her psychologically because at this point in time, the girl doesn't need any Emotional HURT anymore because her greatest fear now is that you've known her 'Most Shameful Secret'' which will make her feel insecure. Just be nice to her and if you must quit, do it in a loving, responsible and in a matured way because girls are emotional beings.