refiner:
hello friends....hope d weekend is moving on fine.....

I just want to understand somefin here,,,.....read a lot of posts here.dere is dis thread dat talks about wat ladies/guys should do in order to get married or why ladies are still single,and somfin like dat.....

I don't fink all dat are necessary...why do I fink so.....becos if a lady follow dose steps listed for dem,in order to get a man and fortunately for her,he marries her, wat den wil be d fate of d marriage



dats why dere are lot of divorces here and dere, guys going out to get drunk and come in late at night wen he is sure his wife has gone to bed,,guys beating up dere wives out of anger and many more!


all dat simply becos a lady has to cover up her real character,cos she wanna get married.....and she covers dose bad characters of hers wif d help of all dese articles she reads here .....



I stand to be corrected tho....buh I fink all dese articles are d major cause of broken home!....its more advisable for a lady to let her guy knw her true self,and if d guy truly do love her,he will try to change her for d best.....buh if nt,it's better he leaves,cos a broken relationship is far more better Dan a broken marriage!!!

what is ur opinion friends?
lalasticlala wat do u fink

dollyjoy:
learn to write in standard English especially when creating a thread..



Don't be lazy!btw the whole thing look boring and uninteresting!!

dollyjoy:
learn to write in standard English especially when creating a thread..



Don't be lazy!btw the whole thing look boring and uninteresting!!

misspicy:
Its not a matter of been true self,its a matter of cultivating the right character acceptable by the society,a bad mannered girl is a bad market for marriage....simple

dollyjoy:
learn to write in standard English especially when creating a thread..



Don't be lazy!btw the whole thing look boring and uninteresting!!

xpac01:
@ OP, you're very right with what you wrote. The problem is that the society has mounted lots of marital pressure on us as individuals that we tend to throw away our happiness just to pursue the approval of the general. When a lady is single and unmarried she can easily be stigmatised as unwanted, even while the sincere truth is that men who are worthy to be called husbands might have not come across her path. To me, am still of the sincere opinion that a broken relationship is far far far better than a broken marriage. Just seek know what you want as a person. Better single than go to a marriage you'll simply endure rather than enjoy. Shikena.

refiner:



nice write up dear....I fink its becos of wat people says cos we are still unmarried while our mates are married,so it pushes us to get married to any tom,dick and harry.....relegating our happiness to d background..... fanx ones. more!

conversant:
marriage is to be enjoyed and nt to be endured,i pray that u all will find ur valid half in Jesus name..

refiner:


fanx dere for ur opinion....buh dnt u fink its beta for a bad mannered gal to open up to her guy/fiancé Dan covering it all up,until after marriage?which might be worst

Jacksparr0w1207:
What does op know about relationships? Have you ever been in one? Have you ever had a serious relationship? How many relationships have you been in?

profojah2:

refiner is a fuvking virgin.. She never see dick before, I fit bet my two eggs in my scrotum

Jacksparr0w1207:
boss mi, very true. I'm 100% with you on this.

These are the type of people who gives relationship advise on romance section. People who know lil or nothing about relationships


Bawo lo se nlo oga mi?

profojah2:

I swear.. Its irksome to see relationship advice from a greenhorn in romance..


Mo la le o oga mi.. Mo kan gentle ni jare.. Couldn't believe I woke up 11am this morning

Jacksparr0w1207:
my brother, anybody wey follow relationship advice for here Na he know o.


Ha! E ti party all night abi? O necessary jare. Omo to sise dede ye koni asiko faaji. Asa le parawa