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Married In School, Single At Home. by SKAMM(m): 4:14pm On Jan 08, 2016
Thinking about this topic, I’ve been
wondering who the focus of this post
should be – girls or guys or both.
.
In almost every tertiary institution in
Nigeria,you find ‘undergraduate couple’
living as husband and wife. You find a lot
of these misguided people in virtually all
schools. It’s so bad that, often times,they are
duly recognised and acknowledged as
couples by lodge neighbours, classmates
and even leaders of various students
associations. Little wonder there is such an
award as “The best couple of the year
” shamelessly and thoughtlessly
received by students..Like I said earlier, I
really don’t know the particular gender to
address but let me just keep typing.
.
The rate at which girls live with their boyfriends in
their various off campus hostels is painfully
alarming.
.
Most times, these young girls are very
beautiful, with bright and promising
future.They cohabit with boys who are their
fellow students as roommates.
The lugubrious part of it.. is that the silly girl
would always introduce the small boy or whatever as her
fiancé..Our society is really sick courtesy of
those that live in it. These girls collect either
hostel fees or house rents from
unsuspecting (and sometimes,
struggling)parents and end up in the house
of a boy.. chai shame. You struggled possibly for several
years to gain admission. Then you suddenly
became a prayer warrior posting and
shouting ‘Amen’ at the slighted provocation.
.
You fasted. You had one prayer point filled
with promises of your loyalty and devotion
to God if only He would answer your prayer.
.
Now that He has fulfilled His part by
answering and granting you admission,
don’t you think He is expecting you to fulfill
your own part, to keep whatever promises
you made to Him??.
.
Many of you just got admission and once
you settle down (especially from your
second year), crazy thoughts will begin to
creep into your minds. Yes by then, the heat
of the rush would have been over; .
If God didn’t capture you (possibly through the
various campus fellowships), boys would
have caught you. Some schools even have
an unrecognized, unregistered but well
offered courses such as (Moz101. moz, being the
short form 4 Mozambique hall, were fresh
female students are accommodated). For the
guys its a course that shouldn't be carried
over.
.
Soon, they would persuade you to move in
with them. Of course, they’d give you one
thousand reasons to make you give in to
their prodding.
.
But girlfriend Before you agree to move in
and live with a boy on campus, consider the
reason why you are in school in the first
place. What image would you be creating
about yourself?
.
Can this boy marry you in case you get
pregnant for him as is always the case, or
will you resort to series of abortions like
many other girls before you?
.
What advice will you give your children in
future concerning this kind of things?
.
After school, what next?
.
Will the relationship really lead you
anywhere?.
.
This post is finally addressing the female
folks. I didn’t plan it that way. Maybe it’s
because they are the worst hit by the grave
consequences of illicit sexual relationships.
.
They are the ones that turn out to be the
sore losers in the end. They call it school life
but they don’t realize how idiotic they have
been till it’s too late.
.
You are not in school to
get married. Part of the reasons why you are
in school IS NOT to get the husband-and-wife experience, or to see what it feels like for the
boy to provide the money for food and for
the girl to go to the market for food stuffs
and cook. PURE NO! That’s pure misplacement of
purpose!
.
One guy told me that he was practically
learning how to be a caring and romantic
husband by being with his girlfriend always ..to the extent of sharing the same room AND bed with her. Eiyah what a pity! Then you hear
the girl say, “We are not doing anything, we
are just roommates”. Yet she commits
countless abortions before graduation.
Yes..your admission has given you unlimited
freedom.
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by SKAMM(m): 4:15pm On Jan 08, 2016
##continuation##


Yes, your parents are not there to
tell you what to do or what not to do. There
is even no blood relation around, so there's
no fear of someone reporting you. But what
about giving your womanhood respect and
protecting your dignity?
.
What about living in such a way as to have a
positive story to tell the next generation
(including your children) without your
conscience pricking you?
.
What Goes Around Will Definately one day Come
Around.
.
exercise a moment of thorough
thinking and see yourself above your mates.

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Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by Carowline(f): 4:17pm On Jan 08, 2016
Na wa
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by TrapLORD(m): 4:23pm On Jan 08, 2016
Naughtynaughty I thought you wrote this? Don't u have copyright restrictions on it?? undecided
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by Nobody: 5:14pm On Jan 08, 2016
TrapLORD:
Naughtynaughty I thought you wrote this? Don't u have copyright restrictions on it?? undecided
yeah?? Lol I tink dis is continuation frm whr I stpd..or shuld I say mine is a summary of dis whole sh!t? I mean wu has d tym 2read d whole poo ova der?
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by sinaj(f): 5:17pm On Jan 08, 2016
Itz xo xo true sad



Daz btw tho


Abeg I currently nid a male roommate on nl, who is interested grin
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by joshuamoses101(m): 5:30pm On Jan 08, 2016
sinaj:
Itz xo xo true sad



Daz btw tho


Abeg I currently nid a male roommate on nl, who is interested grin
grin grin grin m available o
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by TrapLORD(m): 5:41pm On Jan 08, 2016
naughtynaughty:
yeah?? Lol I tink dis is continuation frm whr I stpd..or shuld I say mine is a summary of dis whole sh!t? I mean wu has d tym 2read d whole poo ova der?

