My friend posted this on fb

I've dated many guys during the course of my teens and early adulthood but no one, I mean no one, can compare to this very guy I met while serving in Cross River a few years back.

The moment we started dating, I knew he was God-sent and to top it all up, he was extremely handsome, intelligent to the core and fun to be with. He had everything a decent woman would need in a man except that he wasn't too rich then, after all he too was serving with us, but I always believed he would one day because he had so much intellectual asset that could make any man wealthy in the nearest future, and he wasn't lazy.

Two months into the relationship and I was already feeling like I've never dated any guy before in my whole life because his love, affection and pampering far superseded all the other guys I've ever been with X10. It was like I had won a lottery.

He loved discussing future plans with me; always saying he can't wait to meet my Dad whom I never told about him (I lost my Mum at age 12). He took me to his hometown and showed me to his family who welcomed me like their own.

Once in a while I'd steal his phone away from him just to go through his messages and chats with women on Social Media and to my greatest surprise, he had turned down so many women who tried their luck on him just because of me. I couldn't help but love him totally. He really stole my heart.

Notwithstanding, I cheated on him so many times just to "belong" in the eyes of my friends. To me, he wasn't even my fiance nor my hubby so I didn't owe him any kind of faithfulness.

Although he was a machine in bed, a killer kisser and a roman in romance, I just couldn't stay with him alone. I mean, I needed to catch fun while my age allowed it.

One day, he was sending some songs when a text came in. It was from one of my "boyfriends" back in Lagos, and he kinda read it. To be frank, I can't really remember the content of the text but I could see heartbreak written all over him.

I had to lie to him that it was one of my Ex'es who was really disturbing me and that I was long over him but he didn't want to leave me. (You know normal girls kind of lie na, I couldn't afford to lose him o)

He let it go, but I knew his trust had depreciated if not long gone.

Almost a year into relationship (we had finished service) and we began to hit the rocks. We had quarrels upon quarrels. My man had completely changed from whom I used to know.

When we talked on phone, it was brief; whilst sounding very casual to me. When we kissed, he'd just pull away, look me in the eyes, and change the subject. He became more pensive, moody and he never opened up to me like he used to.

I was totally bemused by what was going on and I started fearing that someone may have stolen him from me.

Funny enough, he even tried to settle things at some point but it just wasn't working! He was losing his love for me so fast and he couldn't help it. I knew it and it hurt me badly.

One day, while I laid on his chest, I summoned up courage and asked "Baby, is there someone else?"

If humans could see the future, I would have known better that that question would result to something I will regret forever.

Of a truth, I knew he wasn't a womanizer. I just needed to know what was going on with such changes I was seeing.

He looked me in the eye, smiled and said "No" in a very harmless way.

Then he asked me "How is it that you ask me such a question without being judged by your own conscience?"

I was startled. What did he mean by that?

It was at this point he began unfolding to my face how many other guys I have been sleeping around with (both protected and unprotected) since we started the relationship. He told me when (as in the exact date) for each of them and up till today, I am still shocked at how he knew all these. (although any time I cheated on him, his attitude towards me changed).

I was too weak to deny it. I had been caught pants down. I was really in love with this guy and I could feel his pain. I betrayed him. I cried my eyes out and he too sobbed.

I didn't even have the courage to beg him because I knew he was fed up.

He just dropped a paper on the bed and left the door. It turned out to be his HIV test result which was Negative.

I never saw or heard from the man of my dreams ever again after that day. I called, switched off. On Facebook? He wasn't active. His house? He had relocated. It was after I got married that I heard he was also married, comfortable and with children.

Today I'm married with 3 kids to a man; a drunk and a brute who doesn't see anything bad in dishonouring our matrimonal bed.

Please ladies, before you loose your dream man (the man God may have chosen to bless you with), thread carefully.

If he loves you, cares for you and is faithful to only you, please reciprocate because you may not know his worth and his value until he walks out of your life.

God bless you

This almost made me cry.

Lalasticlala

But why nau, ehn? @Ladies, why?

Why do ladies (especially those between ages 20 and 25) who are expected to behave like adults expose themselves to such nonentities?

Is it money? How much has that little change added to your life?

Is it affection? You dey sell am wholesale ni? Why need so much

Is it "fun"? How long will it last for crying out loud?!

This is exactly how ladies throw away their future in the name of having fun. It's unfortunate tho. A man loves you like this and you just want more guys, more dicks, more magas, more affection, more, more and more!

At the end, you'll end up settling down with the wrong person after chasing the right person away.

She got what she deserved. What you do unto others, sometime someone, somewhere, somehow will do it unto you in the most wicked way!

Look here ladies, if you wanna cheat, please feel free to cheat on thugs, touts and sugar daddies, but you see that gentle, intelligent, smartass nigga? You better not go there cos he'll surely find out and make the rest of your life a river of gloomy retrospects.

You'll cheat on a faithful guy, but be faithful to a cheat.


