This is my personal view, but when ladies scream heart break, oh God he lied to me, look deeper and u see d lady saw it coming, and so abt two years ago something happened to me dat changed my views on sex. i started having random sex for just pleasures and distraction, but i maintained one principle, i would never hurt a gals feelings, so even b4 we start having crazy fun i let u knw its just for d fun of it.
fastforward to 3 months later, u think things can get serious, u start doing household shores against my wish, u ignore all d red light i give, i even caution u not to fall in love, and u say sure, u knw d drill. why then do u now scream heartbreak when d fun ends.
ladies a guy will never take u serious if he doesnt want to, even if d heavens fall, always knw what u want and never assume d guy will change in future because he wont, or rather i wont. if it sex a guy wants, u will knw from d first approach, dont always blame d guy, blame u for being an idiot.

For your mind now, you don turn *coughs* Anyways, there is a simple atom of truth in what you've written. Anyways, not my business.

Gals are too emotional, jst a little closeness or even contact with her she'll assume u guys are already dating in her mind

A random man once said.

The problem with relationships are that Women are always expecting men to change. and men are always expecting women to stay the same.

we can't help it sometimes. love is an annoying f**k

Teempakguy:
A random man once said.


we can't help it sometimes. love is an annoying f**k

I quite agree with you, but then why blame it on d guy, even d one who tried his best to protect ur heart

jetage1:
This is my personal view, but when ladies scream heart break, oh God he lied to me, look deeper and u see d lady saw it coming, and so abt two years ago something happened to me dat changed my views on sex. i started having random sex for just pleasures and distraction, but i maintained one principle, i would never hurt a gals feelings, so even b4 we start having crazy fun i let u knw its just for d fun of it.
fastforward to 3 months later, u think things can get serious, u start doing household shores against my wish, u ignore all d red light i give, i even caution u not to fall in love, and u say sure, u knw d drill. why then do u now scream heartbreak when d fun ends.
ladies a guy will never take u serious if he doesnt want to, even if d heavens fall, always knw what u want and never assume d guy will change in future because he wont, or rather i wont. if it sex a guy wants, u will knw from d first approach, dont always blame d guy, blame u for being an idiot.

o yeah.. So you trying to say you are one sort of play boy that just want to have sex and tell them no strings attached yeah...



Oga stop deceiving yourself.. The problem here is you and not the ladies... If you are matured enough you would know that sex brings a type of attachment... If you don't want them wanting more then zip the hoot up and don't come complaining

Na the cheap girls Wey you bin dae carry cause all this wahala..

olardimeji:
o yeah.. So you trying to say you are one sort of play boy that just want to have sex and tell them no strings attached yeah...



Oga stop deceiving yourself.. The problem here is you and not the ladies... If you are matured enough you would know that sex brings a type of attachment... If you don't want them wanting more then zip the hoot up and don't come complaining

Na the cheap girls Wey you bin dae carry cause all this wahala..

must strings be attached to every round of sex, sometimes we take life too seriously. am not complaining, not my heart, just a word for d ladies to guard their feelings

instead of sleeping randomly with any girl ,start advising dem at least it will be helpful

jetage1:
I quite agree with you, but then why blame it on d guy, even d one who tried his best to protect ur heart

Humans shift blame all the time. not because it's right, but because it's easier that way. guilt is a very bad feeling. with it comes regret and sadness. why not just shift the blame and avoid the guilt? for many people, it is easier to paint the other person as an evil monster who is responsible for all our woes. rather than just admitting that we are the architects of our own problems.

however, we need to realize that accepting guilt and blame actually allows us to move towards a path of change. so we can become better persons in the future. hence the lesson I want girls to take away from this is that, whatever feeling you get from an romantic relationship, whether during or after, is of your own doing. do not blame the other person. own up, and learn from the mistakes so you can become a better person in the future.

jetage1:
must strings be attached to every round of sex, sometimes we take life too seriously. am not complaining, not my heart, just a word for d ladies to guard their feelings

Oo so you tell a girl you just want her as a intimacy gadget and she agrees and says no problem..

In the first place any girl that accept to such terms without having to gain something has low self esteem.. Meaning she doesn't worth poo

Girls are fragile being that deserves care, love and want attention so anyone not wanting this, bro.. You ain't ffucking a real woman but a LovePeddler

Like seriously?? Op!! You mean b4 sexing a lady,,u tell her no strings?? You want her in ur bed and they let you?? You sure are surrounded by cheap girls..Girls that feel they are worth no man's love,care and attention. Or better still,, have no self respect and low self esteem.. I sincerely blame this kinda girls,,not the Op...

Omavik:
Like seriously?? Op!! You mean b4 sexing a lady,,u tell her no strings?? You want her in ur bed and they let you?? You sure are surrounded by cheap girls..Girls that feel they are worth no man's love,care and attention. Or better still,, have no self respect and low self esteem.. I sincerely blame this kinda girls,,not the Op...

noted!!!

Omavik:
Like seriously?? Op!! You mean b4 sexing a lady,,u tell her no strings?? You want her in ur bed and they let you?? You sure are surrounded by cheap girls..Girls that feel they are worth no man's love,care and attention. Or better still,, have no self respect and low self esteem.. I sincerely blame this kinda girls,,not the Op...

pls can u throw more light on the term cheap gal? if every gal dat wants sex witout strings are cheap,whatever happened to friends with benefits?