This question goes to girls who are above 25 but not yet married. pls post in ur replies as soon as possible

loyeruope:

I find it ludicrous that someone posted that I have to pay to touch, caress etc. Women ENJOY these things more than we men. I have seen enough girls with bad boys and when I dig deep to why they still hang on to these losers (as the women like to call them), it all boils down to good sex. The guy gives them good sex and so nothing else matters.

In this day and age where women are crying and shouting for equality, I wouldn't even bother to think of how much it costs to keep her, since we are "equal" then we should equally share responsibilities too. If she wants me to take care of her then she must renounce her oath of equality!

hahahahahahahaha.
How come we men always wanna remember equality when it comes to money?

How come we men always wanna remember equality when it comes to money?

My point is that rights and responsibilities go hand in hand. So if I have a wife who wants to be my equal then she should forget about me carrying an unequal financial burden of the relationship. I think that is only fair.

loyeruope:

My point is that rights and responsibilities go hand in hand. So if I have a wife who wants to be my equal then she should forget about me carrying an unequal financial burden of the relationship. I think that is only fair.

I do understand where you coming from, however, human will always take the best of every situation and fly with it.
Man will like equality when money is concerned.
Women will look for equality when it comes to money.
So everyone is just looking out for their own best interest.

Its depends largely on your income, u have to work it out.

What if I answer 50k p/m here and you earn 60k, how do balance the account?

So bring out ur calculator and start the analysis.

If by naija standard, the wife will cost u like 30k per month for the one that like to cook at home and 50k for the one that like fast-food.
In America, straight out of naija girls are less demanding, it might cost you just $500 every month; because she would surely lost apetites for fast foods ranging from Taco bells, MCDees, Burgar Kings, Ryans, Apple Bees, Popeyes, chinko's foods and Co.
If you want naija girl in Akata's disguise that will cost you at least $1500 per month. First of all, they don't drink water, you might need to stack soft drinks to quench their thirstiness and all they eat is fast foods; then you need to pick two convenient days out of a week for chill-lastin' maybe at any preferable bar (Wild Wings or Red Rooftop) or club (Hush, Pure and Dreams)

If by naija standard, the wife will cost u like 30k per month for the one that like to cook at home and 50k for the one that like fast-food.
In America, straight out of naija girls are less demanding, it might cost you just $500 every month; because she would surely lost apetites for fast foods ranging from Taco bells, MCDees, Burgar Kings, Ryans, Apple Bees, Popeyes, chinko's foods and Co.
If you want naija girl in Akata's disguise that will cost you at least $1500 per month. First of all, they don't drink water, you might need to stack soft drinks to quench their thirstiness and all they eat is fast foods; then you need to pick two convenient days out of a week for chill-lastin' maybe at any preferable bar (Wild Wings or Red Rooftop) or club (Hush, Pure and Dreams)

loyeruope:

My point is that rights and responsibilities go hand in hand. So if I have a wife who wants to be my equal then she should forget about me carrying an unequal financial burden of the relationship. I think that is only fair.

agreed. where are all the mrs independent women on nairaland.

depends on wir d wife is cumin 4rm and ur pocket the rate is as follows
lekki -200k
ikoyi-170k
magodo-120k
surulere-30k
mushin-3k
ajangbadi-2k
village(east)-5k
underbridge-5hundred

Joseph6:

depends on wir d wife is cumin 4rm and ur pocket the rate is as follows
lekki -200k
ikoyi-170k
magodo-120k
surulere-30k
mushin-3k
ajangbadi-2k
village(east)-5k
underbridge-5hundred

ROFL

Joseph6:

depends on wir d wife is cumin 4rm and ur pocket the rate is as follows
lekki -200k
ikoyi-170k
magodo-120k
surulere-30k
mushin-3k
ajangbadi-2k
[b]village(east)-5k[/b]underbridge-5hundred

I beg Im worth much more than that o

how many women re kept this days

Joseph6:

depends on wir d wife is cumin 4rm and ur pocket the rate is as follows
lekki -200k
ikoyi-170k
magodo-120k
surulere-30k
mushin-3k
ajangbadi-2k
village(east)-5k
underbridge-5hundred

Ikeja no dey?, Yaba nko?

depends on wir d wife is cumin 4rm and ur pocket the rate is as follows
lekki -200k
ikoyi-170k
magodo-120k
surulere-30k
mushin-3k
ajangbadi-2k
village(east)-5k
underbridge-5hundred

rflmao
u no put Abeokuta
hehehehe

Where are the ajangbadi chicks? They're right up my alley.

Abeg make una get in touch.

4 more info
yaba-c head office @ yaba left
ikeja-see sandy @ allen after midnite

Who's counting?

also kindly consider the 'cost' women bear in taking care of their
jobless husbands. let's not be so myopic as to think that all
wives are layabouts and waiting to be 'maintained' like a jallopy.

George_D:

also kindly consider the 'cost' women bear in taking care of their
jobless husbands. let's not be so myopic as to think that all
wives are layabouts and waiting to be 'maintained' like a jallopy.

Good question but that is not what this thread is addressing.
When we get to the thread that focuses on that, we will discuss it too.

that's besides the point, brother. the fact remains that
their are many more women 'maintaining' their husbands
than we will care to admit

Bread $5.00
Tomatoes $7.00
Palm Oil $3.00
Butter $6.00
Wife $9.00

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Total $30.00



women have suffered o

@eddy1977, ur a joker son, lol

What if u marry a girl because of her job and unfortunately she loses her job after marriage,would u drop her because she is out of job? I think one should just ask God to give him his own wife, the wife God prepared for him. I believe that if u marry Ur own wife u'll definitely overcome any difficulties that comes as a result of that marriage, but u must always pray.

@ Poster
How much does it cost to mintain your car monthly?

Joseph6:

depends on wir d wife is cumin 4rm and ur pocket the rate is as follows
lekki -200k
ikoyi-170k
magodo-120k
surulere-30k
mushin-3k
ajangbadi-2k
village(east)-5k
underbridge-5hundred

Ikeja - 35k
Ipaja - 15k
Igando - 10k
Ketu - 17k

U make me laff

i wonder how much person for Ikorodu go spend oh

okuse:

What if u marry a girl because of her job and unfortunately she loses her job after marriage,would u drop her because she is out of job? I think one should just ask God to give him his own wife, the wife God prepared for him. I believe that if u marry Ur own wife u'll definitely overcome any difficulties that comes as a result of that marriage, but u must always pray.

exactly! if you marry a lady today calculating the 'cost' of keeping her. what about
tomorrow when circumstances change and she starts keeping you?

George_D:

exactly! if you marry a lady today calculating the 'cost' of keeping her. what about
tomorrow when circumstances change and she starts keeping you?

I guess there is a need to start a new thread on how much it cost to keep a jobless husband and make sure they analyze too by city to city and maybe by tastes too.

George_D:

exactly! if you marry a lady today calculating the 'cost' of keeping her. what about
tomorrow when circumstances change and she starts keeping you?

No mind am, de guy no serious at all

let's start a new thread then. keep things balanced. peace!

Well it costs your heart to keep a wife, attention to bring her close, adequate bedroom activities and no equity to money!

Okay so I am a co wife and I would like to tell you we woman even not working bring a lot to the table. Okay so I have a babysitting job that makes more than my husband every week but I put in more hours too. But my co wife takes care of the kids while I am at work and I do the samething when she works her 2 or 3 days a week. The whole marraige thing is about team work so any of you guys who want to put a vaule on your wifes please step back and look what she does all day and what she puts up with from you

how very true, rebecca