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Married In School, Single At Home. by SKAMM(m): 4:14pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Thinking about this topic, I’ve been wondering who the focus of this post should be – girls or guys or both. . In almost every tertiary institution in Nigeria,you find ‘undergraduate couple’ living as husband and wife. You find a lot of these misguided people in virtually all schools. It’s so bad that, often times,they are duly recognised and acknowledged as couples by lodge neighbours, classmates and even leaders of various students associations. Little wonder there is such an award as “The best couple of the year ” shamelessly and thoughtlessly received by students..Like I said earlier, I really don’t know the particular gender to address but let me just keep typing. . The rate at which girls live with their boyfriends in their various off campus hostels is painfully alarming. . Most times, these young girls are very beautiful, with bright and promising future.They cohabit with boys who are their fellow students as roommates. The lugubrious part of it.. is that the silly girl would always introduce the small boy or whatever as her fiancé..Our society is really sick courtesy of those that live in it. These girls collect either hostel fees or house rents from unsuspecting (and sometimes, struggling)parents and end up in the house of a boy.. chai shame. You struggled possibly for several years to gain admission. Then you suddenly became a prayer warrior posting and shouting ‘Amen’ at the slighted provocation. . You fasted. You had one prayer point filled with promises of your loyalty and devotion to God if only He would answer your prayer. . Now that He has fulfilled His part by answering and granting you admission, don’t you think He is expecting you to fulfill your own part, to keep whatever promises you made to Him??. . Many of you just got admission and once you settle down (especially from your second year), crazy thoughts will begin to creep into your minds. Yes by then, the heat of the rush would have been over; . If God didn’t capture you (possibly through the various campus fellowships), boys would have caught you. Some schools even have an unrecognized, unregistered but well offered courses such as (Moz101. moz, being the short form 4 Mozambique hall, were fresh female students are accommodated). For the guys its a course that shouldn't be carried over. . Soon, they would persuade you to move in with them. Of course, they’d give you one thousand reasons to make you give in to their prodding. . But girlfriend Before you agree to move in and live with a boy on campus, consider the reason why you are in school in the first place. What image would you be creating about yourself? . Can this boy marry you in case you get pregnant for him as is always the case, or will you resort to series of abortions like many other girls before you? . What advice will you give your children in future concerning this kind of things? . After school, what next? . Will the relationship really lead you anywhere?. . This post is finally addressing the female folks. I didn’t plan it that way. Maybe it’s because they are the worst hit by the grave consequences of illicit sexual relationships. . They are the ones that turn out to be the sore losers in the end. They call it school life but they don’t realize how idiotic they have been till it’s too late. . You are not in school to get married. Part of the reasons why you are in school IS NOT to get the husband-and-wife experience, or to see what it feels like for the boy to provide the money for food and for the girl to go to the market for food stuffs and cook. PURE NO! That’s pure misplacement of purpose! . One guy told me that he was practically learning how to be a caring and romantic husband by being with his girlfriend always ..to the extent of sharing the same room AND bed with her. Eiyah what a pity! Then you hear the girl say, “We are not doing anything, we are just roommates”. Yet she commits countless abortions before graduation. Yes..your admission has given you unlimited freedom. |
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by SKAMM(m): 4:15pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
##continuation## Yes, your parents are not there to tell you what to do or what not to do. There is even no blood relation around, so there's no fear of someone reporting you. But what about giving your womanhood respect and protecting your dignity? . What about living in such a way as to have a positive story to tell the next generation (including your children) without your conscience pricking you? . What Goes Around Will Definately one day Come Around. . exercise a moment of thorough thinking and see yourself above your mates. https://mobile.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=796280380495380&id=100003402762783&refid=28&_ft_=qid.6237433734311902362%3Amf_story_key.-560863750059043407&__tn__=%2As Cc. Lalasticlala, Seun, Obinoscopy |
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by Carowline(f): 4:17pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Na wa |
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by TrapLORD(m): 4:23pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Naughtynaughty I thought you wrote this? Don't u have copyright restrictions on it?? |
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by Nobody: 5:14pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
TrapLORD:yeah?? Lol I tink dis is continuation frm whr I stpd..or shuld I say mine is a summary of dis whole sh!t? I mean wu has d tym 2read d whole poo ova der? |
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by sinaj(f): 5:17pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Itz xo xo true Daz btw tho Abeg I currently nid a male roommate on nl, who is interested |
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by joshuamoses101(m): 5:30pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
sinaj:m available o |
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by TrapLORD(m): 5:41pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
naughtynaughty: Okay then, I thought you wrote the original article. |
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by PROVERBZ(m): 5:43pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
sinaj:am intrested if diers going to be benefits |
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by Nobody: 5:45pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
TrapLORD:didn't c dis b4 writing mine tho. Howdy..mr jupiter |
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by TrapLORD(m): 5:49pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
naughtynaughty:I'm awesome your honour.. What's poppin? |
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by sinaj(f): 5:52pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
joshuamoses101:lol |
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by joshuamoses101(m): 6:04pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
sinaj:even for sch |
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by Nobody: 6:30pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
TrapLORD:jxt here..tinkin abt life! Ans hw awesme my future wld b. Lol. Weird? Yeah I knw? U knw I jxt hav dt ova confident assurance dt I cnt b poor? I'd luv to b a celebrity..u knw all those lighting,paparazi and exciting life? I luv it 1 Like |
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by TrapLORD(m): 6:33pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
naughtynaughty: Nah it aint weird at all, I do that too sometimes. Its fun to day-dream but you gotta work to achieve those dreams, kim-k forked her way to fame. You gat any special talents? |
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by Rukkydelta(f): 6:52pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
I shake my head for girls who cohabit |
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by Nobody: 7:21pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
TrapLORD:I cn b talentless lyk kim k nd stil b famous.. *talking2myself* @list I hav ha typpa shape nah |
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by TrapLORD(m): 7:39pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
naughtynaughty: Hehehe.. You? Okay... So why don't you display it? Don't tell me u're shy oo, cos I know you're not! Kim had talents oo she made a sex tape I think everyone has something they're good at. I am a good singer/rapper/song writer n other stuff that has to do with the arts but funny enuf, I'm a scientist by education |
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by Nobody: 7:49pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
TrapLORD:perfect! My dear do u also want fame? A fast1 at dat? Yeah? We cn mke our own naija version compromising video too ooo..loool. Be my ray J..lemme b ur kim k |
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by TrapLORD(m): 8:18pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
naughtynaughty: Hehehe... I think there's too many "Rays" in ur life darling nd I don't like sharing my toys BTW, knack tapes in naija will only get you featured in those mushroom blogs and people will just be cussing us back to back iyalaya won! LOL!! U had supper yet? |
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by Nobody: 8:27pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
TrapLORD:omg! Did u jxt say I der r too many ray's in my lyf? Okbye |
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by TrapLORD(m): 8:39pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
naughtynaughty: "I think" aint I entitled to my opinion? Are u actually pissed? |
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