Yes, this title might come across as being somewhat self-centered, but the truth is that you have got to first of all fall deeply in love with yourself first of all before you think to look for love elsewhere. Not taking this exercise really seriously might just be the reason why you might not get it right in a relationship.

If you did read my last post, then you would have found that I did talk about how vital it was that you went on a self-realization therapy. One of the very first self-realization therapies that you could possibly think of embarking on, is the love -your- self- therapy. But, what is it all about?

Well, it has to do with you looking really inward to know the things you love, what
catches your fancy, what your interests in life really are, what your desires and aspiration really says, the type of person you would love to be married to, and a whole lot of other stuff.



Here are some questions that you have to answer to play by the rules:


1. What Are The Things You Love Doing?


If you do not know what things tickle your fancy now that you are single, then when will you possibly do? One of the mistakes that many folks make is the mistake of not paying proper attention to one's self, but rather laying emphasis on what the other person whom they are on the lookout for might love.


One of the greatest disservice that you could possibly ever do to yourself is not identifying the things you love. Truth is that if you do not do this now, then the sad news is that your partner couldn't help you out.


2. Do You Invest In Yourself?


Right, you want a guy or lady who is all this and that, but have you taken time to invest in your own self? The holy bible expressly talks about how charity must begin at home. Indeed, if you are looking to meet one who have thoroughly invested in their own life, then you have got to make room for some self-investment too.


This could be by way of having a relationship mentor, reading loads of books on relationship, attending seminars, webinars, a lot more activities that would help broaden your horizon to be a better person generally.


3. Have a Deep Fellowship with God


It is one thing to have a relationship with God, it is yet another to have a constant fellowship with him. One of the marks of those who are really in tune with themselves, is the sign of being in tune with God. Why is this vital? This is especially important because you cannot possibly love your husband or wife, if you do not have a thriving relationship with God.



There you have it people. Practice these 3 basis things religiously and watch how transformed your life would become, as you attract only the right people into your life.


I do really care about you, and it is my prayer that you do not get entangled with a partner that could leave your life in mess.


You deserve the best.

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The romance section needs more of these.

CooL, but i don't think there is anybody who doesn't love his or herself miss op