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Re: Is My Mum Right To Have Said This? by bukatyne(f): 10:55pm On Jan 13, 2016 |
In laws sha... 1 Like |
Re: Is My Mum Right To Have Said This? by Askseek(f): 12:42am On Jan 14, 2016 |
Yomieluv: She is not wrong or right. It's her opinion and this doesn't have to be the end of the world. Acknowledge her and do what you works for you and your wife. She will come to terms with it if that's what you want. Like some have said though, you can avoid things that will trigger your mother and cause tension between her and your wife just for peace sake |
Re: Is My Mum Right To Have Said This? by tpiah2: 12:50am On Jan 14, 2016 |
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Re: Is My Mum Right To Have Said This? by McSquishi(f): 2:05am On Jan 14, 2016 |
Yomieluv: You sound like the perfect hubby & your marriage is obviously destined to continue to prosper. It's important that a man/woman be able to balance the duties of husband and son simultaneously. From everything you've written, you seem to be doing that. Your mom is old school & when folks from the old school preach to us, we listen respectfully, perhaps try to impart some modern thinking to them, but if they don't accept it, just let it go. Continue doing what's best for your marriage. Mom seems more concerned abt appearances in this instance while you're concerned about your wife's health and practical things. The latter wins out. You did good OP. 1 Like |
Re: Is My Mum Right To Have Said This? by Nobody: 3:11am On Jan 14, 2016 |
[quote author=tpiah2 post=41952991][/quote]you are a fan,but i dont do Expired goods. Try harder. |
Re: Is My Mum Right To Have Said This? by Miami11: 5:19am On Jan 14, 2016 |
McSquishi:You are so on point, with the older folks you just need to play around what you say but express yourself, like "mum it's just a bag and besides she's expecting" you don't just act a fool or confused. They will get the message. |
Re: Is My Mum Right To Have Said This? by cococandy(f): 6:03am On Jan 14, 2016 |
Amen sister. Preach PresVA: 1 Like |
Re: Is My Mum Right To Have Said This? by teevodaprinz(m): 8:44pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
Miami11: You shouldn't disrespect your mother to please your wife... Meaning you shouldn't place your wife over your mom likewise your mom over your wife so that none wil not feel rejected... A man is always a man and one of the worst thing that can frustrate a man in marriage is to incur enmity btw the wife and the mother if care is not taken it will cause him a great loss either on the wife part, the mother or his siblings... I think you should just try to make you mom understand your reason for doing that... Be wise |
Re: Is My Mum Right To Have Said This? by Godsbaby1(f): 9:29pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
I think hand bags are part of fashion, it is not meant to pack heavy loads in it, may be money, phones tissue, may be powder even if she preg she can handle it, what u wud have done is to carry the gift why she handle her bag, for me i cant be comfortable if my husband volunteer to carry my bag. Let him have other things but my bag mbanu, |
Re: Is My Mum Right To Have Said This? by Miami11: 10:51pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
teevodaprinz:What is disrespecting a mom in telling her carrying a wives handbag is no big deal, that is a hypocrites mentality you have. I have no problem telling my real mom whatever I want, this does not change the fact that she still remains my mom. 1 Like |
Re: Is My Mum Right To Have Said This? by drmikeadams(m): 12:00am On Jan 29, 2016 |
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Re: Is My Mum Right To Have Said This? by Nobody: 12:04am On Jan 29, 2016 |
Males and their mothers sha I no fit shout 1 Like |
Re: Is My Mum Right To Have Said This? by byvan03: 11:41am On Jan 31, 2016 |
In- laws have ruined many marriages, I really like how you handled your mum. Let her know her place and not cause conflict in your home. Women can be very wicked, especially when they see their sons doing what their father never did for her. 1 Like |
Re: Is My Mum Right To Have Said This? by Nobody: 12:05am On Feb 01, 2016 |
In the Nigerian society it's wrong for a man to carry a lady's bag while they walk together, but it's okay in the western world. Same way Americans would think two grown men holding hands and strolling together are gays, but here in Nigeria we do not see it that way. It's all a matter of social context. |
Re: Is My Mum Right To Have Said This? by buoye1(m): 2:35am On Feb 01, 2016 |
So matured..... TwUae bros Acidosis: 1 Like |
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