Contrary to what you might think, most guys aren't looking for a supermodel. They're just looking for their perfect match: a woman who's down-to-earth, sweet and sensitive to his needs.

Here are ten attractive traits that every man keeps in mind when deciding if the woman (i.e. you) sitting across the dinner table at that first date is girlfriend material.


#1. She's Got Confidence

Take it from the guys, nothing is sexier than a woman who's comfortable in her own skin. If you're guilty of meekly asking lines like: "Does this skirt make my thighs look fat?" …stop asking. If you're constantly needing his reassurance that you're beautiful, he may start asking questions himself.

#2. She's Intelligent

Acting like a bimbo loses its novelty to men after high school. What men want in a girlfriend is a woman who can stand as his equal. So be the smart, savvy woman you are! To him, it's a total turn-on.

#3. She's Not Materialistic

Yes, he wants to be your knight in shining armor. And yes, he wants to treat you like the princess you are … but that doesn't give you license to act like one. Allow him the luxury of treating you with romantic dinners and surprise baubles without having to demand them of him. He'll be relieved that he doesn't have to try so hard and surprisingly, this will inspire him to rise to the occasion when he doesn't have to dedicate his whole paycheck to lavish tokens of his love for you.


#4. She's Spontaneous
One of the first things to go in a relationship is the spontaneity. You get stuck in your Friday night dinner dates and you lose that spark you had when you first started dating each other. Don't lose it! Men love a woman who can do things spur-of-the-moment.

#5. She's Laid-Back

What's one of the best things you can do for your relationship with him? Relax. Just relax. When you come home from a long, hard day at work and see those dishes piling up in the sink, we know you have the urge to lash out at him. Instead, try to let it go for the night. No man likes a nag and every man likes a woman who can let her hair down and doesn't sweat the small stuff. We're not saying to just kick back and bro out with him, but a relationship is solid when you're able to relax with each other.


#6. She's Playful

Guys like a girl who laugh at their jokes, but isn't mindless and isn't always serious about everything. Just as we mentioned that men like a woman who can forgo nagging him about the dishes, they like a woman who can joke about the dishes too. Biting remarks and snappy comebacks are just the witty repartee to keep the spark between you in your relationship. And hey, isn't laughter the best aphrodisiac?

#7. She's Sensual

We've already mentioned before that it's not all about your looks (albeit, that's a good motivator for some men) — it's more about an air of sexiness and confidence that will draw his eyes to you when you enter the room. Embrace your femininity. Ditch the sweatpants for date night and take the extra ten minutes to pull the LBD from the back of your closet. You shouldn't feel pressured to strut around the bedroom in lingerie and high heels like a Victoria's Secret angel every night, but you should feel comfortable in your own sexuality…and expressing that sensually to your man.


#8. She's Honest

If he can't trust you — how can he ever see you as his girlfriend … and eventual spouse? Keep things open and honest in your relationship. A little white lie over flirty texts with an old guy friend from college can spiral out of control very quickly into a full-blown fight … and breakup.

#9. She's Independent

Dating a driven, passionate woman? So hot. Babysitting a stage five clinger? Not so much. No man wants a girlfriend they have to reassuringly text, call or visit every five minutes. Give him his poker night with the boys. Let him go golfing on a weekend. Learn to give your guy his space — or he may break up with you to get it.

#10. She's Supportive

As clichéd as it is, some men want to be caretakers … but even the strongest of men want a soft place to fall. He wants to know that you'll support him and stand by him in his life choices, whether it's changing careers or moving to a new city. Show your support in small gestures with a quick "I love you" text when he heads off for his morning commute and listen to him after a hard day's work. Be supportive — but not suffocating. The last thing you want is to remind him too much of his mother

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http://magazine.foxnews.com/love/top-10-qualities-men-are-secretly-looking-women

#11. She's a god... All the above characteristics mentioned are summed up in this one point.

#3. She's Not Materialistic

ladies if you are tired of been single then take this serious

let come for your wedding this year

You are right. I would like to find a woman with all these attributes

Eyah

do u mind sharing the top 10 qualities ladies look for in guys?

exactly

11. She is beautiful.

We all know that men are attracted with what they see. Any ,an who says he don't like beautiful women is a big liar.

12. She is a good cook.

I don't need to talk more about this, the easiest way to a man's heart is through his stomach. We all love good foods

Good attributes tho,but some guys'll still dump a girl that has all these qualities and marry a badly behaved chic...what will be will be!!we can only try.no perfect babe out there..

Women are camelion in Nature. U cant study them

please just be yourself.
Who will love you will love you.

If she is 42DD, with backyard, can cook all kind of dishes and not materialistic with an average beauty and can be a good mother for my kids... I have got all i want

The earlier guys realize all these attributes can be faked the better it is



just get someone you can read like your palm

to every well mannered girl there is a gentleman and to every olosho there is a motherfurka .so any which way na way

MzMayD:
The earlier guys realize all these attributes can be faked the better it is




just get someone you can read like your palm

no matter how you fake

men can know the real once

You are very right my guy...dats it

You are very right my guy...dats just it

CaroLyner:
please just be yourself.
Who will love you will love you.

it not by just been yourself oh

if you dont have it upgrade or....

guys will just be passing you

robosky02:

no matter how you fake
men can know the real once

bullshit. seems you've not met some good actresses

Michellla:

bullshit.
seems you've not met some good actresses

I concur

Michellla:

bullshit.
seems you've not met some good actresses

lol for every actress there are 7 actors lol

the teacher was once a student

robosky02:

lol for every actress there are 7 actors lol
the teacher was once a student

whatever that means.