Laveda:

Well I still insist..I see nothing bad, how much is a plate of food? Not every girl eat out..a can of coke is even okay for me..

Well we all different, don't know what you've experienced...
And for the artificial hair? Want her to make thread ?

DonChippy:

Besides the food, there are too many distractions in a fast food restaurant.
This is supposed to be a romantic date, a guy you are considering having an intimate affair with. You don't accomplish anything reasonable in full public glare.

To be honest, I see buying food as a way of watering the ground before a girl accepts to date you after which she follows you anywhere else you want to take her.

Abi I lie.

Chippy? Please change your mentality.. How much food do you intend buying?
A romantic date? Do you intend kissing and making love to her on a first date?

I see nothing bad about it, I believe before the date you both might have discussed things about yourselves, know things about her and know a lil bit of the kinda person she is, you don't just pick a girl on the street and head to a fast food....
So the whole eatery thing isn't any biggie

Or how do you do yours ?

DonChippy:
Uniqueren, just call me a man who pays attention to details. I'm not a classic man just by mouth. .

Laveda, a romantic date is all about vulnerability. Trusting each other and taking a step further in knowing someone intimately.
You don't do that in the midst of a crowd.

I believe before meeting you both might have had conversations about yourselves

Meeting in the library still won't solve that...as time goes on you'll sort out that sides of you..you can't know everything on a first date

Laveda:
Where do you expect to meet on a first date?

Why this mentality? That every girl who asks to meet in a fast food is hungry

BUTCHCASSIDY:

Same mentality that chics have that every guy who asks them out just wants sex

DonChippy:
This write up is inspired by my present predicament on my inability to find a suitable partner. I have written this bullet points so ladies out there should take note.

*When she uses too much make-up or artificial hair: This to me simply means she has too much to hide, she has a terribly bad hair and she lacks confidence in herself.

*When she uses too much accessories: She has 8 bangles on one hand , a wrist watch on the other and still has a wrist band on it. She has an ankle chain, two necklace's on and walks around like a pretty looking urban masquerade. This to me simply screams 'I'M MATERIALISTIC".

*When she asks to meet up at a fast food joint on her first date: This is a capital no for me, there are many girls out there who are simply looking for free lunch and they get it regularly from their numerous suitors. I simply refuse to be one of those guys.

*When she makes demands: We have barely started talking and you are already talking about your BIS expiry date or your hair is due for a visit to the salon. This is a red alert to me, i am not about to become your ATM card.

*When she doesn't want sex: This is not even supposed to be an issue, except you are not human. If she don't make herself sexually appealing enough, it won't even happen in the first place because some of us still got taste.

*When she doesn't call back: You call and she doesn't respond or reciprocate. You ping or send a Whatsapp message and she doesn't respond until after 24 hours while she has seen the message. It's either she's not a good conversationalist or something else is keeping her busy. Whatever her reasons may be, the fact remains she is not the one for you.

When i see these features stated above , it's a red alert that tell me, she's not even worth the effort.

You can add yours.
Signed: Chippy the Don.

Nubian113:

Donny. This is shallow. It's more about you than a potential partner. The things you focus on Say more about your plight. And boy you judgmental sha, so a love for fashion screams materialism to you? And make up and a different hairstyle means what to you Boy go marry the local villager



Modified: And you're a greedy fvcker boy stay single please we have enough boys masquerading as men out here as it is.


Modified again: And you're needy but maybe what you text wasn't worth a reply so soon. Work on your banter then.

fulfillbill:



Something tells me you have a soft spot for Don...you wouldn't hate his person instead of the article if it wasn't love...

Correct me if am wrong.

Nubian113:


Donna's article is based on don. Correct me if I'm wrong

Nubian113:


Donna's article is based on don. Correct me if I'm wrong

fulfillbill:



Something tells me you have a soft spot for Don...you wouldn't hate his person instead of the article if it wasn't love...

Correct me if am wrong.

fulfillbill:


Sure i like the way you confirmed my suspicion

Don cooky is ready

DonChippy:

Hey! She doesn't have a soft spot for me.
She loves me.

But then Nubian, I bet you don't really know the kind of girls we put up with here.
I really don't want to make this about myself but I would prefer someone who is NOT these things I mentioned above.
As a matter of fact, ladies with these features irritate me.

I wonder why the fast food point has gotten to so many people's nerves. Kinda makes me think more like they are hungry actually.

Nubian113:


you know I do

The fast food thing... Hmmmm... It's deep let's not go there... Men go for quantity and then cry about quality. You dig so choose wisely and stop being a male hoe have some class.

DonChippy:

Sister sister!
Just when did I even become a male hoe.

Laveda:

[Depends on how you present yourself to the lady

DonChippy:

Even if I have as much as Dangote, that doesn't mean I would start buying free food for every girl I meet on date.
Did you see the thread where Dangote bargained 5k parking fee to 1k?
This doesn't mean I'm stingy. I only spend my money wisely.

Maxi112:
IS NOT A MUST THAT ANY GIRL U TAKE TO A FAST FOOD JOINT MUST EAT! SOME TIMES U GO THERE TO HAVE A QUIET AND PRIVATE DISCUSSION THERE WITH OUT ANY INTERFERENCE



EXCEPT U GO ASKING HUNGRY GIRLS OUT.... WHO R ONLY INTRESTED TO EAT U DRY...


SOME BABE WILL JUST HANG OUT WITH U AND DEMAND FOR ONLY BOTTLE WATER...

Nubian113:


Bye

ronald4lif:
Well, non of the listed scares me away from a lady I want to date, so your list is frivolous and insular.

I think it would portend well if we start narrowing such list to our individual requisites than attempting to lump other guys to what we think is right.

And to suggest this is what scares "reasonable" guys away while churning out sophistry points is laughable to say the least. Except if you're inferring that any fella who doesn't agree to your points is unreasonable then we can debate on that.

Laveda:
Where do you expect to meet on a first date?

Why this mentality? That every girl who asks to meet in a fast food is hungry

DonChippy:

Trust me i am quite vast and knowledgeable on most cultures.
Those things i listed are peculiar to us as Nigerians and you are free to disagree with any point i listed.

@Evathyst, trust me, there are so many good things i can do for a lady without being pressured or coerced into doing it just because we are dating. I am a free spirited person and i usually love doing things out of my own free will and not because i am obligated.

octopusfreaky:
Interestingly,, am not a fan of jewelleries but i gats other things i spend money on like clothes and bags. OP just brace up,,women will always be women ,,be ready to spend on your woman.You can only complain if she's extravagant and too demanding.