We don't really care if you're a virgin or not, all we're asking for is to find that someone who will give us the same love, care and faithfulness we give to you. Is that too much to ask?

Well, in this 21st Century, it seems no one wants to be truthful anymore, everyone wants to outsmart someone, and thus betray someone. It's ok tho...

As for me, I'll date my ambition, court my future and marry my career.

No relationship, no worries.

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Anyway check out my signature....

They say they want to be loved.
When you give them the love, they wont value it. Give them the attention they say they like, they will still look outside and break your heart to pieces.




What exactly do women want?

I got annoyed and stopped reading am coming back to continue

LaurelP:
They say they want to be loved.
When you give them the love, they wont value it. Give them the attention they say they like, they will still look outside and break your heart to pieces.




What exactly do women want?

Mehn I swear to God I tire!!!

heart touching story

prettyjo:
heart touching story

Ladies ehn. Even cheats will call it "touching" and still go around "touching" outside.

Reiyvinn:


Ladies ehn. Even cheats will call it "touching" and still go around "touching" outside.

in other words,what are you trying to imply?

very touching dear but the deed has been done.a word is enough for the wise .i will continue to say this *keep ur self pure and and holy no matter how much u are mocked and u will see the result in the end.

prettyjo:

in other words,what are you trying to imply?

lol I'm just being naughty but that's the truth. In church, even rapists, robbers and murders say Amen.

Advicing a girl of 20-23yrs is like pouring water on the back of a hen...u'd be wasting a whole lot of ur time, cos, youthful exuberance no go allow them listen to you...they will tell you, they wanna enjoy life first before they delve into marriage asif there is no enjoyment in matrriage

God help me

Waoh! I really cried! That's so touching. I promise to be faithful when I find him.

Pls mods lalasticlala farano ishilove rocktation seun, ladies wil sure use this piece of info. It nids to b in FP. Thnx

HateU2:
Waoh! I really cried! That's so touching. I promise to be faithful when I find him.

Ifa hear!

Reiyvinn:


Ifa hear!

iffa hear too

HateU2:
iffa hear too

You ladies are funny tho.
We're faithful to you, you cheat on us.
We cheat on you, you're faithful to us.
Just know that guys have nothing to lose as long as there are condoms.

Reiyvinn:


You ladies are funny tho.

We're faithful to you, you cheat on us.

We cheat on you, you're faithful to us.

Just know that guys have nothing to lose as long as there are condoms.

Gosh!
Not again!
With this mentality!

HateU2:
Gosh!
Not again!
With this mentality!

*modified*

Yeah, Gosh!

Go ask porn stars why they cream their v's, then you'll know psychologytoday.com was simply talking trash.

Furthermore, a guy could procreate at after age fifty, but a lady who wasted her life polishing dicks will become sterile one day and only a miracle of "Sarah" will save such a person.

LaurelP:
They say they want to be loved.
When you give them the love, they wont value it. Give them the attention they say they like, they will still look outside and break your heart to pieces.




What exactly do women want?

sorry, women don't know what they want but i think they want suspense and confusion.

DamZik:
sorry, women don't know what they want but i think they want suspense and confusion.

True talk

It is only immature women that do that. There is more to life than what we call fun. Faithfulness is fun. Knowing that someone got my back makes me happy. If I feel I no longer love you, I will tell you to your face. I have only one life to live hence pretence is a waste of time. And when I love, it is for real, it is transparent.

Touching..... I learnt something from this...... Rachy listen oh!

davidsgal:
Touching..... I learnt something from this...... Rachy listen oh!

Lol

Lalasticlala this thread is very good for the front page.
It has a lot of lessons.

PrettyClare7:
It is only immature women that do that. There is more to life than what we call fun. Faithfulness is fun. Knowing that someone got my back makes me happy. If I feel I no longer love you, I will tell you to your face. I have only one life to live hence pretence is a waste of time. And when I love, it is for real, it is transparent.

Sadly, not many Ladies think like this..... It's so unfortunate.

PrettyClare7:
It is only immature women that do that. There is more to life than what we call fun. Faithfulness is fun. Knowing that someone got my back makes me happy. If I feel I no longer love you, I will tell you to your face. I have only one life to live hence pretence is a waste of time. And when I love, it is for real, it is transparent.

why should u fall out of Love with a guy u claim to love... instead ur love for him.. should growbmore and more everyday..

I still cant fanthom why a lady would be driven to cheat when she already has a man. The girl bleeped up big time(its not everyday a decent guy like dat comes along).

armylord:
why should u fall out of Love with a guy u claim to love... instead ur love for him.. should growbmore and more everyday..

if it happens that we cannot understand each other... I will leave instead of cheating. People change

PrettyClare7:
if it happens that we cannot understand each other... I will leave instead of cheating. People change

I'd appreciate it more if I'm told to the face that you don't love me rather than having you deceive me and betraying me in the process.