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Virginity Is Not Virtue by CountDracula(m): 7:08pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
A lot of ladies complain that guys walk away from them simply because they refused to give them sex, some are even tempted to give away their virginity just to keep the guys. Let me be very blunt here. Virginity may not be the real reason the guys go away. Yes, no doubt, there are several guys who want sex, and if they don’t get it, they walk away. The problem may not be with the virginity or the sex. The story of the Ten virgins in the Bible reveals that both the wise and foolish were both virgins, the other five were not refused from seeing the bridegroom because they were virgins or because they lost their virginity, but because they were foolish; they were called foolish because they had no EXTRA OIL. Most ladies don’t have any EXTRA OIL to sustain any relationship. While many brag about their virginity, that is all they have to offer, they forget that virginity ends the night after the wedding, but EXTRA OIL is what will keep the marriage going. If a man ask a lady for sex and she says NO, the man can walk away if what he really wanted was sex and also if that is all he thinks the lady can offer him. A man may not come to a lady for sex, along the line he may be tempted to ask for sex, if the lady turns him down, the man may still stay in the relationship if he sees other things that are valuable to him, but if he doesn’t, he may walk away. Before you think guys are walking away because you are a virgin, look inwardly. Some ladies who brag about virginity are somewhat timid, some impolite, uncultured and aggressive. Why would a guy stay with such a lady? Some ladies do not have manners, some do not have much upstairs, some are not social, some are dull, and maybe the best thing they have is their hips, nice backside, nice breast and nice lips, and so when a guy comes because of all the physical shapes and wants sex, if he is turned down, he walks away because there is nothing else interesting about the lady. Most men now are even scared of marrying such virgins. Their fears prompt them to want to test before they discus marriage because many ladies who got married as virgins have caused their husbands to be looking elsewhere because they are too naïve on bed. However, you don’t need to test to be sure she will be good, you can know a lady who will be good at home and bed by her decent conversation, by the level of knowledge acquired, by her quest/zest/ passion for knowledge and by God’s leading. I know of many ladies who are still virgins, they have great relationships, they have many friends around them, you may not even know they are still virgins unless they tell you. Do not break your virginity because a guy wants to walk away, unless you don’t have anything else to off in . relationship. It is not all about virginity, work to build up virtue. Virginity is good, but to your virginity, add knowledge, add EXTRA OIL….“And beside this, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue; and to virtue knowledge; And to knowledge temperance; and to temperance patience; and to patience Godliness, And to Godliness brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness charity.” 2 Pet. 1:5-7 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by Michellla(f): 7:13pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
Do not break your virginity because a guy wants to walk away. nice point. |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by Nobody: 7:13pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
Though I respect virgins & encourage chastity, I think it is more expedient to "know" your partner before tying the knot. I mean, who doesn't "test-run" an automobile before purchasing? |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by ArchEnemy(m): 7:17pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
Michellla:you mean some ladies are that naive? |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by sinaj(f): 7:19pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
Nice write up |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by Michellla(f): 7:21pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
ArchEnemy:aha you'ld be surprised.. |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by Michizzy(f): 7:21pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
Loving this write up.! |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by ArchEnemy(m): 7:22pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
RexKex:but these are not automobiles; they are humans o Besides, getting a good test run does not always guarantee a problem free usage And thirdly, giving excuses to disobey God wont stand on the D-day 1 Like |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by Nobody: 7:29pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
ArchEnemy:Test running might not always guarantee safe usage. But blindly purchasing an automobile without first test-running is far more drastic IMO. What if the two persons eventually get married after "test-running", will it still be disobedience? Just curious. |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by ArchEnemy(m): 7:32pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
RexKex:Fornication is still fornication even if they marry 4 times and over. Bro, we just look for excuses to disobey that part.....how the hell did our fathers marry right without test running? 1 Like |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by Nobody: 7:37pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
ArchEnemy:Our fathers probably never told us the truth. Our fathers "test-runned", they probably even "test-runned" more than we will ever "test-run". |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by ArchEnemy(m): 7:46pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
RexKex:hmmmm Rex baba I don't know where you got that from o Anyway, it looks justifiable when we go with our carnal human mindset . But excuses won't help against God I rest my case |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by Nobody: 7:49pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
