During the week I stumbled on a very close friend of mine.We were very close friends back in the day and we were so excited meeting each other after a long while.We got talking and he began relating his experience with his girl.In the course of the conversation, questons began to pop in my head...why must a girl always leave the guy to take the first move? What if the guy really loves the girl and he's just trying to take his time? If a girl is really into a guy why not walk up to the guy and tell him how she feels? Or is it just a Nigerian thing? What do you think guys.MATURE contributions please.

I think girls are too busy chasing money too, now. No time for foreign rubbish.

Talk to a girl if you love her! If she accepts, fine! If she declines, fine!.

You lots should stop complicating life! Sh*t is complicated enough.

Yes! It's a Nigeria thing if you like a guy, ask him out or let him know you do like him. After all he will be doing you a favour if you date him

Forget it, I have seen a number of time where girls go after the guy they like. It is no big deal & it happens

You should know that this is Nigeria, not India. Moreover, some girls (matured) ones make the first move sometimes, it really don't matter.
The problem why i think most girls don't make the first move in this part of the world is because ''they understand'' the MEN they have here in Nigerian. Most men (majority) of the Men take them forgranted and make them look desperate, while some dude play with their innocent heart as if they are playing Temple Run...

why are you the head then?

cruzita:
why are you the head then?

good question.

U want to propose to him since he's not making the move?

my brother, its a Nigerian thing. Our girls are traffic wardens.... All they know is the "legendary" green light

cruzita:
why are you the head then?

So it's no longer a partnership?

Hmmm...really:/

True

Hmmm...you have a point there you know

Dear cruzita, methinks you getting this all wrong...it has little or nothing to with who the head is...i think it has to do wiv the partners involved and above all the understanding.