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Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by Nobody: 10:46pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
if you have another man for your sister to marry then tell her... if NOT, please just let it be. |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by freecocoa(f): 10:47pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
byvan03:How can you be sure someone wanted to marry her when she was Supposedly younger? Or that she made a mistake? 1 Like |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by Nobody: 10:49pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
kingofchess:staying with someone doesn't mean u know him well enough, u can stay with me for yrs buh u won't know much about me 1 Like |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by door2(m): 10:59pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
Plsss pray and fast 4 dem. |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by Nobody: 11:00pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
byvan03: Ok, let me rephrase what I have said without taking you as an example so that you won't feel insulted by a stranger on a faceless forum. Big deal! Any woman who believes that a woman's value diminishes with age should also assume that this is also how her husband sees her value while at the same time desiring a more valuable 20+ girl because a woman can only be a high value woman for a very limited period in time. On a second thought, I do not blame anyone thinking like this. In a country where average life expectancy is 53, being 30 makes you really old. 5 Likes |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by hooklover: 11:01pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
Wen will ladies stop marrying just cos age is not on my side.it shows especially Nigeria ladies have very low self esteem. Also mothers should stop putting pressures on ladies to marry.Marry will come wen it will. I hope ladies realise dere value is not in dere age but in character, charisma,disposition, attitude.With the right attitude you can get the best man.Alas remain positive. 3 Likes |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by Nobody: 11:02pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
MISSCONGENIALITY: Insecure women raising insecure daughters. And it goes on and on. 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by therapistmrs: 11:04pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
Your sister is wrong for wanting to marry a man because age is no longer on her side.remember that age is nothing but a number. If your sister has dated this man for 5 years don't think she knows all what your are saying. If you need to advice your sister,then you need to tell her that she needs to marry for the right reasons and don't boss her partner around even if she is the breadwinner of the family. All the best therapistmrs..com |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by Nobody: 11:05pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
noblegrex: My sister's choices are hers. I support her where I can and no matter how many times she errs, I will be there. But my sister knows better than to preserve, she knows how to enjoy herself. 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by Godblessaplus1(m): 11:08pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
Hey! age is jst a number.. Am 24 and I am so in love with a 29 years old woman.. I like her so much that if not that she is married with kids I could hv married her.. She is jst a friend of mine but I like her so much. Age mean nothing to some guys.. Marriage is a life time commitment.. So.. is bad to rush over it.. 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by Nobody: 11:11pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
Are u sure he was d only one dat lost his job cuz I think u lost ur job too. |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by kunlejazz(m): 11:12pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
Mindfulness: Okay. I understand you're being forward-looking, sounding western and all. But speak the truth, how many thirty something year-old Nigerian women can select like Genevieve? How many Genevieves we even get for Africa? You better tell 'em young girls to select all they can when they're young 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by Nobody: 11:15pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
kunlejazz: You wish! I will share my experience how people tried to scare me in my 20s making me feel insecure and almost rush into a marriage with someone I did not truly desire only to discover later that men are even more desperate than women. 4 Likes |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by byvan03: 11:25pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
Mindfulness: Stranger or not, remain as civilised as you try to portray, Simple! Your value or no value analogy has little or nothing to do with the point here. There is time for everything, being delusional about how it affects mankind changes nothing. Twisting the point to suit your fascination doesn't change the fact that age remains a very major factor in terms of female eligibility. 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by obowunmi(m): 11:25pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
It won't get any better after marriage. Your sister feels age is not on her side and that mentality in itself is extremely dangerous. I imagine that she would rather be married, bitter and unhappy. Her choice, not yours! Sometimes, murder and death is the only way out of convincing someone out of this reality. 1 Like |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by tomdon(m): 11:27pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
Mindfulness: eeyan tan ara e biiya ibeji once a lady clocks 30, sorry is her case. unless your deceiving yourself, your suitors narrow down as u age while prospects for men expand as they age. its not about women loosing value as they age. the choices and chances become slimmer. |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by byvan03: 11:35pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
freecocoa: Only few do not have someone, those ones can not be faulted. Most do have someone but the problem is that some are not even sure of what they want, some have unrealistic expectations. Eternal courtship with no end has blown chances for many too. |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by mikolo80: 11:35pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
cococandy:Mtscheeew see chop toe knuckle. Kai why I no fit meet girl wen get sense like dis for goodness sake ehn. why e be say na all dis agalacha dem full ground |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by ephi123(f): 11:35pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
edwife: Of all sources to quote, DAILY MAIL!! That's like quoting Sun newspaper In any case, can folks please focus on OP's dilemma with his sister... 3 Likes |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by oloyede252(m): 11:37pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
Mindfulness:please dont share your fantasy for us.so keep the lie to ya self |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by oloyede252(m): 11:40pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
elipheleh:lol.hate ke.did she rape you |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by freecocoa(f): 11:43pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
byvan03:I see your point, though even with all these, age is still just a number in this context. |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by Nobody: 11:46pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
byvan03: It may be the case for you, it is not the case for me. 3 Likes |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by poshestmina(f): 12:12am On Feb 06, 2016 |
cococandy: You are one of the reasons I come to Family section God bless you sir/ma 1 Like |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by byvan03: 12:14am On Feb 06, 2016 |
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Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by Nobody: 12:24am On Feb 06, 2016 |
byvan03: I would much rather deceive myself than argue that I am of less value with every day. 4 Likes |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by KanwuliaExtra: 12:36am On Feb 06, 2016 |
Mindfulness: O jes o! 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by Nobody: 12:38am On Feb 06, 2016 |
KanwuliaExtra: Keep it up! It is good to see happy people. |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by cococandy(f): 12:40am On Feb 06, 2016 |
poshestmina:Aww.Bless you too |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by cococandy(f): 12:53am On Feb 06, 2016 |
mikolo80:Look well. You're not looking well. Maybe Brazilian hair and fake lashes are still confusing you #Kidding |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by KanwuliaExtra: 12:59am On Feb 06, 2016 |
Mindfulness: Thank you jare! Since I stepped into NL, I have NEVER had a miserable existence on or offline. Even when I have encountered the most WRETCHED beings online. . . I am always a happy soul. The secret? A happy upbringing with love and abundant joy!!! The MOST LOVING FATHER and MOTHER. And growing with the MOST FANTASTIC siblings! I can NEVER be tarnished by the CURSED lives of others. . . . On or offline. For who JAH bless, no one shall curse. My father always told me. . . . Psalm 91 is my destiny. It will always HOLD TRUE! "A thousand shalt fall. . . And ten thousand . . . . BUT!" It has always been so, on and offline. It is well with you. 1 Like |
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