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When You Get Intimate Wit Her, (let Her Know).. by Wilson125(m): 1:09pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
How physically assertive should you be with a girl? My freshman year of college I woke up in bed with this girl Stacy. After I walked her out of the dorm in the morning, all the guys on my floor came to congratulate me. Every one had assumed that I had slept with her. But the truth was that I hadn’t even kissed her. I couldn’t tell the guys that. So I was vague and pretended that I didn’t want to kiss and tell… What really happened? I talked on the edge of my bed with Stacy all night. I was scared to touch her. I was scared to even look at her too long. The next time I saw Stacy on campus she politely said hi to me, but was too busy to hang out that week. Or the next week… Why didn’t I try anything with Stacy? I didn’t want her to think I JUST wanted to have sex with her. That would scare her away, right? She’s think I was using her for sex. Or I was a player. Or that I was “just like other guys”…. That is the way my brain worked for a long time. Hide your sexual desire. Girls will think you’re a “player” if you’re too assertive. Show them that I’m different. Unfortunately it wasn’t until a few years later that I realized this wasn’t true. Not only wasn’t it true. It was a HORRIBLE strategy. And makes me wish I had a time machine to go back to freshman year of college. And get a “do over” with all those 19 year olds I fumbled the ball with. The truth is, the more physically assertiveness you pursue a girl with, the more aroused she becomes… Bold and aggressive pursuit of a girl TURNS HER ON. EVEN if she wasn’t interested in you in the first place. The opposite is also true, a girl can be completely into you… but if you’re not physically assertive that interest quickly fades. Being sexual forthright triggers a girl’s arousal and gets her thinking about you in a sexual way. Now, the caveat is that you have to be smooth about it, or you risk looking like a creep. |
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