Yeah the topic is some how confusing but let me try and break it.
I have a friend (female ) for a long time almost 3 years now, we were soo close dat we know each others likes, dislikes, hobbies and lots more.
And now strangely, I started fall for her out of no where, I don't feel ok if I don't talk with her, when ever I'm depressed, she calm me down, when ever am upset, her presence makes me feel better. I know it will sound to her some how if I ask her out after being her friend for long.
So now am asking your suggestions, how do I ask dis lady out? Because if I ask her out, she will be like, ah ah, for how we've been? It will sound like am asking her out. So how do I ask her out without asking her out?

Nders your good surgestions pls.
I knw I can't stop the bad ones bt trow evry thing you have here. Tanks great Nders!

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Am afraid I could lose our friendship.

The topic is self-contradictory, and makes no sense!

justbusy:
The topic is self-contradictory, and makes no sense!

Yah dats why there is a write-up there

Macclane:
Am afraid I could lose our friendship.

just try it, it won't harm u..since she is ur frd already just
pop it her head make her feel with u feel

ask her In b4 u ask her out

D u want bleep her?

Alki:
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Guy, na wow oh, a booking??

Deapexboy:

just try it, it won't harm u..since she is ur frd already just pop it her head make her feel with u feel
ask her In b4 u ask her out

If you no confuse me the more make I bend

she's your friend for 3yrs and its now your jst thinking of asking her out....bet why bro.....don't you know you are now the chief medical laboratory scientist of the brotherzone society..... chai...

Dude! Dude!! Dude!!! How many times did I call you You better do it now or forever remain friend zoned

Macclane:

If you no confuse me the more make I bend

na advice u need na

debque:
she's your friend for 3yrs and its now your jst thinking of asking her out....bet why bro.....don't you know you are now the chief medical laboratory scientist of the brotherzone society..... chai...

Ah ah calm down, if feelings no dey, wetin u xpect?

Justiyke4u:
Dude! Dude!! Dude!!! How many times did I call you You better do it now or forever remain friend zoned

Taking the leap of faith!!!

Ask your daddy how did you ask your mummy out.
Your daddy will be of good help.

Macclane:


Ah ah calm down, if feelings no dey, wetin u xpect?

bt seriously, it took too long na...don't you think it might tamper with your friendship, cos she has known everything bout u already....bt if u think the feeling is mutual ooo u can go ahead cos she might have been expecting it from you self for 3yrs wey u self no gree....

"..(Her name). Nothing is new under the sun. What I'm abt to say will shock you cuz of hw wev bn friends but I blieve u are mature and whethher u will spank me or understand me I'll still say my mind an watch out for how matured ur reaction would be" ..her response. "I love u I want us to haave lunch 2gether. Frankly I'm asking u out"

Ok asking a girl out is formalizing in it.... it's like aasking her to be yur girlfriend formally but now u want to ask her out without asking her out SiMPLE act like she's ur girlfriend already if she she seems to like it? there u don ask am out but without the formality aspect #youcode?

ogabozz:
Ok asking a girl out is formalizing in it.... it's like aasking her to be yur girlfriend formally but now u want to ask her out without asking her out SiMPLE act like she's ur girlfriend already if she she seems to like it? there u don ask am out but without the formality aspect #youcode?

Make I juz dey blend small small

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Mehn and I thought I've seen all the crazy questions nairaland has got to offer


well OP, simply try some sexual gesture like a kiss during a heated conversation... just stop talking, stare at her lips till she notice you are, then try to kiss her

Two things would happen;

she either lets you, likes it and doesn't complain, then you can tell her how you feel and sh!t

or she lashes out with anger... Then you should quickly give ur best apology and enjoy the Friendzone, heard its similar to Disneyland

Macclane:
Yeah the topic is some how confusing but let me try and break it.
I have a friend (female ) for a long time almost 3 years now, we were soo close dat we know each others likes, dislikes, hobbies and lots more.
And now strangely, I started fall for her out of no where, I don't feel ok if I don't talk with her, when ever I'm depressed, she calm me down, when ever am upset, her presence makes me feel better. I know it will sound to her some how if I ask her out after being her friend for long.
So now am asking your suggestions, how do I ask dis lady out? Because if I ask her out, she will be like, ah ah, for how we've been? It will sound like am asking her out. So how do I ask her out without asking her out?

Nders your good surgestions pls.
I knw I can't stop the bad ones bt trow evry thing you have here. Tanks great Nders!

don't ask her out. ..let it just happen. .sometimes try so that you guys can be in a quiet place...my relationship started this way my bf now. we got close sometimes I helped him settle quarrel with his gf....when they finally broke up..He told me he wanted a Friend not a gf. .we became bestie and go for sit out and we always have fun together..One day he looked at me in a different way and felt like kissing me but couldn't I ask him if he wanted to kiss me he said YES! I allowed him kiss me since then we've been together as bf nd gf..but it just happen..that's why I sometimes get angry if a guy ask me out...she might get confuse whether to say no or reduce the way she's around you or in most cases she will start feeling fly nd mk u hate her. ..tell her more about your intimate life nd listen to her response.

Macclane:


Make I juz dey blend small small

"your head is there"

Your question sha.

debque:
she's your friend for 3yrs and its now your jst thinking of asking her out....bet why bro.....don't you know you are now the chief medical laboratory scientist of the brotherzone society..... chai...

Omo this your reply carry fire back to back o