Okay then, I thought you wrote the original article.
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by PROVERBZ(m): 5:43pm On Jan 08, 2016
sinaj:
Itz xo xo true sad



Daz btw tho


Abeg I currently nid a male roommate on nl, who is interested grin
am intrested if diers going to be benefits grin
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by Nobody: 5:45pm On Jan 08, 2016
TrapLORD:


Okay then, I thought you wrote the original article.
didn't c dis b4 writing mine tho.


Howdy..mr jupiter
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by TrapLORD(m): 5:49pm On Jan 08, 2016
naughtynaughty:
didn't c dis b4 writing mine tho.

Howdy..mr jupiter
I'm awesome your honour.. What's poppin?
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by sinaj(f): 5:52pm On Jan 08, 2016
joshuamoses101:
grin grin grin m available o
lol grin
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by joshuamoses101(m): 6:04pm On Jan 08, 2016
sinaj:
lol grin


even for sch grin grin
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by Nobody: 6:30pm On Jan 08, 2016
TrapLORD:


I'm awesome your honour.. What's poppin?
jxt here..tinkin abt life! Ans hw awesme my future wld b. Lol. Weird? Yeah I knw? U knw I jxt hav dt ova confident assurance dt I cnt b poor? I'd luv to b a celebrity..u knw all those lighting,paparazi and exciting life? I luv it

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Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by TrapLORD(m): 6:33pm On Jan 08, 2016
naughtynaughty:
jxt here..tinkin abt life! Ans hw awesme my future wld b. Lol. Weird? Yeah I knw? U knw I jxt hav dt ova confident assurance dt I cnt b poor? I'd luv to b a celebrity..u knw all those lighting,paparazi and exciting life? I luv it

Nah it aint weird at all, I do that too sometimes. Its fun to day-dream but you gotta work to achieve those dreams, kim-k forked her way to fame. You gat any special talents? cheesycheesy grin
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by Rukkydelta(f): 6:52pm On Jan 08, 2016
I shake my head for girls who cohabit
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by Nobody: 7:21pm On Jan 08, 2016
TrapLORD:


Nah it aint weird at all, I do that too sometimes. Its fun to day-dream but you gotta work to achieve those dreams, kim-k forked her way to fame. You gat any special talents? cheesycheesy grin
I cn b talentless lyk kim k nd stil b famous.. *talking2myself* @list I hav ha typpa shape nah
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by TrapLORD(m): 7:39pm On Jan 08, 2016
naughtynaughty:
I cn b talentless lyk kim k nd stil b famous.. *talking2myself* @list I hav ha typpa shape nah

Hehehe.. You? Okay... So why don't you display it? gringrin
Don't tell me u're shy oo, cos I know you're not! tongue


Kim had talents oo shocked she made a sex tape gringrin


I think everyone has something they're good at. I am a good singer/rapper/song writer n other stuff that has to do with the arts but funny enuf, I'm a scientist by education cheesy
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by Nobody: 7:49pm On Jan 08, 2016
TrapLORD:


Hehehe.. You? Okay... So why don't you display it? gringrin
Don't tell me u're shy oo, cos I know you're not! tongue


Kim had talents oo shocked she made a sex tape gringrin


I think everyone has something they're good at. I am a good singer/rapper/song writer n other stuff that has to do with the arts but funny enuf, I'm a scientist by education cheesy
perfect! My dear do u also want fame? A fast1 at dat? Yeah? We cn mke our own naija version compromising video too ooo..loool. Be my ray J..lemme b ur kim k tongue
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by TrapLORD(m): 8:18pm On Jan 08, 2016
naughtynaughty:
perfect! My dear do u also want fame? A fast1 at dat? Yeah? We cn mke our own naija version compromising video too ooo..loool. Be my ray J..lemme b ur kim k tongue

Hehehe... I think there's too many "Rays" in ur life darling smiley nd I don't like sharing my toys wink

BTW, knack tapes in naija will only get you featured in those mushroom blogs and people will just be cussing us back to back angry iyalaya won! cheesygrin LOL!!

U had supper yet?
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by Nobody: 8:27pm On Jan 08, 2016
TrapLORD:


Hehehe... I think there's too many "Rays" in ur life darling smiley nd I don't like sharing my toys wink

BTW, knack tapes in naija will only get you featured in those mushroom blogs and people will just be cussing us back to back angry iyalaya won! cheesygrin LOL!!

U had supper yet?
omg! Did u jxt say I der r too many ray's in my lyf? Okbye
Re: Married In School, Single At Home. by TrapLORD(m): 8:39pm On Jan 08, 2016
naughtynaughty:
omg! Did u jxt say I der r too many ray's in my lyf? Okbye

"I think" aint I entitled to my opinion?


Are u actually pissed?

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