Im a Malaysian indian,its been long im in relationship with tis guy n nw it time 4 us 2 get married.He want us 2 get married n start 2 live in 9ja(lagos). I never been 2 9ja b4 and i dont have any idea abt staying there.Hw is the future 4 foreigners like me there?can i get a job there?(im a teacher)Can i manage myself there?Oh God im so confused!!!

Actually the country name is NIGERIA for you, not 9ja, we dont call Malaysia Mlsha now do we??

Wait a minute. . .you say he's a Nigerian dude in Malaysia? N he's planning to get married to you and settle in Nigeria? Just how many times have i witnessed such scenario over here?

Use your head!

I rest my case!

Lagos is a beatiful city. my advice is to try and secure a job first before relocating to naija.

Rosabelle:

Actually the country name is NIGERIA for you, not 9ja, we dont call Malaysia Mlsha now do we??

what has that got to do with the post?

ThoniaSlim, i dnt really understand wat ur trying 2 say here,

ThoniaSlim:

Wait a minute. . .you say he's a Nigerian dude in Malaysia? N he's planning to get married to you and settle in Nigeria? Just how many times have i witnessed such scenario over here? 

Use your head!

I rest my case! 

do they do that alot?

dsha:

ThoniaSlim, i dnt really understand wat your trying 2 say here,

shes trying to tell you to be smart, and open your eyes wide, they say it does not mean they want it to happen, they can promise you everything but they dont mean it, cos they want something from you,does he have his papers?

!amebo no1:

do they do that alot?

shes trying to tell you to be smart, and open your eyes wide, they say it does not mean they want it to happen, they can promise you everything but they dont mean it, cos they want something from you,does he have his papers?

Yes ohhh. . .they do it a hell lot. . .


I'm not tryna discourage the woman. . .but all am simply saying is that she be really wise about it! she shouldn't just give up everything like that. . .because I have witnessed a handful of Asian women who were in her position. , and I know where they are today. . .

there are actually genuine Nigerian dudes over here that love these Asian women and marry them for genuine reasons. . .but the percentage of these guys is like 5% against a whole 95% of bad cases. . .so Dsha just be really smart about your choices. . .

Girl shine your eye. He may just want the Malaysian passport. Goodluck.

i knw abt nigeria n nigerian, bt does tat mean everyone is te same?n i cant marry them?

dsha:

i knw abt nigeria n nigerian, bt does tat mean everyone is te same?n i cant marry them?

Please explain the highlighted statement?

Girl shine your eye. He may just want the Malaysian passport. Goodluck.

i doubt he wants the passport,,the thing no get value na!!

i mean wat i say,its been long im with them,
i knw wat their doing here in malaysia.

dsha:

i mean wat i say,its been long im with them,
i knw wat their doing here in malaysia.

yea right, we female nigerians know that we dont know our men well enough, not to talk of a malaysian

yea freaking right

dsha:

i mean wat i say,its been long im with them,
i knw wat their doing here in malaysia.

Then you probably still have more 2 know!   

u better dont come to lagos, the heat and rowdiness of the place can kill someone!!!

Shola2009:

i doubt he wants the passport,,the thing no get value na!!

It betta pass that green thing we dey call passport

Whats the diff btw malaysia and Nigeria? its not even under eu countries

Malaysia is an almost developed country. They have good health care, light, water, security things our great country lacks.

Thats your own opinion

Whats the diff btw malasia and Nigeria?

gd question!
1-24 hr electricity!
2-good roads!
3-no too much 419!
4-one begins with M'uuuuu, the other with N'uuuuu(_{village tong)}
5-higer standard of living
6-higher standard of education

let me stop here, because if i continue writing Seun'll  need another server to contain the information!

Shola2009:

gd question!
1-24 hr electricity!
2-good roads!
3-no too much 419!
4-one begins with M'uuuuu, the other with N'uuuuu(_{village tong)}
5-higer standard of living
6-higher standard of education

let me stop here, because if i continue writing Seun'll  need another server to contain the information!

Exactamondo. We 9jas hide behind the crude oil but Nigeria is a poor country.

dsha:

Im a Malaysian indian,its been long im in relationship with tis guy n nw it time 4 us 2 get married.He want us 2 get married n start 2 live in 9ja(lagos). I never been 2 9ja b4 and i dont have any idea abt staying there.Hw is the future 4 foreigners like me there?can i get a job there?(im a teacher)Can i manage myself there?Oh God im so confused!!!

I bet my balls that the poster is no other person but GABRY. If you doubt me, please prove me wrong. A lot of usernames on the screen but behind the screen, it is the same user.

Exactamondo. We 9jas hide behind the crude oil but Nigeria is a poor country.

i agree and disagree, the only reason why the standard of living in poor in 9ja is cause,the population is tooooo muchhhhhhh!!The money from oil is not enuf for everyone,

Shola2009:

i agree and disagree, the only reason why the standard of living in poor in 9ja is cause,the population is tooooo muchhhhhhh!!The money from oil  is not enuf for everyone,

I disagree, the money from our oil can cater for  4 countries we just have greedy selfish politicians stacking monies and buying houses all over the world.

^^ u have a point,i agree with u

Shola2009:

^^ u have a point,i agree with u

Ebonyeyes:

I disagree, the money from our oil can cater for 4 countries we just have greedy selfish politicians stacking monies and buying houses all over the world.

U have my vote for the FIRST Nigerian female president.

justwise:

U have my vote for the FIRST Nigerian female president.

Why thank you thats if they havnt killed me in the run up to the elections

Why? U hit the nail at the head with ur last post. No they will not kill u, God dey.

justwise:

Why? U hit the nail at the head with your last post. No they will not kill u, God dey.

I know say God dey but the same God said thou shall not test me. For real though those filthy politicians are raping the country. Nigeria is the example of a country that has the potential to be the richest and most developed country in the world.

Why thank you thats if they havnt killed me in the run up to the elections

dnt worry, just drop some dollar, and we can organise highly skilled armed body guards for u!

Shola2009:

dnt worry, just drop some dollar, and we can organise highly skilled armed body guards for u!

Still scary though