horlahmie:

my cousin once told me abt the guy she met on the internet. thats was wayback 2007, they never shared their pix and they were just flowing on the fone. i just told her "what if this guy has a haunch back? what will you do?" she just told me she "anytime he is going to come around, i will flash him while i am far away to know his physique".

i later told her no shakes. In the long run guess what? the guy was EXTRAORDINARY UGLY wiv 11moustache, LOL!!!

justwise:

@ThoniaSlim,

I[b]ts all the same, no matter where u meet somebody, cheatting will still go on, Internet is just another way of meeting pple, just as meeting in church or club. It will finally come down to who the person is. For the fact that u met him online doesn't nt mean u going to have virtual rela/ship.[/b]

U will finally meet up and make up ur mind.

Pple u met online are not monsters or spirit. They are the same pple u might meet in church or suppermarket,

ThoniaSlim:

yea some peeps get lucky and all that but Personally I wouldn't advice anyone to look for love online. . .I mean are dudes/ladies around you extinct that you resort to looking for love on the internet?   Except your. . . . .       . .you know. . .and so your last resort is the internet.

Seriously?

ThoniaSlim:

Yea rite. . .But I think I'm still gonna go with meeting the person in reality that off some website. . .

sinceerr:

i agree, i dont really believe in this online dating thing. Works for some. Not for many.

heather:

SERIOUSLY I JUST THINK IT DOESN'T MATTER WHERE U MEET THE PERSON. IT IS THE PERSONALITY THAT REALLY MATTERS. MY FRIEND IS GETTING MARRIED WITH THE PERSON SHE MET ON FACEBOOK. IT WORKS SOMETIMES

spikedcylinder:

Seriously?

ThoniaSlim:

Been there, done that and the conclusion is I think I'll stick to dudes off the web. . .

yea some peeps get lucky and all that but Personally I wouldn't advice anyone to look for love online. . .I mean are dudes/ladies around you extinct that you resort to looking for love on the internet?   Except your. . . . .       . .you know. . .and so your last resort is the internet.

I just feel. . .Internet relationships are kinda of make believe, it doesn't give you a good opportunity to really get to know the individual your dealing with, their flaws, strength and other characteristics. . .So internet is a NO NO!

ThoniaSlim:

Seriously What?

ThoniaSlim:

Been there, done that and the conclusion is I think I'll stick to dudes off the web. . .
yea some peeps get lucky and all that but Personally I wouldn't advice anyone to look for love online. . .I mean are dudes/ladies around you extinct that you resort to looking for love on the internet?   Except your. . . . .       . .you know. . .and so your last resort is the internet.

When you were "being there and doing that", did it mean dudes around you were extinct and you were . . .  . . . . you know. Plus, your last resort was the internet?

REAL TRUTH:

Nigerians,,too backward;though not all,,,Meeting online can be so good cos its give you the opportunity to have a universal option as to what you are looking for: Haven't you guys heard of e-Harmony?,,,its a single christian website and hundreds of million of million of people re already signed up there,,,everyday,,more than 230 marriages are contracted from e-harmony,,,,I know friends in Nigeria,Canada,Ghana and USA that got their spouses from the site.
The sad thing is that,,Nigeria has been deleted from the site,,,its real and its working,,,U would meet responsible,serious minded and ready to be married people in their,,,,
U know what,am signing up for my friend in Nigeria,,its easier to see and meet good girls who are preapred mentally,spiritually and otherwise on the site.It affords you to meet better girls/guys that you meet on a daily basis on the street,,,My advice is you must be educated and be a good christian for this site,,,like I said,,unfortunately,,Nigeria has been deleted or restricted from this site.

JJYOU:

trust our people to spoil every good thing with their greed. no pay pal, no this no that. nigeria with our high level of education would have benefited from the out sourcing but for the high level of fraud and bad name

spikedcylinder:

I'll quote you again:

When you were "being there and doing that", did it mean dudes around you were extinct and you were . . .  . . . . you know. Plus, your last resort was the internet?

ThoniaSlim:

Like I said before. . .You do not look for a serious relationship on the internet. . .Get It?

So whatever internet thingie was going on. . .was just a flingie to while away time! 

  Trust me the internet would neva be my last resort. . .cus I got enough admirers around me to feel that bridge! 

Sure.
Maybe thats what it was for you. . . . being flung. However, there are a lot of people that have developed sincere friendships, relationships and even marriage from the internet.

If its not your thing, fine and fair enough but there's also no need to interject your beliefs with all that "dudes around you must be extinct/internet is your last resort" krapola. Afterall, it speaks against your person (and so called beliefs) if you can't even find people around you to "be there and do that" with.

spikedcylinder:

Sure.
Maybe thats what it was for you. . . being flung. . .However, there are a lot of people that have developed sincere friendships, relationships and even marriage from the internet

If its not your thing, fine and fair enough but there's also no need to interject your beliefs with all that "dudes around you must be extinct/internet is your last resort" krapola.

ThoniaSlim:

But I still stick to my views. 

spikedcylinder:

If its not your thing, fine and fair enough but there's also no need to interject your beliefs with all that "dudes around you must be extinct/internet is your last resort" krapola.