ArchEnemy:lol. To be thoroughly sure, ask dad. Case rested. |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by Nobody: 7:52pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
At last someone gets it. How some air brains equate virtue with virginity befuddles me. |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by Richiy(f): 7:59pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
Even if virginity is not full blown virtue but we need to applaud the ladies that stood their grounds amidst all these high sexual tension prevalent in our time. A lot of us, me inclusive, couldn't. It does not make us worse or better persons, but a round of aplause should be given to those that deserve it. |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by ebubey(f): 8:03pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
i like that ...nice write up op |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by cruzita(f): 8:05pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
you ate right op ••••••••very right |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by Nobody: 8:18pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
RexKex: Lmao... |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by CountDracula(m): 7:48am On Feb 07, 2016 |
Richiy: Will d applause buy dem a happily ever after marriage? |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by Nobody: 7:54am On Feb 07, 2016 |
virginity is not virtue yeah. But, what if she has the virginity and the virtue? Oh jibijibijibi |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by CountDracula(m): 7:56am On Feb 07, 2016 |
Speechless3: Loool. At 1st I thought it was the "Nigerian mentality" but its actually d same in the US, esp amongst d religious folks so I guess its religion dat makes people think dat way, altho religion in itself never really equated virginity to virtue, well I can say dat abt christianity not really sure abt others |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by CountDracula(m): 8:03am On Feb 07, 2016 |
Though I respect virgins & encourage chastity, I think it is more expedient to "know" your partner before tying the knot. *raises hand* I don't Wat exactly is d aim of d "test run" sex? What ar u testing for? Whether or not she has a hole inbetween her thighs? |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by Nobody: 8:03am On Feb 07, 2016 |
Speechless3:Take this piece home to momma:U can't eat your cake and have it. If you've kept yourself chaste and have the good morals to match, How full the self respect and value from others will be? If you'd become everybody's _fuck hole, you expect to be treated like a rare gem? Oh No! |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by CountDracula(m): 8:04am On Feb 07, 2016 |
pinceprinz: To me it doesn't really add to her value, she's d one I'm interested in not her hymen |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by Nobody: 8:10am On Feb 07, 2016 |
CountDracula:All I can relate with from your pot of belief is You don't care if she's a hoe so far she has the good nature. It's yo life! |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by CountDracula(m): 8:11am On Feb 07, 2016 |
pinceprinz: Nobody is askin u to bcome a glory hole for all manner of colors, types, and sizes of the D, but because ure not a virgin doesn't make u any less respectable dan a woman dat has a double layer of hymen because she's never even seen porn bfor talk less have sex, chastity is not equal to respect. I don't knw if ure a christian, if u are u wil understand wat am abt to say, Jesus respected a LovePeddler... And till date people bear her name, I can't say dat for d countless virgins dat met Jesus but were never mentioned because dey made no impact, virginity doesn't make u any better its who u are dats d difference 1 Like |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by CountDracula(m): 8:14am On Feb 07, 2016 |
pinceprinz: Lool. Its funny u assume a "non-virgin" is automatically a hoe, little bit short sighted too, seriously dis days 90% of d tym u don't knw d kind of girl ure datin, her being a virgin wil not make u understand her any better or make her a good cook or make her good wit kids or make her understandin or make her intelligent 1 Like |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by Cockyzy(m): 8:32am On Feb 07, 2016 |
having a flab of skin tissue covering a orifice in your body does not make you a virtuous person. Humans are too dumb. |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by Nobody: 8:42am On Feb 07, 2016 |
CountDracula: OH I'm no xtian but I know stuffs bout Mary Magdalen, Who bears Magdalen today? What is the population when compared to those people who bear Mary - "Virgin" Mary- Mother of Jesus? Anyway, she ( Mary from Magdalen) ain't no hoe as you've been made to erroneously believe, she actually a woman who is actually vulnerable to men's abuse (sexually)-She lived at the city's wall(outskirts) where men commit atrocities - full blown, + she is possessed by some demonic spirit, Jesus casting that out, she became one of the faithful disciples ... Btw, who were the virgins that met Jesus that made no impact? Educate us. You also said chastity is not respect but I say to you chastity earns you respect in the sight of God the mighty and Men who haven't lost their senses to the love of the World and the ephemeral bounty that comes with it. |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by Nobody: 8:49am On Feb 07, 2016 |
CountDracula:Before you go deep, are you trying to tell me Virgins don't have all these vibrant womanly qualities and more? Are you kidding me or something? |
Re: Virginity Is Not Virtue by CountDracula(m): 3:19pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
pinceprinz:I'm saying virginity doesn't "give" u dis qualities... Virginity doesn't make u brilliant. Pls understand |
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